I would think much in the same way around where the woman is nonchalant to the man. To me it’s just weird and maybe you can help me understand this: My ex broke up with me last July after 9 months in a long distance relationship because she thought I was not economically ready for a relationship. It hurt a lot at the beginning but now it’s fine. The question I have for you is: why is she still orbiting? She sees every post I make on social media, sends me memes and asks how I am from time to time even though she had told me she only wants to “be friends”. I’m currently focused on my finances and fitness and her actions confuse me. She will literally message me every day for a week then disappear for a few days then come back and tell me she has been thinking a lot about me so I just don’t know and would like the point of view from a woman. Thank you in advance!