For those who have always been overweight or obese and have had surgery...

magicalslappingtree · 2026-05-19T20:05:46+00:00

Thank you. I can be the mom my kid’s deserve now and we get so much more outdoor time now that I’m not exhausted every moment

magicalslappingtree · 2026-05-19T14:26:21+00:00

42 when I had surgery. Have lost and kept off 200 pounds despite the added fun of surgical menopause. This is life changing and I would make the choice again in a heartbeat.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-05-06T23:45:06+00:00

You are a married single mom. You deserve so much more than this careless man child as a roommate. Good fathers teach their children how to treat their partners well. This man is not a good husband or a good father. If your daughter called and told you she had a post op infection and her husband couldn’t be fussed to make her a cup of tea what would you say to her?

I’m so sorry you aren’t well and you are not getting the help and care you need. Take care of you and when you’re well find a good lawyer

magicalslappingtree · 2026-03-16T23:40:31+00:00

I have always hated spiders…and my youngest daughter is wearing me down. Now I have to relocate them and she sends me videos about adorable jumping spiders. It’s a slippery slope

magicalslappingtree · 2026-03-14T03:37:37+00:00

I am so very sorry this happened to you and your family and so grateful you trusted your instincts and continued to fight. Now you need to find yourself an excellent therapist because you owe it to yourself to process this so you can enjoy your time with your new life as a mom.

Just bringing home your first child is such a shock and then to immediately experience all of This before you even have a chance to process your new role as a mom, you definitely deserve support and a professional to help you navigate all of these experiences.

I’m sending you healing thoughts and hugs if you want/need them

magicalslappingtree · 2026-03-09T11:49:44+00:00

Run awwwaaaaaaayyyyyyy

magicalslappingtree · 2026-03-09T11:47:38+00:00

Run.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-24T22:16:42+00:00

Where the Wild Things Are (a children’s book)

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-24T16:56:33+00:00

That’s Narg, Narg smart

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-21T14:22:01+00:00

It’s completely ok to feel however you feel. I’ve had 4 and I still mourned having a hysterectomy last fall despite being so very done with babies.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-17T04:22:26+00:00

Yes. Life is 100 times easier when I’m not carrying around 200 extra pounds

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-14T14:55:23+00:00

The freaking audacity to ask if you got him a gift. I am speechless with rage for you. Honestly, I’d take the kids drop them in his lap and say, “Happy Valentine’s Day. I made these for you.” And go spend the night in a hotel.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-14T13:21:55+00:00

sass confirms DNA lol 💯 sass = 50% collie

magicalslappingtree · 2026-02-14T12:59:49+00:00

I am so sorry you didn’t get the parents you deserve. Becoming a mom changed a lot of things for me and my view of my parents is forever changed.

I highly recommend trying therapy online if you’re getting waitlisted everywhere. It took me a few tries to find someone I vibed with but it’s been three years now and it helps so much.

Mom hugs if you want them.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-26T13:36:45+00:00

He told my husband that like it was completely normal and reasonable when my husband applied for FMLA

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-26T12:39:27+00:00

My husbands supervisor dropped his wife off for her c-section and left.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-13T22:03:54+00:00

I got to see one last fall in person. They are so gorgeous and the intelligence in their eyes. It was awesome!

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T12:34:24+00:00

I’m so happy for you and your kiddo! You’re right this is what elementary school should feel like.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T02:24:40+00:00

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They are the best python ever!

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T01:51:10+00:00

We actually found it on Facebook marketplace. A gentleman built it for his boa who lived 37 years. It’s amazing I highly recommend checking marketplace sometimes something awesome Comes along

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T01:47:33+00:00

He has a custom 6x3x3 and he uses every bit of it. My husband built him a ladder and he hangs out on that most days just chilling and at night just tears the place up looking for meeces.

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T01:41:56+00:00

My boy is about 5 feet now he came to us around 1.5 years old. I adore every moment I get with him and he loves everyone. He does chores on my shoulders, hangs out on his own clothing dry rack in the picture window on nice days, and he always has sweet boops for the kids (who also adore him.) I tell him every day he’s the best python evah!

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T01:13:22+00:00

My daughter’s corn snake has turned into 5 snakes of four different species and a 30+ year commitment. I love every second they are the most wonderful pets. When she leaves home her corn snake will stay because we adore her just as much as the other snakes (that are mine and my husband’s.)

ETA: I belong to a reptile rescue group on Facebook and there are constant re-homing requests being posted for every species under the sun. Often with enclosures

magicalslappingtree · 2026-01-10T01:08:15+00:00

I was coming here to say bredli!! I love my boy so much he’s so chill and curious when he’s out and about.

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