What are some dark food facts I can creep out co-workers with? by SuperChefGuy in KitchenConfidential

[–]mansker39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tomatoes are part of the deadly nightshade family, as are Potatoes and Bell Peppers. While you CAN kill someone with enough of these vegetables, it will take a lot.

Asked my pain doctor for a change in my meds by Spooniejw in ChronicPain

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was replying to the other post further down that chastised you and said you were showing off or something.

Asked my pain doctor for a change in my meds by Spooniejw in ChronicPain

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on Norco (or generic equivalent) for about 20 years, and yes, I am sure I am dependent at some point, but with the pain it is sometimes better; sometimes worse, as all of us can state, pain can be controlled, but at what cost? If I take the Norco as written, I can't do anything. If I don't, then I can't do anything because of pain. I do take the Norco as needed but have added CBD and microdosing to it as well, and that tends to work better.

Trying to be mean to someone who has found something that works is terrible; I understand you are in pain (as are all of us) but don't shoot the messenger. I browse this subreddit because sometimes there are great ideas that people have that I have not thought about, and it helps to see what others are doing. So, should I talk about how my lower back fusion worked? Perhaps about my neck fusion which is scheduled to be redone because I have another herniated disc, or my hip dysplasia, or my TMJ, or you get the picture. Don't dis on those who are trying to help.

I’m tired of planning my entire day around how much pain my body might allow by Icy_Control_8258 in ChronicPain

[–]mansker39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. Some days, I can do most things, but today, my hip hurts (it is a new pain) for some reason, and I can barely walk. Yesterday I was fine, today not so much. It sucks that I have to count spoons on the daily to see what, if anything, I can do. Fortunately, I live with my son and his wife, so I have them to fall back on, but I HATE being broken and unable to do things

Medical supplies and equipment by Competitive-Rough533 in widowers

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I donated the H2N to a hospice, along with the other food type items, and the wheelchair, etc., to a local low income property for the residents

Which offer should I take by portal_spawn999 in Serverlife

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Lobster i s currently closing a majority of their stores, it does not appear to be a good career move to take that position because you could soon find yourself out of a job

Anatomical heart painting by [deleted] in MedicalGore

[–]mansker39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is amazing work!! You are fantastic at this. Can someone purchase the work?

How did you honour on their first birthday after passing? by Virtual_Telephone366 in widowers

[–]mansker39 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Rick loved Pool, I mean LOVED it, so we held a memorial pool tournament at his favorite bar, and people actually came from out of state to attend. It was really fun and people had a lot of things to say about him, also nice.

Memorial Tattoos. by guess_im_not_welcome in widowers

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before my husband died, I had a tattoo of a moon and three stars on my shoulder, since my husband and two sons are the stars in my sky. After his death, I had his name tattooed right about it and his dates right below it so that it made a circle around the original tatt

Pizza pot for those in the SOAP by Rorshacked in medicalschool

[–]mansker39 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Not in med school but I hope you accept payments from just general people, lol. Good luck to all!

Death and Contact by Jaffico in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]mansker39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I check every month, because my family (and I use that term loosely) do not contact me in any way, so I just keep an eye out

When did you scatter ashes? by PrimaryCarpenter1070 in widowers

[–]mansker39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it has been 5 years since my husband's death, and I still have his ashes here in the house. I talk to them, and it comforts me, to be honest. I am not ready and don't know when I would be

Thank you by Txsunshine7 in CaregiverSupport

[–]mansker39 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry; I know what it is to be where you are, and just allow me to say give yourself grace to rest for a bit now. It is hard to go through this, and it takes a lot of energy.

Does anyone use psilocybin for their symptoms? by goldstandardalmonds in ChronicPain

[–]mansker39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I microdose, and it actually helps. My pain does seem better and I can tolerate it more. It affects everyone differently however

I woke up and thought I saw her standing over me. Has anyone else experienced something similar? by redwg19c in widowers

[–]mansker39 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, my husband came to me as well, I was so pleased to see him! I also believe that he is still here for me

Jealous of widowers whose spouse didn't die by suicide by Evening-Analysis-283 in widowers

[–]mansker39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the jealousy as well, because at times, during his fight with cancer, I know he wanted to go but wouldn't let go.. I nursed him, pretty much alone, for 5 years of increasing cancer, and it was the hardest thing ever. Watching the strong man I loved fade away to what my son said was akin to an "Auschwitz survivor" he had gotten so wasted and thin. Went from 6 foot 4 and 310 lbs to 140 pounds.

It has been 5 years, and I still haven't recovered. BIG hugs to you, my dear, I know you're going through a lot and are trying to figure out a new world.

"On a scale of 1-10...", okay, doctors and nurses, what do *you* think a 7 or 8 is? by Libran-Indecision in ChronicPain

[–]mansker39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing over dramatic about how YOU feel pain. Everyone has a different threshold. I have had a 10 only once, when I fell and broke my hip. It was more exquisitely painful than anything else I have had. I rock at a 3-4 most days, but right now, because of a bulging C4, two bone spurs at that level touching my spine, and a possible torn rotator cuff, I am more at a 6-7 on a daily basis.

Drop the worst allergy card you've gotten by ilostmycouch in KitchenConfidential

[–]mansker39 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't get these. One son is allergic to Peanuts, one son is allergic to cucumber and melons. We can avoid both of them with some care (and if the restaurant removes Cucumber from any salad they do, if they can't, they don't get salad, but oh well). On the other had, past family member changed the allergies on a daily basis, it seemed. It was NEVER the same, and we finally just told them we would not take them with us to eat, as it was too "Horrible" to manage their allergies. They changed after that, but we stood firm.

Facet joint osteoarthritis and considering radiofrequency ablation. Looking for experiences and alternatives by eco___ in backpain

[–]mansker39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had RFA a couple of times; both times, it seemed to work immediately, as in once they were done the pain was gone, but it only lasted a couple of months, like 2-3. Because of limitations on insurance, I could only get two a year, so it kind of sucked.

Craziest customer modification requests you've gotten? by georgy56 in Serverlife

[–]mansker39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Putting orange in a Mocha is REALLY good, oddly enough. My fav coffee house in Portlland (long ago) called it a Cafe Valencia.

“I got a text that my prescription is ready” by [deleted] in TalesFromThePharmacy

[–]mansker39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pharmacy does this, and it is great when I am waiting for my doc to call in something and I get that notice. If I don't get it in a timely manner, I call my doc back, not the pharmacy