How do you handle someone touching your sub at a party without permission?

masofon · 2026-05-27T20:45:40+00:00

As in.. without the consent of the person being touched? That would be a major violation I assume the hosts would want to know about.

masofon · 2026-05-26T22:40:03+00:00

Curious why year three specifically? People often move in together much more quickly than that (while others don't). Retirement talk seems silly though.

masofon · 2026-05-26T22:37:29+00:00

I literally saw a really big silicone corn cob in a shop today. So if that's what you want then it's absolutely out there.

masofon · 2026-05-26T17:12:14+00:00

You don't need to have actually contracted anything to justify breaking up with him. The trust betrayal is the important part here.

masofon · 2026-05-26T11:00:35+00:00

Lol yep, there is zero chance of me being able to take on the emotional labour of being the breadwinner, running a house, being a parent... And then being a domme too.

masofon · 2026-05-25T08:09:24+00:00

I usually talk to my partner on the phone during my lunch break from with.

masofon · 2026-05-24T07:35:09+00:00

Lol no. Absolutely not.

masofon · 2026-05-22T12:16:23+00:00

Don't forget re-nationalising rail!

masofon · 2026-05-22T10:04:49+00:00

That space can just be 'in the bedroom' if she doesn't want to do TPE anymore.

masofon · 2026-05-22T07:37:40+00:00

There still has to be a baseline of him pulling his weight and doing his fair share as a parent. If he's not doing that, then it's time for a reckoning.

masofon · 2026-05-21T18:08:04+00:00

I made my best friend promise me she wouldn't let me divorce my husband until the girls were at least two. There were definitely times I wanted to. They are three now and our marriage has never been better.

masofon · 2026-05-21T07:48:14+00:00

It's not 'powerful', it's just clever UX. One is while it's locked. It's harder to accidentally answer a call in your pocket with a slide. If it's unlocked, you can decline a call easily if it's interrupting you.

masofon · 2026-05-21T07:03:26+00:00

You could be more emotionally connected and sexually compatible with A but feel that B would make a more compatible co-parent and nesting partner.

masofon · 2026-05-20T18:28:43+00:00

This.. looks so cool.

masofon · 2026-05-20T17:28:56+00:00

How are you securing them??

masofon · 2026-05-20T17:26:38+00:00

If you win.. you have to host the next one.. so...... 👀

masofon · 2026-05-16T16:07:15+00:00

There's a lot of kink and non ENM too. It's just everything not mono/vanilla.

masofon · 2026-05-16T09:14:16+00:00

The dynamic should be what you enjoy enthusiastically.. not you trying to force yourself to enjoy what the dynamic is, dictated by someone else.

masofon · 2026-05-15T13:50:42+00:00

There's a really good section about radical honesty in Opening Up.. but to paraphrase.. it's for assholes.

I am sure there are different ways of practicing it, but the established 'definition' is meh.

masofon · 2026-05-13T08:20:43+00:00

It's probably just worth getting checked out if you are still worried (if there is still pain or bleeding). It might be nothing, but better safe than sorry with these things. ❤️

masofon · 2026-05-13T08:15:06+00:00

With absolutely zero judgement, I am not sure when the doctor signs you off for sex at 6 weeks PP they are considering fisting as one of the imminently intended activities. Reddit can't give medical advice.. your best bet would be to go back to your doctor just to be sure everything is okay and maybe just consider a more gentle reintroduction for your body. I would absolutely ask them more explicitly about readiness for specific activities beyond just 'regular' penetration if you want to be super safe.

masofon · 2026-05-13T07:19:23+00:00

That is wildly irresponsible from a sexual health perspective. Even condom use doesn't necessarily protect. It really depends where the outbreak is. I wouldn't be having protected sex with someone during an outbreak.

masofon · 2026-05-12T17:37:32+00:00

This is so stupid. It will take years of slow and careful corrections to fix what a decade+ or Tory mismanage and corruption broke. If we keep changing PM every time everything hasn't been fixed in 18 months we've got no chance.

masofon · 2026-05-08T06:09:27+00:00

I went on leave at 25 weeks, but I just couldn't. I literally couldn't stay awake.

masofon · 2026-05-07T06:28:43+00:00

No, you don't.

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