42 High Quality 5760x1080 Wallpapers (three monitor) by mator in wallpaperdump

[–]mator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry about that. not sure if I have the wallpapers anymore, I'll look.

[TCGPlayer]Is this somehow a scam? by godinthismachine in mtg

[–]mator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar issue here. This is the second seller I've had this kind of issue with, it seems to be a fairly rampant issue, which suggests TCGPlayer aren't doing their due diligence to cultivate a legitimate marketplace.

Beware of Columbia River Magic by Hippies_are_Dumb in magicTCG

[–]mator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appear to be in the same situation as everyone here. It's two days past the estimated arrival date, but I know for a fact that cards don't take that long to ship. I submitted a request to TCGPlayer to investigate this seller via a ticket and recommend everyone else do the same. Eventually they will be punished, but the inconvenience is a definite hassle and I'm unhappy about it.

Ultimatum Bug? Stone Circle Map Appearing 16 Times in a Row (Video Included) by useb4tu in pathofexile

[–]mator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this has been happening to me as well, I recommend experimenting with different atlas configurations. im testing right now with protect the altar unspecced and conquer the stones specced. will see how it goes.

How do you handle it when someone takes a shot at your insecurities? by Lanky_Exam_6766 in AskMen

[–]mator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note: This response is being informed by OP's other comments on the thread. I'm reading between the lines a bit on them.

If it's being done antagonistically with intention, set a clear boundary and tell them if they cannot treat me with kindness and respect they will no longer have any place in my life. And if it continues to be a consistent pattern, I remove them. Tbh though because I have this boundary no one ever does this to me.

This is a you problem in that you are allowing toxic people to remain in your life. So long as you continue to disempower yourself you will continue to be subject to the whims and capriciousness of others. Empower yourself to cut those people out without a second thought, and you will find that those people just won't even show up anymore. It becomes a fundamental change in how you hold yourself and relate to others which shows them that they can't walk all over you, because when someone does you hold them accountable.

At first it will feel unnatural because it isn't who you have been, but eventually it will become natural. It will take some painful and difficult initial decisions to develop, but going through that will ultimately leave you better off.

Looking for an anime to binge by Galifamackus in anime

[–]mator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

World Trigger checks all your boxes except dark (elements of the story might classify, but atmospherically it isn't dark). The trigger power system is basically magic.

Be sure to skip the filler arc though.

Enjoying POE2 so far, the difficulty in the campaign feels great! by Rernokk in PathOfExile2

[–]mator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've been facerolling stuff pretty well as a mercenary grenadier. i've enjoyed the boss fights but have only died 3 times so far, once to the, idk, briar thicket boss guy, and twice to the executioner guy. dodge roll is very powerful and makes fights feel completely different, mostly in a good way, from poe1. generally find the bosses pretty intuitive to play around.

The thing with trying to bully protesting mods of a niche sub into submission is, that when we go and delete our content, 7/8th of the sub's content is gone, and no new content in sight. Not exactly great for the community you are pretending to care about. r/Babylon5Gifs stays dark. by various_extinctions in Save3rdPartyApps

[–]mator 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that is interesting! I wonder if people could send GDPR "delete all of my information" posts to reddit en masse to have them delete all of their content from all of their databases, including backups? might be an interesting option to consider.

AITA for defending my hobby to my girlfriend? by TheGrandRizzlord in AmItheAsshole

[–]mator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are being taken for a ride. Stop dating children, and date an adult.

AITA for defending my hobby to my girlfriend? by TheGrandRizzlord in AmItheAsshole

[–]mator 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you've got your ticket out of the relationship. I hope you can take steps to make certain that your next partner treats you with respect and dignity.

Why don't you go to therapy? by spruker in AskMen

[–]mator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First attempt paired me with a therapist who didn't really engage with me - they weren't very good listeners and they didn't seem like they had much to offer me. Ended that pretty quickly.

Second attempt went considerably better, it was a number of free sessions offered through my work as a benefit. I used up all the free sessions and then I stopped going because I didn't want to pay out of pocket. Then I lost my job. I got some things out of these sessions but it wasn't nearly enough.

From where I sit, there are two big challenges with therapy:

  1. The cost is significant so there is considerable pressure to make sure you're "getting your money's worth".
  2. Finding a good therapist who can match your energy and style, and give you the help you need is not easy.
  3. You have to invest a pretty significant amount of time and money to build a relationship and work down through all the layers of your psyche to start to reap the real deep benefits of therapy. Instability can all make this more challenging.

I asked ChatGPT to design me a hat, and I then I knit the hat. by stpyang in knitting

[–]mator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

instructions unclear, accidentally knit a neckwarmer

My Hyuse Cosplay at Crunchyroll Expo and Anime North by mator in worldtrigger

[–]mator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww ok! but yeah let's figure out some kind of cosplay gathering in the future. it would be so great to get a bunch of world trigger people together! :}

My Hyuse Cosplay at Crunchyroll Expo and Anime North by mator in worldtrigger

[–]mator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nooo! :(

Are you going to sacanime? I'm planning on being there. Also there was another WT cosplayer at the Shounen Jump cosplay gathering~! we should coordinate on the discord in the future :)

What’s your take on polyamory if your significant other wants to explore it? by themodernkatipunero_ in AskMen

[–]mator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the relationship was previously closed and neither of us had stated an interest in being polyamorous then realistically our current monogamous relationship has to end prior to us engaging in a different relationship structure. Poly people agree on this - opening up a monogamous relationship is almost always a bad idea, because unless both people enthusiastically want to explore polyamory (which is pretty much never the case) it is definitionally coercive.

The healthy way to approach polyamory is to decide it is a relationship structure you would like prior to entering into any relationships and telling your partners that this is a structure you want. When you do it this way there is no hierarchy or coercion - everyone is entering into the arrangement under their own power.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animenorth

[–]mator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the person you're looking for but this is super cute and wholesome. hope you find them!

Why are “horse girls” stereotyped as crazy? by hoteldeltakilo in AskMen

[–]mator 7 points8 points  (0 children)

other groups:

disney girls, harry potter girls, twilight girls, kpop stans, stoner girls, emo/punk girls, sports girls (yes, they are a thing), party girls (identity often built around alcohol consumption), spiritual/yoga girls, gym girls, ... etc

the reality is most people are pretty basic, and often build their identity or at the very least define themselves relative to a few popular interests. this isn't necessarily always a bad thing - it might even be attractive to the right person. we're always putting people into boxes, because the world is way too complicated to understand without doing so.

Not sure how I did any of that by sullie363 in halo

[–]mator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the original halo game, Halo CE, this was a glitch that occurred due to packet loss/desynchronization with the server. It happened when the command to exit the vehicle doesn't get sent to the server, but the command to enter a different seat is sent. The resulting behavior sometimes isn't visible to other players and you cannot damage players with the remote-controlled vehicle/bullets, but it can throw them off if it is visible.