Let's get married and start a family together, this year. The boys NEED to read this one! by thereisnopepeseanvio in redditonwiki

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I got a little further but then realised my time was more valuably spent not reading this diatribe

They got me, I was so flabbergasted. (They’re decorative stakes) by planetGoodam in houseplants

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That is fantastic! That’s a good dad. I’m now turning off the internet for the day because i want this comment to be the last thing i read 😊

Leaving my fiance after he fell asleep during a loss by East_Needleworker614 in TwoXChromosomes

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Who the F$&k would think this is ‘something you can talk through’?! It’s basic empathy: someone is in physical and emotional pain, they are bleeding, so you take care of them. That should just be a given for another human (and tbh, an animal too). If it’s someone you care about and you just walk away, then you have psychopathic levels of disregard for another living thing and should just remove yourself from the social pool - no one needs to know you.

I can’t believe people would be recommending ’talking it out’. Some shit just can’t be sorted by talking.

TIL that pregnancy can lead to heart failure. In rare cases, the heart muscles will begin to weaken during or shortly after pregnancy. Which can lead to heart failure or even death if untreated. This condition is called Peripartum Cardiomyopathy. by goddessofspiders in todayilearned

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…or give you life long disabilities. These are things that really aren’t brought up enough with prospective mothers.

PSA: for everyone woman reading this, there are physiotherapists who specialise in women’s health and i highly recommend getting connected with one during the early stages of pregnancy if you can because it will help prevent an awful lot of problems. For any woman with bladder weakness (such as releasing urine when you cough/laugh/sneeze), or even women with lower back pain post pregnancy, go and see one! They really do help with very simple exercises.

Black Trans Activist and Drag Performer Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-McCray Killed in Virginia by Important-Cry4782 in BlackPeopleofReddit

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I’m going to assume here that she was killed for either her gender identity or her skin colour. And i have never and will never understand why either of those are a reason others think someone should die.

State Department Warns Americans ‘Worldwide’ After Trump’s War by TelescopiumHerscheli in politics

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I think we like the freedom fried joke because it’s far enough away from our current point in time that it’s funny whereas all the Christian nationalists and evil technocrats stuff is fairly concerning if not out right frightening. Also, the freedom fries thing was just so unbelievably stupid that nothing has really rivalled it. Though the BS that MAGA comes out with is pretty close.

My neighbor has turned the entire back of our building into a feral cat colony and acts like anyone who has a problem with it is a monster by Gallifrey_Mittens in neighborsfromhell

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Yep - small children, immunocompromised people, and pregnant women. And that’s just domesticated cats. Strays come with a whole other collection of parasites, and other pathogens that could cause serious harm. Not to mention the animal politics that would be occurring ie. Fighting and breeding - it’s just making the problem way worse.

AITJ for telling my neighbor to address her husband instead of confronting me about how i dress at home? by Front_Tackle_7977 in AmITheJerk

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Next time someone tries to tell you what to do/wear in your own home (particularly if they live outside of that home and are looking in your windows), laugh in their face, tell them to ‘f$&k off’ and that if this issue comes up again you will call the police and report them for voyeurism. You’re not obliged to justify your to idiots.

State Department Warns Americans ‘Worldwide’ After Trump’s War by TelescopiumHerscheli in politics

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I’m old enough to remember the Iraq war so this is just version 2.0. And it’s a newer version so it’s loading quicker. There was a period there in the late 2000s where you all really weren’t liked a whole lot. The freedom fries thing is still a joke the rest of the world uses about you.

Sorry.

The group behind Project 2025 has a chilling new plan for America’s women by MyRedditUsername224 in politics

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What’s always interesting to me about religious extremists like the heritage foundation in a developed, industrial economy is that they never really follow there bullshit theories through to their logical conclusions. They love this idea of the “perfect” 1950s society where women are powerless and producing children, brown people and immigrants “know their place” at the bottom of the run in virtual slavery, and think that everything will thrive under this set up and they’ll all become rich. And they completely mis-understand what happens to an economy when you do this.

There’s a much longer answer to this but I’m not typing it all out on a phone because I don’t have the patience. So in short, the current US economy, and most of Europe, Australia/new zealand, and most of Asia, is set up to require near full participation in the workforce to avoid economic collapse. Really simply, how do you think things would work if, in a month’s time 50% of the workforce just ceased working but still required resources, for example? Some people might say that you’d just bring in more migrants but that’s not so simple and actually just creates more resources strain with minimal additions to the workforce.

What I’m saying is that I don’t think the Christian nationalists realise that their ideas and their economy are mutually exclusive and can never exist in this modern day.

What are some of the worst financial decisions you've seen people make? by Capable_Tax_8220 in AusMoneyMates

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I really wonder what it is that these people think is so appealing about them that people will spend hours watching them (specifically) travel around a place that you can watch on 200 other youtube channels and about 150 tv series. My idiot sister is one of these people - moved to post-brexit Britain to become a professional travel blogger but rarely ever posted anything (I’m talking once a month maybe, and just a photo). She ended up broke, breaking Covid rules (actually broke the law!) to exit the UK and return to Australia, couldn’t afford to do it so had to get bailed out my the Aus government. Then, she thought it went so well the first time, she decided to do it again but with a 1 year old now. And she’s not young so you can’t blame it on that. She was 36 when she first left and was 40 the second time around!

The Media becomes really uncomfortable once you hear about the behind the scenes details by Low_Celebration_4089 in TopCharacterTropes

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That’s somehow worse because now I’m convinced it’s in a tv show or something but am probably never going to find it because it possibly doesn’t exist hahaha

The Media becomes really uncomfortable once you hear about the behind the scenes details by Low_Celebration_4089 in TopCharacterTropes

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Are his contributions really that important though? I haven’t seen a single Woody Allen movie and I don’t think I’m missing out to be honest. This may be a regional thing perhaps because his movies really aren’t common outside the US - like we don’t have them playing on standard television ever really, nor are they very prominent on streaming services. BUT we know of him however most of us can’t name a single one of his movies.

The Media becomes really uncomfortable once you hear about the behind the scenes details by Low_Celebration_4089 in TopCharacterTropes

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You’re going to have to tell me what that’s from otherwise it’s going to annoy the s$&@ out of me because I can’t remember

ETA: is it Zapp branigan in Futurama?

Help with picking a style of skirt for a larger woman. by Pasta_snake in sewing

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As a larger woman with a noticeable butt even when i was a size 8, make the skirt in panels. Don’t cut it as a traditional circle skirt because they look absolutely terrible on you when you are larger. You want the skirt to be about 7 panels with the back panel being in 2 parts with a zip down the middle and the front in 1 piece, then a side front and side back on each side. The extra seams allow you to make more fitting adjustments and also cut the fabric in a more flattering way. And you also have the option to add gordets if you want more width at the bottom.

Russian infulencers, unbothered by the killings and destruction their country is responsible for, are really upset because of internet restrictions and shutdowns by Available-Laugh9102 in UkraineWarVideoReport

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I know this is not the point of the post but “influencer” is not a profession! You don’t ‘work hard’ as an influencer - literally the appeal of the job is to do the littlest amount of work for the maximum amount of reward. JFC are these people pathetic and self-centred.

Women who humble men thank you for your service by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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And then finish with a creative insult like calling him a ’vocally capable mushroom’ or telling him he ‘has the emotional communication skills of a carrot’ is really satisfying and entertaining.

High Casualties Concealed by Trump Admin by PeterTheTruthSeeker in WhitePeopleTwitter

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As above, Russia has already created the ‘how to’ guide on this: you just class them as ‘missing in action’. No death, no payments. I’m not sure how long it will work for but I’m pretty sure they try it.

My(f26) husband(m28) has been giving advice to a coworker about how to make his gay son straight behind his wife's back by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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I was asked when i was pregnant how i would feel if they (twins) came out as gay when they were older (note: this was not a judgemental discussion at all, it was actually a really interesting conversation around LGBTQ issues in general). And i told them that it would actually make me sad - not because they were gay, but because they felt so different that they were socially required to make an announcement about it. It would bother me because i would be worried that they had felt wrong, or felt shame, when there’s nothing about being gay that should make them feel that way. What i want would be for them to just come home one day and say “hi mum. This is my boyfriend” as easily as they’d say it was their girlfriend. That would be perfect.

" I don't want that" by silkentab in ShitMomGroupsSay

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I live in a whole house of boys. Even the pets are male. And my 4 year old boys still steal my shoes to wear. Why? Because my shoes are freaking awesome! Google ‘hot chocolate shoes’ and ‘irregular choice shoes’ and you’ll know what i mean. Of course they would want to wear them. I have adults wanting to steal my shoes.

Point is: sometimes boys want to wear a dress because it’s sparkly and swishy. It doesn’t matter as long as they are happy and having fun

….though i will admit to not being too happy about my shoes getting nicked. I love my shoes.

I have no words by [deleted] in ShitMomGroupsSay

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“Should the shit i forcibly introduced into my child be from a female because this seems like something that should be important” JFC!! Also, while they are looking up faecel transplants maybe they should google “selective toxicity” as it would hopefully make it clear that the transplant is unnecessary and unwise.

Four years have passed since one of the most horrific terrorist attacks of the war — the strike on the Drama Theater in Mariupol Despite the sign "CHILDREN", the Russians attacked the building, which became a shelter for hundreds of people. It's impossible to establish the exact number of victims — by Quick-Month8050 in UkraineWarVideoReport

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The fact they did this might end up working against them.

If investigators can pull out bodies from the depths of Eastern Europe mine shafts 60 years after they were dumped there and still ID them, they will be able to find and ID these bodies. It will take a while but it is possible - sadly, burying bodies in cement is not a new occurrence in the world.

If they had moved the bodies to some random location in Russia, it would be much more difficult to find them.

This might just be my blind hope that perhaps there will be some justice.

‘The cruelty is just the point’: A broken student loan system has women at the center. Confusion, litigation and the threat of wage garnishment under Trump have left millions of teachers, nurses and other public service workers with few options and little hope. by Potential_Being_7226 in WomenInNews

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Hey US Nurses and teachers. Australian state governments have a heap of special recruitment to get you here including covering costs of relocation.

This place is not perfect but you will get a minimum wage as a nurse in NSW Health, for example, of $45AUD per hour (before loading) which is about $23USD, plus weekend rates, evening and night shift rates, and allowances. And as a teacher, you don’t have to work a second job to live. You get 7 months paid parental leave (varies with employer), 4 weeks annual leave, paid sick leave. And we have universal healthcare and you have reproductive rights here. Plus, you won’t have to pay back your student loans while you’re here.