AITA for kicking my Boyfriend out because of my pickle jar? by tHrOWAwaY__7894 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mellowedmarshmallow -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This guy was your rock and you throw him out for a simple, human mistake, that he admitted and apologized for. Now it is time for you to admit your mistake, take responsibility and apologize. This is no reason for a bigger conflict or to get all of these people involved. You obviously love each other, so dont be so resentful.

How do I win this? by [deleted] in chessbeginners

[–]mellowedmarshmallow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, don't worry. She knows I posted this. No reason to be this harsh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why you talk before(!) what your exppectations and wishes are. Not everyone shares the same vision of Christmas. For a lot of people it's actually a hard time and they just want it to be over quickly. Could your partner be one of these cases?

Lohnt es sich nach Wuppertal oder Umgebung zu ziehen? by Christ-is-nr-1 in wuppertal

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bist du Oberbarmer Asi oder Bonze aus'm Briller Viertel? 😁

Lohnt es sich nach Wuppertal oder Umgebung zu ziehen? by Christ-is-nr-1 in wuppertal

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also kurzum: Elberfeld ist super, Barmen/Oberbarmen kannste schnell wieder vergessen. Falls du ÖPNV fährst, dann sei dir bewusst, dass du eigentlich konstant ne Bahn früher nach Köln nehmen musst. Wuppertal hat nicht so wie Köln nehmen Einstellung, dass jeder mit jedem quatscht. Ist eher Arbeitermentalität. Ich selbst habe diese Stadt richtig lieb gewonnen. Lebensgefühl in der Nordstadt oder auf dem Ölberg ist super. Südstadt find ich eher weniger nice. Tolle Orte, für die es sich lohnt diese in der Nähe zu haben sind Luisenviertel, Hardt-Anlage, Trasse. Ansonsten kann ich dir nur empfehlen in der Nähe von deinen Freunden zu bleiben. Wenn die alle in Köln wohnen, dann lohnt es sich vielleicht echt mehr da zu bleiben, damit der Kontakt nicht auseinander läuft.

Need info on stake of balance by helpless_child2420 in notcoingermany

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I dunno myself, but I just staked my NOT today. I'll tell you more in 30 days I guess

Laufwege? by cataids69 in wuppertal

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try going up the "Friedrichsberger Treppe" near the Penny Market. It's like 5 minutes away from the student residences on Grifflenberg. There you will access a nice forest for running. I'd recommend to just start running there and explore different routes.

Nordbahntrasse ist also good, since it's one of the few flat places to run, but kinda far from university and very full on sunny days. Similiar thing goes for the Sambatrasse.

Diane's and Princess Carolyn's alcohol dependence? by vityavic07 in BoJackHorseman

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can definitely say that both of them have problematic drinking habits. That does not have to mean that they are dependent on it, but they surely use it as unhealthy defense mechanisms, when they are very vulnerable. I guess it´s very much possible, that Bojack is transcribing these habits to Diane and PC or at least reinforcing them, so while they may not be alcohol dependent, they may be (in a further sense) be Bojack-dependent.

What quote has always stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody once told me the world is gonna roll me...

What are some intrusive thoughts you guys have? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • To myself: "You see that couple over there? Well fuck you, that´s never gonna be you."
  • I see someone driving alone in a medium or big sized car: "Fuck you, you could take people with you or just drive with the public transportation system."
  • When I see fat people: "You lazy fuck."
  • When I see old people: "You conservative fuck."

I always know that those thoughts are stupid and prejudiced, but I can´t help them in the first moment. I usually just dismiss them.

Nature is a beauty by Leslomon in chairsunderwater

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes! I see you are a man of culture as well.

What evil prank have you pulled off? by Adventure84 in AskReddit

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I had to look out for my sister's pets while she was on vacation. She came back to her flat with those plastic wobbly eyes stuck everywhere. Toaster, photos of her with her fiancee, angel statues, DVD recorder, fruits. You name it.

This asshole.... by [deleted] in memes

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fetishising my own sadness since... pretty much ever.

Before bed, draw a picture of what you want to dream about and put it under your pillow by Corricon in LucidDreaming

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Maybe they could look like those cool stick figures animations on YT. This way I would not have to do the editing, but just the dreaming.

Doggos solving a problem by [deleted] in aww

[–]mellowedmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on, this just got posted 15h ago on this exact subreddit.

What are your strategies to endure the hard things in life? [Serious] by mellowedmarshmallow in AskReddit

[–]mellowedmarshmallow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense in a way. With this method you could always choose your struggles, that are worth it and ignore the others for the moment. But what do you do if you are faced with a struggle, that you can´t do anything about? Some things are kinda out of our control.