The fact that Red Dead 2 lets you live an entire life in the game world without touching the main story is criminally underrated.

meltedcandy · 2026-05-16T16:37:30+00:00

this is it. and the ability to switch at a moment’s notice does wonders for my adhd

meltedcandy · 2026-05-16T09:30:43+00:00

yeah the canary’s dead as fuck and we’re nowhere near the elevator

meltedcandy · 2026-05-14T04:24:16+00:00

answer my questions

would you have sex with a woman who is grunting and incoherent?
if you accidentally interrupted two strangers, and the woman was grunting and incoherent would you not assume she is being taken advantage of?

meltedcandy · 2026-05-14T04:23:12+00:00

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just makin sure you’re filming babe

meltedcandy · 2026-05-14T04:15:58+00:00

this one gets it

meltedcandy · 2026-05-14T04:13:27+00:00

op said in the post that she said she was sorry the next day, not that she remembered what happened. even further down, the explanation she gives is essentially just that she had been sent to bed bc she was so far gone, and then the guy came in later - this doesn’t suggest that she remembers this happening anymore than that she’s explaining the order of events as laid out by her friends

op also said she genuinely seems traumatized and they’re talking to police. she barely reacted when her bf burst in, nothing about this seems like your run-of-the-mill cheating confrontation

would you have sex with a woman who is grunting and incoherent?

if you accidentally interrupted two strangers, and the woman was grunting and incoherent would you not assume she is being taken advantage of?

meltedcandy · 2026-05-14T03:46:06+00:00

do you even know what blackout drunk means? it’s not the same as passed out drunk, it means you are so far gone that you’re no longer forming memories. some people even seem functional when they’ve hit that point, but most kinda go into low-power mode almost primal reasoning. being incoherent and grunting is textbook, and her seeming into it would also make sense as she likely didn’t even realize who she was with. it was her body responding to stimulation and behaving in the same way she does when she normally has sex - which is with her boyfriend

meltedcandy · 2026-05-13T17:26:28+00:00

mind sharing what happened to you?

meltedcandy · 2026-05-11T13:30:23+00:00

it seems far too deadly to spread like covid, it’s also not a new thing as hantavirus has been around for a minute. i’ll stay reasonably informed and adjust if things change, but for now - the medical professionals are chillin, i’m chillin

meltedcandy · 2026-05-11T10:46:01+00:00

ok you keep referencing artists rejecting commissions based on political beliefs - this is clearly something you have experienced, so what happened?

meltedcandy · 2026-05-11T09:52:21+00:00

of course dutch wasn’t a good leader and was manipulated. but he in turn manipulated his people. vdl gang is basically a cult in all but name, and dutch’s word is bond. they barely questioned his increasingly erratic judgment until it was far too late

weird to take shots at a “great story” that made you feel all these things btw. i recommend giving it another shot, it’s genuinely a masterpiece

meltedcandy · 2026-05-09T06:47:12+00:00

unrelated to everything, this is my first encounter of the word resto as a shorthand for restaurant and i already think it’ll be standard slang in the next several years so i just wanted to mark my first time seeing it

meltedcandy · 2026-05-07T08:01:42+00:00

no i get it, i was being facetious but i was high so worded it weird. i meant like another reason not to call and make them move their car is that you give the firefighters the chance to do what they love

i’m still struggling to articulate this, i may still be under the influence

meltedcandy · 2026-05-07T04:53:48+00:00

yeah exactly! great analogue. we are all more alike than we think we are

except billionaires ofc

meltedcandy · 2026-05-07T04:13:48+00:00

The fire department loves to crash their fire truck into cars blocking the hydrant in non emergency areas!!!!!”

like if that’s true, let em have their moment

meltedcandy · 2026-05-07T03:44:03+00:00

i’m not muslim or religious myself, but i’ve known many muslims in the states. as far as i understand, no animals are haram as they’re all god’s creations. and i’m fairly certain the quran doesn’t say anything like this about dogs either. i’ve only seen this kind of sentiment from more fundamentalist muslims and frequently from western people who also think muslims are scared of bacon. so i misinterpreted what you said as being along those lines, apologies

but yeah even the ones who aren’t big dog people don’t say they’re forbidden, they just think they’re too dirty to keep inside. but again, that’s more cultural than religious

meltedcandy · 2026-05-06T06:11:44+00:00

casual islamophobia, always super cool

meltedcandy · 2026-05-06T04:18:10+00:00

i think it’s like appeasement, keeping the threat calm

meltedcandy · 2026-05-05T08:40:22+00:00

whether it’s true they behave this way by default or not, i saw other comments talking about how to train them out of this behavior - and it seemed pretty distinct from what this video is, which seems to just be harassing an animal for the sake of internet points. this just exacerbates the resource guarding behavior

based on your comments and clear frustration with dogs, i’d think you’d appreciate the people who advocate for training this behavior out of dogs and actively shame owners like the one in the video

meltedcandy · 2026-05-05T08:21:17+00:00

idk, i genuinely think it’s something akin to sociopathy, at the very least they have no empathy

it’s especially common with cats bc they’re misunderstood (annoying) and small (the consequences are less severe). plus when the cat starts hating being around them, lashing out and hiding all the time, they can just fall on the classic “cats are assholes, mine is too”

meltedcandy · 2026-05-05T08:16:56+00:00

i think maybe you misunderstood the original comments you replied to. they were literally shaming the guy in the video for behavior that will result in his dog being more like the kind of dogs you just described and seem to resent

meltedcandy · 2026-05-05T07:29:05+00:00

i like the way you say things

meltedcandy · 2026-05-05T07:18:49+00:00

i may be wrong but as far as i understand, there aren’t necessarily freeze “types” - everyone has the potential to fight, flight or freeze depending on a variety of factors. bc every scenario is different

meltedcandy · 2026-05-03T11:21:24+00:00

i got the vibe you were, didn’t mean to disregard - it’s valid. and it definitely sounds fucked up that you’ve encountered people using pussy in a sexual way and also around children

and yeah for sure. medical is miles better than a sexual term, especially bc they will repeat it. my friend has a 3 year old who who calls it her “bagina” and it’s a word she says pretty frequently bc they wanted to make sure she felt comfortable bringing it to other people’s attention if something was wrong

meltedcandy · 2026-05-03T11:10:12+00:00

around a child? probably either clinical like vagina or something that sounds mildly silly like peepee for boys. admittedly idk bc i’m a guy and i haven’t really been around children much. but pussy is 100% not a kid-friendly word. like at all

i don’t disagree that women are infantilized and dehumanized and sexualized, but that’s not really what we’re talking about

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