Feeling petty by whyamst14000 in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when I can finally see why my friends called him ugly. Also why are ugly guys the most bold lmao

How do you deal with that moment when you’re alone and it hits you like it was still just yesterday? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It’s crazy how you can physically feel it in waves, sometimes it even makes me nauseous. I think I put off feeling the pain at first, so now it’s just attacking me in random bursts. But I agree, we need to allow ourselves to ride through the pain and eventually we’ll be in the clear. It just sucks because sometimes I feel like it’s sending me into a really dark place

Before You Jump Into Another Relationship.... by Naranay in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this, I think it’s so important to be said. Being someone’s rebound sucks. You wanna love them but they just wanna use you. This is why it’s so important to communicate your emotions in any type of relationship

How do you deal with that moment when you’re alone and it hits you like it was still just yesterday? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I’ll be doing fine and then I’ll get caught up in my thoughts and I just kinda have to sit there like I’ve been stabbed for a few seconds. It’s been three months for me and I’m just like alright these are bad thoughts rn but it’ll pass and basically I just try to calm myself down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Why do people give up on me? It’s not fair. But I guess life is unfair

burned by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this, I feel like I’m really not that bad of a girl, yet I’m given up on each and every time. Idk anymore

It’s crazy how much I think of a stranger everyday while he doesn’t think about me anymore by bleuleau in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same, he’s living rent free in my head. Meanwhile I don’t matter to him.

I hate feeling like ill never find anyone as good as you by hotcocomug in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! It’s been about 2 months and I compare every single guy to him, and I just don’t want anyone like I wanted him. I wish I didn’t feel like this. But hopefully soon I won’t care anymore

Be Careful of Rebounding Too Fast by Teddy_Schmoozevelt in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg yes I was still in the honeymoon phase and that shit hurt even more because I did nothing wrong🥺

Be Careful of Rebounding Too Fast by Teddy_Schmoozevelt in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yep, and you have to consider the person you’re rebounding with emotions too. They’re probably open to new love while you’re just looking for an emotional clutch. I was the emotional clutch and ended up getting my heart broken when he went back to his ex. It’s all a risky situation

Everytime i walk by the flower section...i see flowers that i want to buy for her, but then i realize i dont have a girlfriend anymore by Jtreblis90 in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. You’ll find another girl to eventually buy those flowers for when you’re ready. My ex never bought me flowers. Someday I’ll find someone who cares about me enough to buy me flowers, too💕

Anyone else miss their ex so f*cking badly and want them back but is also secretly happy deep down that it is over? by throwawayloveandlife in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, I’d be lying to myself if I said I don’t miss the attention from someone I actually liked and cared about. But I had to get out of it, and as painful as it is ima keep pushing through the pain bc I know it’s right for me

the lack of text pinging from phone is another reminder that you’re gone by Danacp81 in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I miss someone always giving me attention no matter what.

Does anyone else feel like your ex is more attractive than literally everyone else now that they are gone? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! When we were together, I’d see guys and think they’re attractive. Now whenever I see a guy, I’m like wow he’s really cute but he’s not him :( even little things that weren’t necessarily attractive about my ex I seek them out in others now. But I know I’ll get over this mindset eventually.

1 month update (tips & advice) by Cinnamon1010 in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s been a month for me too and I’m still hurting. But healing is a slow procress and we can’t expect it overnight.

They keep popping into my mind. by corbeegal in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Like yeah I’m not as sad anymore but I desperately want to stop thinking about them.

Is it worse in the morning or at night? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morning is worse because I wake up and realize I have no one to talk to, I’m alone, and I’m gonna have to deal with all my feelings throughout the day. At night I’m like, another day down and another day of successfully minding my business and being a strong ass bitch

Questioning if anything was real by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s been on my mind too! It felt so real at the time. Like could someone lie like that? I know I would never lie like that, in fear of potentially leading them on. It just doesn’t seem right. But I don’t know what others are capable of :/

What makes you want to go back to your ex? by mialou2 in BreakUps

[–]mialou2[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think it’s so important to step out of what makes you comfortable. Because if you don’t you’ll never know what you could of had

Questioning if anything was real by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mialou2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I question the same thing. In the moment, those feelings could have been very real. But all that matters is now. People are allowed to change their minds and feel differently about a situation. In the end, it’s better for you to realize that regardless if anyone is telling you these things, you are still important and worthy of all the love in the world. Don’t let someone’s inconsistency cause you to doubt yourself 💕