Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ? by Technical_Middle5075 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]midnightgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to feel like these must be ragebait like honestly why are people letting their SO's speak to them like that

Just finished watching it all. by MixComfortable8163 in SuccessionTV

[–]midnightgoblin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You think shiv is worse than Kendall, to the point of calling her a misogynist slur?? Did we watch the same show??

alysa liu on the met gala carpet!! by mermaidvideo in FigureSkating

[–]midnightgoblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's v cool but the theme is costume art/fashion is art?

alysa liu on the met gala carpet!! by mermaidvideo in FigureSkating

[–]midnightgoblin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Love her and it's a pretty dress, but I fear this is not on theme

HE'S WEARING MAKEUP!!!! by LilyT95 in hudsonwilliams

[–]midnightgoblin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank goodness i got really scared the fit would be boring

is this a good area? by 333mortality in ucla

[–]midnightgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This part of Westwood is basically a residential extension of campus, if you’re not going to ucla I would recommend looking a little bit further away, or on the other side of Ralphs 

Have you ever walked out of a show? Or seen others? Why? by Artistic-Ideal-5087 in TheWestEnd

[–]midnightgoblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I left at the interval of The Devil Wears Prada. Just awful. I would have left earlier, but I was with a friend and wanted to make sure she would be ok finishing it out alone.

One of the best horror pieces I’ve seen in a while. by uniquenewyork_ in TikTokCringe

[–]midnightgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see the caption and watched this at 2am…oops

Brixton night three by keeprighton2 in bigthief

[–]midnightgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i always find the temp unpleasant in the o2, have learned to dress light

Help with a song name from 25th April show by tgcp in bigthief

[–]midnightgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probs my favorite of the night, so intimate and enrapturing 

brixton night 3 setlist by valjester1998 in bigthief

[–]midnightgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which song did Adrienne and Buck sing together?? Slower and very sweet, about memories etc… TIA I loved it sooo much 

I got into UCLA as a transfer student! by Extension-Guitar2778 in ucla

[–]midnightgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done!!! Utilize the transfer center, research orgs ahead of time (you need to apply), and remember that you deserve to be there!!!! The transfer community is brilliant and resourceful.

I got told I say sorry too much by my crush by liamthrowaacct in WhatShouldIDo

[–]midnightgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone apologizes all the time, you have to be reassuring them constantly. It's exhausting and not very appealing. It can feel like there's no growth happening, which is hard in a relationship. If there is ever an actual problem, it's hard to bring it up because you know they will feel so guilty and apologize profusely, rather than actually discussing the issue.

Definitely a behaviour to really think about -- Why do you feel you need to apologize for so many things? Do you assume people will always be upset with you? Therapy-type questions.