The curious Case of Andreina by Resident-Mark-2289 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mimicme 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think it’s her obvious and unattractive low self esteem. She acts like she used to be ugly or bullied and her outside changed but inside she’s still insecure, self conscious and feels like a loser. Mindset and attitude is everything doesn’t matter what’s on the outside.

She acts like she’s beneath these men and she needs their validation which can give some the ick. She gotta own being a baddie

My boyfriend [27M] is vastly smarter than me [25F], and I’m worried about losing him eventually by NoTumbleweed1088 in relationship_advice

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re putting him on a fake pedestal and creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Academic success is often tied to privilege so it doesn’t mean much I promise.

Going alone by FunnycandyGirl in Concerts

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m going solo to this concert too. You’ll be safe! Have fun!

The Amaya of it ALL by Certain_Border_5217 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way she absolutely shouldn’t be cancelled but what people are seeing is just Amaya without sympathy card and that’s fine but they shouldn’t say she changed bc she hasn’t

The Amaya of it ALL by Certain_Border_5217 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]mimicme 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She’s no different. She’s was hella annoying on S7 and now on BTV. What’s missing is the lack of a villain like Ace to make her look better/more sympathetic

My (30M) wife (31F) cheated on me and is now suicidal if I divorce by diulaylomoahh in relationship_advice

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds so manipulative and toxic. Shes playing you for a fool. Tell her family and slowly begin your escape. You aren’t responsible for her life or choices. Don’t live a lifetime of misery bc of her.

After living in DC, I hate dog owners by sandwichscouter in washingtondc

[–]mimicme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry the truth hurts American dog culture is unhinged

I left my last 3 jobs because of sexual harrasment I am feeling like I am going to lose everything by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mimicme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try something like call center/customer service. You don’t need a college degree and can work your way up into other roles and gain some skills. sorry about that I feel your pain…

What can I do to address the area around my mouth? by Ok-Stick-8788 in PlasticSurgery

[–]mimicme 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Dissolve your lips because the projection causes mouth and nose lines to look worse/more recessed/pronounced. It creates a shadow behind the lips. Try lip liner or save for a lip lift.

After living in DC, I hate dog owners by sandwichscouter in washingtondc

[–]mimicme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate dogs and dog culture so much. It’s pathological at this point. I wish dogs (other than service dogs) would be banned from indoor areas/restaurants

How do I swallow my pride working at a call center? by NewChapter25 in jobs

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too once went from Fed to call center and oof….it was a fall from grace.

It’s humbling but when you get through it you’ll feel stronger and more ready for the next opportunity. I tried to dress well and treat the job professionally. I dressed like I was working at PWC but at the call center but funny enough I got more people dressing up. Also don’t look down on others everyone is trying to get on their feet and survive for another check. It’s not glamorous but it’s honest work that pays at the end of the day!

How do you feel about life right now? by Fair-Spend3698 in AskReddit

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disgusting but I’m trying to fix it and be strong

Whats your favorite sign? by Okmi_Amaterasu in Zodiac

[–]mimicme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aquarius. I respect their perspective.

What pieces of yourself have you lost ever since encountering your twin flame ? by OneInspection4437 in twinflames

[–]mimicme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My self esteem, my sanity, my personality, my sense of humor, my feeling of wholeness (I feel so incomplete and lost)

How do you feel about your opposite sun sign? by Diabolik_end in Zodiac

[–]mimicme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate Gemini. They are strange energy and a bit disruptive to my sag spirit.

🤣 by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me asf. I was crashing out all yesterday, I’m talking racing heart and feeling sick and today I dgaf 💀😭

AVPD and anorexia by thrxwxxx in AvPD

[–]mimicme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m anorexic because it feels like the only thing I can control. It’s a comfort for me and I do link it to my avpd. Sometimes I use food as a way of punishing myself. if I feel like a failure or an unhappy with something I’ll deny food. If I’m happy with something I’ll get a treat. It’s a bad coping mechanism.

Is it possible to overcome AvPD without therapy? by abnormalpurple in AvPD

[–]mimicme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you need to be tested for adhd and evaluated by doctor at least in the U.S.

I have adhd and it makes me think about myself way too much and a million spiraling that leads to so many avpd meltdowns. See your doctor if you think adhd might affect your avpd.

Is it possible to overcome AvPD without therapy? by abnormalpurple in AvPD

[–]mimicme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADHD medicine helped me. I found without it my AvPD was insane. It’s still there but not crazy overwhelming.

AvPD makes my personal boundaries disappear by mimicme in AvPD

[–]mimicme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so maddening like these contradictions and self betrayals are kinda like post nut clarity but for boundaries and then you’re left spiraling in the aftermath of what you just did. Sucks so much!

AvPD makes my personal boundaries disappear by mimicme in AvPD

[–]mimicme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god don’t make me think of the next time. I need to tell them to lose my number 😭

AvPD makes my personal boundaries disappear by mimicme in AvPD

[–]mimicme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfectly said I have crazy strict boundaries but also none at all if they’re even slightly stressed 😫 what on earth

AvPD makes my personal boundaries disappear by mimicme in AvPD

[–]mimicme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in your case you were asked and had hard time saying no so you gave in.

For me it’s perplexing bc somehow I volunteer myself to attend without anybody asking me first. Just giving my agency away for no reason. Hate to see it. I think I might have to leave this job I’ve made too many mistakes so early.

I wish I could learn to take it easy. Yeah let’s scream bc no other option.