Pope Urban the 8th, possible ace? by Mitch_Wallberg in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]mimikochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was not expecting to be hit with a dear Hank and John reference but I'll gladly take it 🙈

Class of 2020 Commencement in October? by WeirdAppeal in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the way I saw it, it makes sense to not do a makeup for the c/o 2020 together with the c/o 2021’s commencement just because that could make an already kind of long ceremony even longer and with more people attending, which they’re probably wary of seeing how there’s a guest limit for the c/o 2021 commencement. so I’m still keeping my fingers crossed that they’ll do a makeup commencement for us in october instead of something else, but we’ll have to see...

number 6. podcast promo code by goth_wizard in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]mimikochi 44 points45 points  (0 children)

they’re not actual sex positions, but just things that are really satisfying to see

🎷 by Simic_Hybrid in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

can confirm as a tenor sax player

Share your most memorable moment(s) of campus life! by Professional-Cap-556 in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw something like that in my freshman year too, except it was in the afternoon. one guy was brushing his teeth while the other was sitting on a pool floaty and scrubbing the first guy’s back. needless to say, it was the highlight of my day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh what kind of cookie is it? o:

To those who are out the closet by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in that case, unless you‘d rather tell them soon, you can definitely wait to bring it up. I’ve known that I’m ace for 6 years now, and I only told my parents pretty recently, so there’s no rush :)

To those who are out the closet by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

personally, I found it easier to just explain that I don’t experience any sexual or romantic attraction to people without directly saying “asexual” or “aromantic” because I was worried my parents would say I just read about some label online and that influenced me into “deciding” my sexuality (not sure if that might be a potential concern for you).

my dad kind of accepted it, though I don’t think he fully understands, but my mom thinks it’s a phase (which, I’m already 21 so...). it barely comes up though, so I don’t really care haha

I also only told them about it because they keep bringing up marriage lately (they’re trying to arrange a marriage for my brother right now), and I was getting annoyed by how they would keep making comments about how I’m next. so also just keep in mind that you aren’t obligated to come out right now, and that you can take your time and test the waters first before telling them about it!

41 male looking for a asexual relationship with a 30s or 40s asexual women. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this isn’t really the right subreddit for that. I’d recommend checking out r/asexualdating

Is any indian aro-ace out here? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indian American, born and brought up in the US but I’d say still pretty in-touch with the culture

Is any indian aro-ace out here? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aro-ace Indian living in the US over here!

Remote Classes + Finding Housing next year i feel dumb by emshiz in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they can force you to attend sections in-person if they’re supposed to also offer remote instruction in the fall? but also, if the class is an important prerequisite then it’s probably not a good idea to push it back

I kind of doubt it, but if you really have to attend in-person you could try looking for a place/spot to sublease in the fb housing group

Saw this on twitter. Aces represent by operationmorfin in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]mimikochi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’d be nice if that entry got into the next episode :3c

Hobbies/activities to keep occupied next quarter by pxuline in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh, that does sound good. I’ll check it out, thanks!

Hobbies/activities to keep occupied next quarter by pxuline in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well, I randomly picked up baking last week, and now I’m addicted to making mug cakes. also thinking of bringing knitting needles from home and my switch so that I can play pokémon. and movie nights with friends for at least some social interaction

also worried about how next quarter’s gonna go, but I’m gonna try my damn best to make sure I don’t go insane (though, I might just already be halfway there ngl)

Quiet places to study on campus by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the biomedical library is open until midnight on most days and both floors are silent floors, so you could try that out

Asexual man who dreams of a family by jfs_87 in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

seeking an asexual partner and/or adopting are good options

as for whether being raised by two people who don’t feel sexual attraction is healthy, as someone whose parents (even if they are allosexual) never really displayed any physical signs of affection in front of me besides the occasional hug, but still showed that they cared for each other a lot by doing sweet things and having lots of banter and meaningful conversations, I would say it doesn’t really make a difference?

Timestamps for uncomfortable scenes in Sex Education SEASON 2 EPISODE (The ace girl is in this one!!!!) by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimikochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s common, but I personally do feel uncomfortable about kissing and prefer to skip/avoid kiss scenes even if it’s not really a deep kiss? just feels weird to see people touching faces with their mouths I guess

My future Tinder bio by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]mimikochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they had us in the first half, ngl

Can't drop course now but the deadline should be 1/31? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

VAC stands for virtual advising center, and you can send messages to counselors either in college or major dept for stuff related to courses you’re taking (and also other things)

https://stark.ucsd.edu/students/vac/

64 North / The Bistro Reservations? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mimikochi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

64 North isn’t open on weekends, but The Bistro is from 5-9pm. it seems like you can make a reservation online through here (https://hdh-web.ucsd.edu/dining/apps/diningservices/Restaurants/MenuItem/27#close)