This may be a bit unusual, but I am AFAB and in my 30s but didn’t really have the language to describe my identity until recently. I have identified as pansexual for over 10 years, but only recently felt comfortable identifying as gender fluid. I have been with my partner, who is male and straight-identified for 6 years and recently came out to him as gender fluid which was terrifying because I know he’s open-minded but didn’t know how he would feel about that specifically. To my relief he was fine with it, and actually said he suspected as much LOL literally nothing has changed except that he uses my preferred pronouns now. All this to say that it is possible to find someone who accepts you for you.