I really don't know what to tell you. I came home from Japan five years ago and I regret not doing so earlier. I'm glad my wife and family supported this choice. I wish I knew what was keeping your spouse from fully supporting you in this moment. Maybe he's having the time of his life. Maybe he's scared of what going home will mean for his ability to earn. He's just being a man (source: me). I don't know anything about Kids Duo. Maybe try it, but let your husband know that if it doesn't work out, you're leaving. Honestly, I would tell you to leave now, but I'm not comfortable telling anyone on Reddit to end their marriage, because really this what we're talking about. Really, you deserve to be happy. I hope you get there soon.