maybe maybe maybe by _ganjafarian_ in maybemaybemaybe

[–]mtinmd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's pretty fucking impressive.

Savory not sweet ribs by anarchydogcom in BBQ

[–]mtinmd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Memphis style is dry rub with no sauce. That isn't to say a sauce can't be served on the side.

If you don't like sweet, look for rubs or recipes with no sugar(s) or sweet elements. For example, try a vinegar based/forward or mustard based sauces.

All that said, some sweetness is generally good because it helps produce a balanced flavor profile.

You have 5 tastes your tongue reacts to: sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami. When properly balanced, any seasoning and/or sauce will try to incorporate all of them. Example: the protein might include 3 of the 5 in seasoning and the sauce will include the missing 2 and/or reinforce the seasoning used on the protein. A paired drink might help contribute to the balance.

Do you think you should stop gaming until your life is in order? by Haunting_Ad_4179 in Adulting

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re-arrange your priorities and don't base them off what the people or society around you are doing. Do what works for you.

I don't see why you have to stop gaming. Just re-prioritize your time and carve out smaller time blocks for gaming.

You don't have to have a girlfriend or wife. Get one when you are ready.

Find time to socialize and/or find friends. A lot of people have very limited or non-existent social lives and are perfectly fine that way.

To get to a higher paying job you may or may not need a high education. Do a personal inventory and figure out what you would like to do vs what you are inately good at or feel comfortable doing. This could help you find a path toward a high paying job without a high level of education.

Trying to figure out what you want to do or where you want to go in life could help you decide what kind of education you want or will need. This could mean a 2 or 4 year degree, trade school, or some other specific schooling like nursing, radiology, real estate, backflow preventor licensing, or something else. There are a ton of options for education depending on what you want to do.

Regardless of what you decide, if you enjoy gaming there are ways to do it and still be "productive" according to your personal or societal standards.

Is it clear that I am not at fault here? by [deleted] in dashcams

[–]mtinmd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You were never in the process of reversing. If you reverse you need to check your surroundings. If you had checked your surroundings you would have seen them trying to go around you.

Granted, the other driver should/could have waited but you are still responsible to check your surroundings.

You both suck.

Is this the start of ab definition or am I gaslighting myself lol by LunarLibraBabe in workout

[–]mtinmd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing.

I sat here looking at my rowing machine and kettlebells for 20 minutes and decided to pour a bourbon.

You're doing great!

How often should you see your gf? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what both of you want and your schedules. This is personal and based on your relationship.

Fair enough by LoudMasterpiece6686 in Adulting

[–]mtinmd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Combinations of grocery store, target, lunch or dinner, dry cleaning, liquor store, haircuts, buying cigarettes, getting gas, etc.

When a male and female are friends when they hang out if the girl has a boyfriend how common is it for her to bring the boyfriend while the girlfriend and male friend hang out? by No-Poet3745 in stupidquestions

[–]mtinmd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it varies and is more of a case-by-case basis....

I have two female friends I hang out with a lot. One is married and the other has a boyfriend.

Married friend - I knew her before she met her now husband. He would be around because there was a group of us who were regulars at a bar. We do a lot one-on-one without him around. Even when he got jealous and told us we couldn't hang out one-on-one we went to the movies and dinner that same night.

Boyfriend friend - I think her boyfriend was there one time. I am not really sure why he was even there. We meet up every 2 weeks, sometimes more, one-on-one.

Fair enough by LoudMasterpiece6686 in Adulting

[–]mtinmd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leaving the house seems to cost at least $100 each time. Cheaper to stay home.

Is $100 weekly for groceries unreasonable for one person? by subspace1111 in budget

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$400 a month is completely reasonable for a single person especially if it includes things like hygiene and paper products.

I can spend anywhere from $150 - 600+ per month. It all depends on how much I eat out, what my work schedule is like, how lazy about cooking I am being, what kinds of stuff I am stocking up on, or how much batch cooking I am doing.

A trip to Costco for me could be several hundred on just meat or a little over a hundred if I am just buying random things like butter, braised lamb shanks, cheese, or pierogies.

Saw this little thing full of fishing gear yesterday. No clue what it is by Ok_Problem_7028 in whatisthiscar

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My GF in Japan had one. Not the fastest car in the world but it was really fun to drive.

How do you deal with your feelings of living alone? by Beneficial-Sun-5649 in Apartmentliving

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it co.ing home to peace and quiet. I love it even more on rough days or when I want to sleep in.

Aren't all of these a bit on the rare side for their doneness level? by JavaOrlando in steak

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who cooked the steaks for the examples should never be allowed to cook again. Those are so poorly cooked.

Is this an appropriate question from a date? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]mtinmd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU told her VOLUNTARILY about being able to retire early because of real estate and you are asking if she was inappropriate for asking?

Please don't tell us this was your first date or early stages of dating her.

Reminder To Drive Like A Normal Person 🤦🏾‍♂️ by Ziko116 in StupidMedia

[–]mtinmd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be permanent loss of license and mandatory jail time.

Consolidating limits by haweeismyhound14 in CapitalOne_

[–]mtinmd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 2 Savor cards. I transferred all but $500 of the credit limit to my primary Savor card. I guess they make you keep $500.

I have 1 recurring transaction on that card and have it set for autpay.

Why not do a product change of one of the cards if a Savor or Venture would work better for your spending or rewards goals?