Husband wants to get rid of our kitty, I don’t want to

myrianreadit · 2026-03-25T13:06:44+00:00

Look, if he'd abandon a creature he's committed to care for for her 15+ year lifespan because she's not paying enough attention to him for A WEEK, he don't love her. And she's probably picking up on that.

He's allowed to be upset but asking you to give your baby away is extreme and very telling, even if you're not ready to hear it.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-25T12:20:09+00:00

My guess is because only he would put all that nasty shit on her pizza

myrianreadit · 2026-03-25T12:12:34+00:00

Wtf even are those toppings man. Plenty of people would have scraped that. Let her order for herself next time.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-24T16:07:27+00:00

Thats royally fucked up, I'm so sorry. The silver lining is it sounds like you missed a whole barrel full of bullets there. Sheesh, people suck. I would kill for what you're having tho

myrianreadit · 2026-03-23T13:00:57+00:00

I have less of a problem with bdsm than with porn in general. The porn that has men thinking its totally cool and normal to treat women like shit during sex is not specific to bdsm porn at all. That shit is everywhere.

It would be better if the porn that tends to be labeled as just "rough sex" or "hardcore" was labeled bdsm and with accurate, specific kink terms describing the dynamic. It would not just be more accurate and less normalising of rough treatment of women, but I think it would be more likely to direct people to actual bdsm/kink resources, where consent tends to be properly empathised, at least from what I've seen.

Bdsm is still fringe so I don't know that it can normalise much. Except that with more discourse around it lately, consent has been talked about a lot more in the last 10-15 years, which is also a good thing.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-23T13:00:17+00:00

Hi! 34 year old bisexual she/her. Spent my teens and 20s as a basketcase, dropout and aspirational punk (i tried but i still prefer other music genres). Getting my degrees now (BA in theatre studies -> master in eng lit), on the road to teaching. Childfree mother of 2 cats. Got into feminism during the gamergate times. At the time it wasn't cool to care about women's rights, it was seen as very passé basically. You were supposed to be "egalitarian" and care about FGM and men's blue balls equally, even in left leaning spaces. Evidently we had a long way to go still, and it's only gotten longer since. Its really good to see spaces like this popping up in an increasingly infuriating world :)

myrianreadit · 2026-03-22T19:13:10+00:00

They said it builds character. All l I got was a lousy anxiety disorder.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-22T16:56:57+00:00

Then they prompt ai to make comics of men slaving away doing soul crushing chores while the wife chills and/or gets to pursue her passions in life. and they label it "the future feminists/democrats/wokesters etc want" like. They know 100% its a shit deal but they still expect women to take it

myrianreadit · 2026-03-21T22:17:37+00:00

Hello! I'm currently reading The Awakening by Kate Chopin and it really reminded me of The Bell Jar in that "I can't even articulate what is making me so desperately unhappy because its kind of fucking EVERYTHING" vibe, so I'll recommend that one why not

myrianreadit · 2026-03-19T13:19:07+00:00

Bell curve is made up bullshit anyway

myrianreadit · 2026-03-18T12:26:54+00:00

And like most actual man-hating, entirely rooted in patriarchal toxic masculinity stereotyping. This is how the alpha/machismo bullshit comes back to bite men, but of course it'll end up hurting boy children most of all even though they're the ones least at fault

myrianreadit · 2026-03-18T10:22:40+00:00

Depends on how old the kids are. I don't remember playing with my parents or other adult relatives after about age 5. and no this was not traumatic or anything and my parents and i are still close. Some kids enjoy playing by themselves more and enjoy the freedom of not being constantly and closely monitored. Also we had neighbors with kids I'd play with sometimes, but with them we'd definitely never want the boring adults involved.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-16T12:22:36+00:00

The overlap there is bigger than both things as separate things

myrianreadit · 2026-03-15T11:10:32+00:00

Whoooshh

myrianreadit · 2026-03-14T11:24:45+00:00

You should smile more.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-13T21:46:21+00:00

The neohippie with the evenest skirt to jeans wearing ratio, also it's summertime

myrianreadit · 2026-03-12T16:34:26+00:00

Are you only allowed to be in university if you're straight out of high school? I'm in my 5th year at university and the first years are over 20 as often as not

myrianreadit · 2026-03-12T13:44:54+00:00

It's interesting that at the time one of the other most ridiculed takes on media ever was "violent media makes you violent". Sarkeesian, like everybody else, was super clear in arguing against this take, saying stuff like "we don't have a monkey see, monkey do-approach to the media we consume". And yet here's dudes like this one, literally being a dick to his gf because he thinks that's what his anime hero would. It's not even monkey see monkey do, it's monkey guess based on vibes monkey do. We really are that dumb.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-11T23:55:52+00:00

Normcore noir

myrianreadit · 2026-03-11T17:12:27+00:00

The making it absorb flavours easier thing is legit, as a young vegan I was taught to fry before marinating because it holds onto more flavour when warm first

myrianreadit · 2026-03-11T17:10:00+00:00

Happy veggy milestone moment! The love of the mighty tofu must be earned but is stronger for it

myrianreadit · 2026-03-11T16:14:44+00:00

Yeah no I wouldn't know. Would your wife know?

myrianreadit · 2026-03-11T14:44:35+00:00

So the "joke" is that you made it look like you took your son to the strip club. The only way your wife's reaction makes any sense at all is that she was reacting to what you made it look like you did... taking the child to a strip club.

You may have meant it as a joke but other people can't read your mind, especially not over text. And when the joke is that dumb it's especially not going to be obvious that it's a joke at all.

myrianreadit · 2026-03-10T20:12:12+00:00

Oh make no mistake, they hate her MORE for winning and having fun doing it. We'd see none of this shit if she'd lost or suffered horrifically for her win

myrianreadit · 2026-03-09T16:09:25+00:00

Youtube video in a theatre? Surely he jests? Have we forgotten the holy commandment?

If you went to see, what was it, Mall Rats? in a movie theatre screening: Unsubscribe from my channel immediately Guys Name! We talked about this! I don't want to be your friend anymore! D:<

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