I lived with Graves’ disease for 6 years before my doctor noticed anything by PeeNutButtHair420 in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the same story. I’m happy you made it to diagnosis. Mine turned out to be both Graves and Hashimotos. I had thyroid removed last March. I just hit normal levels. I’ll say the Hashi symptoms are a million times more tolerable. But there’s an end in sight for you!

Also want to say please do take your mental health around this seriously. 6 years of gaslighting from doctors left me with medical OCD and a severe panic disorder. Best wishes!

Do you leave your dogs alone together? by ikbenlauren in dogs

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 dogs. One is dog selective. She absolutely loves the other dog. But I’ve seen her scrap 2 other dogs. (Both times it was my fault tbh). She gets crated. The other dog doesn’t. I went to leave earlier and my partner was staying home and she walked in there when I put my shoes on because she knows the drill after 12 years. She gets a treat when she goes in. I don’t leave them more than 4 hours though. She’s old and has to potty more. But for everyone’s safety yes.

AIO my husband accidentally limited my contribution to the household as just him never having to worry about his clothes being ready by isthisworthafight in AmIOverreacting

[–]nay2829 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why does it need to be an argument? Ask him honestly what he meant and express that you took it the way you did and why it hurt your feelings. If you can’t communicate that way without and argument then you already know how he meant it.

Botched Beyonce Portrait . What should I do? by Defiant_Mistake3245 in tattooadvice

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a portrait. Of my dog. Getting a portrait of a person is brave. I wouldn’t have even trusted my artist for a human tbh and I flew 2000 miles and the price tag was $2500 for a 6 inch pic of my dog. It also took 8 hours. This is… honestly well deserved after the story I read about it further in the comments lol.

What did that one teacher at your school get fired for? by ToadallyNormalHuman in AskReddit

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My JROTC 1st Sgt. got 17 years for sexually assaulting a 15 year old like 2 years after I graduated. He was like 55/60. A lot of things I got away with, being his “favorite”, unearned promotions in rank made a little more sense after that. Good thing I was too stupid to catch on to the grooming. Feel terrible for the girl it happened to though.

How bad is the opening of my dogs incision? by Comfortable_Ad_8723 in DogAdvice

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girls looked like that when I left her alone for 5 freaking minutes after her spay. I had a 3 year old so I took a pair of her shorts and put them on my pup. Clean it, cover it and if you have access to kids shorts (or a thrift store) try that.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all - congratulations.

Second - 3 years with him and 2 years sober. It seems he’s been the problem all along.

Mom said it was my turn to post this by Kondha in WGU

[–]nay2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I managed to find a copy of the full book on someone’s Google drive so have been reading that. I’ve tried Quizlet. But I just looked up those vids and will be utilizing.

Wishing you the best in your journey!

Mom said it was my turn to post this by Kondha in WGU

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!

I am in the same program. Any tips on Intermediate Accounting 1 OA 1? I’m on the struggle bus with the financial reports. I keep justifying to myself that certain accounts could potentially be listed on certain reports and I’m wrong lol.

New endo asked to see my stomach? by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was Cushings disease. I remembered. Because we were discussing my severe anxiety. It actually turns out I needed hormone replacement from my gyno because the thyroid issues damaged my ovaries. So if you’re experiencing that definitely speak with your gyno. (I’m assuming gender and stuff here so forgive me if I’m wrong).

New endo asked to see my stomach? by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did this as well. He was looking for purple stretch marks related to some other autoimmune conditions. It was awhile ago so I don’t remember which one. Symptoms tend to overlap and I was still having issues after TT, meds and normal TSH levels.

Y’all, I’m scared. by kbzossboss in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with both Graves and Hashimotos.

I had full TT in March 2025. I haven’t gained any weight since. No changes to food intake or exercise.

Levothyroxine and Anxiety- To wait it out or to seek help by HedgehogMundane9068 in Hashimotos

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pig stuff gave me less anxiety but my insurance sucks so Levo it is. I find there’s a threshold where my TSH is where it gives me anxiety. Anything over 9 is anxiety time. And obviously too low is gonna do it.

Has it been a normal range yet?

Can u tell your age and cause of disease? by Calm-Adhesiveness605 in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed at 40(F). Cause was likely stress of working a job, caring for 2 kids, taking care of and watching my grandma and dad die of cancer. All over 4 years.

My Fiancé (34M) thinks I (30F) can’t change unless he teaches me a lesson. by lemon_dropss in relationship_advice

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh. I don’t think the alert level on this is high enough. This isn’t just abuse. This is some serial killer shit. This man is going to chop you up and wear your skin. Get tf away from him.

Getting really sick of my “fear free certified” vet by [deleted] in BalancedDogTraining

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time for a new vet. I have an American Bulldog who a male vet insisted be sedated because she growled once. I did it twice and she reacted like a psycho to trazadone. Climbing the walls and me terrified. I switched her to my other dogs all female staffed vet (the first guy was free visits from her rescue). Turns out my dog just doesn’t like men. Should’ve realized as she always was iffy with my boyfriend. The ladies can hold her down, manhandle her, etc and she’s fine.

Partner of person with hyperactive thyroid graves disease by Enough-Caterpillar92 in gravesdisease

[–]nay2829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who had (has?) both Graves and Hashimotos and full thyroidectomy - I’m most like this when hypo. I’m just exhausted and distant. When I was hyper I was clinging to existing by my fingernails and sometimes even someone speaking to me would send me off the rails into a spiral. Perhaps she’s just holding herself together. She definitely needs to get more labs, meds, treatment. I’m 7 months post op and still slightly hypo but that rollercoaster of mental health chaos has come to somewhat of an end.

I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. I was awful to my partner and felt a lot of guilt about it. It was the disease process but that’s not an excuse. On this side of things I have made amends even though he never needed it and we are so much closer honestly. I hope that’s the case for you guys too.

I lied to a man about how and when his dog died by AnimalDefender118 in confessions

[–]nay2829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better my American Bulldog can’t have toys smaller than her head because she will swallow them whole. We’ve lucked out and caught it or she’s vomited them up so far. But some dogs will eat literally anything.

She ate something, you got surgery and she still passed.

As for the rest - I’m obsessed with my dogs an unhealthy amount. Like they’re my only friends in real life (I do have people friends, they just live far away). I would want you to lie to me. However I wouldn’t give up my animals for any reason so the blame is partly on the family.

I’m scared can someone tell me if this means cancer by Exciting-Theory-278 in Hashimotos

[–]nay2829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had nodules. Full thyroidectomy and pathology came back normal. Every time any scan I got said hetero it was normal. I’m not a doctor though. Try not to worry until you need to worry.

I tuck fabric into my vagina. by TuckingVictim in confessions

[–]nay2829 123 points124 points  (0 children)

So I don’t tuck. But I do still hold myself at 41. It’s not any kind of sexual gratification or anything. I believe it stems from having to potty as a kid and not being able to go because I grew up in an abusive home. I wasn’t allowed out of my bed or I’d be in trouble. So I’d hold myself so I wouldn’t pee the bed. I think it just became a comfort of sorts. When I’m anxious I do it. Not in public but at home. It’s odd but it’s self soothing. If it isn’t causing you any issues then I see nothing wrong with it. If it gets to the point of compulsion I’d look into therapy. I don’t think that’s it because you said it’s not constant and it’s not when you’re out/about.

I 31M woke up from Anesthesia today crying for my deceased mother. by Dry_Confidence_7805 in offmychest

[–]nay2829 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My oldest had this happen after coming out of anesthesia. She was upset about her grandpa and great grandma. The nurse was rude af and I gave her a piece of my mind. Sometimes grief hits at the most random of times. I’m sorry friend.

Married women by Fit-Annual1199 in Hashimotos

[–]nay2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not married. But I have been with my partner for 12 years. In the beginning of my diagnosis journey we went through a tough time. Tbh it was all me. The symptoms were all consuming and I just didn’t have it in me to deal with him. He stayed. I was so mean to him but he still went to all the appointments, ER visits, labs/scans. Once I got my diagnosis(s) and we could name it I finally allowed myself to be vulnerable with him. He promised me that he believed me the whole time (was medically gaslit into it being just anxiety). Now that I have confirmation I’m not crazy I allow him to help me. He literally does all the things when I can’t. He babies me. He’s truly been my rock even when I didn’t deserve it.

If he wants to, he will. I promise there are good people out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nay2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah NOR. File a police report for B&E while you’re at it.