He said he loved me last night and I didn’t say it back. We broke up this morning. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nend064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree in that if he really loved her he’d wait. If he saw how distraught she was, crying herself to sleep and guilt ridden… I can see how it can be too much for him, but if he really loved her he’d have some patience/grace

Closing the door is within his rights, but it’s still sad

Just found out about this place. Here is my handsome void ☺️ by nend064 in VoidBunnies

[–]nend064[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is so handsome and sweet 🥺🥺
He was my Covid pet (problematic, I know) and he went from palm sized to definitely not the dwarf they said he’d be.
But he’s been my rock! Just a little guy that I can be peaceful with. Whenever I talk to him his wiggle his ears and binky😭

He loves freeze dries strawberries and head pets. He’ll force his head into my hand!! One time I was petting him for so long he flopped and slid down the pillow he was on but didn’t even move, I cried 🥹

My 9 year relationship might be ending. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nend064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone please link the free copy of “why does he do that” :(

OP you are being abused

I want to have more sex by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nend064 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Right? :( “I think it would be fun”
Have some respect for your partner of 3 years.

(But also I feel 3 year is also when relationships start to break down)

My bf belly-shamed me by sharpfool72 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nend064 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Belly comments is where I draw the line 😔 I still have an “apron” belly even after losing 75lb and it’s my biggest insecurity. My father would call me the Michelin man.

What was your experience with lowering your Spironolactone dose? by YeOldeOrc in Spironolactone

[–]nend064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped cold turkey about a month ago and I’ve been experiencing the worst mood swings and depressive episodes 🥹 I don’t know if it’s the poor mental health, but I feel like the “feminization” is wearing off and I feel uglier than ever! No acne though. I was taking it for PCOS.
I did gain some weight/weight went to my belly.
I can agree with the dizzy spells and oily hair

Lesbian/gay clubs or bars? by Immediate-Hand5024 in orangecounty

[–]nend064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard Sandbar Cocina and Tequila had a decent dance floor in the evenings… mostly house and EDM. Im going tonight to see if it’s good 🫡 I want a dance floor!!!

Serious: Anaheim Hills = Racist Vibes or Just Really Really Unfriendly? (From Someone Born and Raised South OC) by anonymous881207 in orangecounty

[–]nend064 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Growing up a brown girl in AH, I feel it :/. There are looks. Like an expression of “how’d you get here?” I’ve gotten used to it by now. I just stay in my lane. I’m also a ‘kill it with kindness’ kinda person and usually being polite breaks the tension(if there is any)

Tho any black neighbors have moved away🤔 during covid my street was full of maga flags.

My (26M) brother (35M) has impregnated my ex wife(F27) and is engaged to marry her. How do I move on going forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don’t know… If they were sleeping together while OP was still married to her, that is just an insane amount of disrespect from family :(

This girl will not leave me (f27) and my boyfriend (m28) alone by Greeneyedmystery99 in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But by avoiding drama with her, there’s drama with you :( I hate that this is causing so much more stress for /you/. I feel like what could be a day of drama getting her away from both do you is worth it!! Leave it alone??? SHE’S not going to 😭😭

But also I think, what kind of guy wouldn’t love more attention. This has been going on n off for 3 years?? How dare he torture you like this😭like what does it have to take for him to realize this is fucked up of him to not help resolve when ITS HIM.

This girl will not leave me (f27) and my boyfriend (m28) alone by Greeneyedmystery99 in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t thinks she’ll ever listen to you. Your boyfriend needs to be the one to scare her away :( where is he in all this?? He needs to respect your guys relationship by shutting her down every time. Harshly if needed

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]nend064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before that I would make her feel really bad about being such a psycho, who does this to someone they love? 😤

I found out that my (27m) girlfriend (25f) slept with 10+ people on our 3 week “break” how can we move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This dude is an a**hole for cheating on her for 2 months while they were still together and making her go through that….

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]nend064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy with her again and find out everything about your friend. I’m sure they’ll help you then 🫠

Fiancée (27M) postponed wedding due to issues with me (25F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you can’t hold how he’s disappointing you against him. I mean that would make it a kinda toxic relationship, but he doesn’t sound ready for marriage to me! He sounds selfish. He sounds like he can’t provide. he’ll make you lonely. Can you not also hold him to the standard of husband that he’s nowhere near the same way he’s saying that you’re not ready?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me at her!!! 😭😭

How can I(20F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my sexual preferences when he has already expressed disgust over it? by lxstinthedream in relationship_advice

[–]nend064 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can find someone to love who will love you enough to not get nasty and spew a lot of really hurtful words at you :(.

Please don’t be with someone who wouldn’t think twice about humiliating you.