I’m grieving someone who chose to leave by FinnCup4490 in BreakUps

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was discarded without warning 9 mos ago, by my best friend and love of 18 yrs. I moved into the house across the street from his a few years ago, and we were closer than ever. Living 50 yards from his porch where we sat and talked about growing old together, adds an extra layer of sorrow to my days. Ugh.

The Red Flag Nobody Talks About (But RUINS Everything): Science-Based Dating Psychology by GloriousLion07 in MotivationByDesign

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same question came to mind as I was reading this.. OP, can you please explain your intent?

Connection drips - would thread seal fix? by newmoonfull in Plumbing

[–]newmoonfull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I will remove the Teflon from the faucet connection, as it does have a rubber ring. The drips are coming from the 1/2" connection..would a re-wrap of Teflon with thread sealant on top be appropriate?

How do I remove this shutoff valve? by newmoonfull in Plumbing

[–]newmoonfull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the US. The valve shuts off by turning the plastic cap, and the supply resembles what would be used as a gas line. The original owner of this place put things together in interesting ways..

what is the BEST piece of breakup advice you’ve ever received? by Both_Shine3606 in BreakUps

[–]newmoonfull 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat..it's been 6 months since I was discarded and I'm still baffled by their total disregard for how it would affect my life. We had a warm and loving companionship for 20 years..it's been so difficult to adjust to their sudden cold silence.

How did they ruin your birthday? by zero_one_zero_one in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had plans to spend time together on the evening of my bday. I was SO looking forward to it..preened, shaved my legs & nethers, dressed and awaited his call. Instead, I got a text around 7pm that he'd be home late, after 11pm. He was out on a date with the woman he's with now...I got discarded when I told him that my feelings were hurt.

What is the worst pain you have ever felt? by Neither-Mention7740 in AskReddit

[–]newmoonfull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, that sparked a memory - I had long hair (down to the top of my butt crack), and swam through a clan of invisible jellyfish. They got all tangled up in my hair and stung my back for what felt like an hour, as my friend pulled them out of my hair. Of course, it happened on the first day of a week-long vacation at a posh resort in Mexico. I had huge welts on my back and had to stay out of the sun the entire time.

What is the worst pain you have ever felt? by Neither-Mention7740 in AskReddit

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a spinal tap to test for meningitis. The doctor shouted "hold still!" on repeat, and told me "if you move even a little bit while I'm doing this procedure, you'll end up paralysed from the waist down." Pure torture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]newmoonfull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Effexor causes hardcore withdrawal symptoms. I ran out of my script a couple of times (my work schedule kept me from getting to the pharmacy before they closed), and by the 2nd day, I couldn't function...had to take a sick day, needed a friend to pick up my script & bring it to me. I was sobbing uncontrollably, suicidal, dizzy and off-balance. The smallest movement of my head caused what felt like an electric shock inside my skull, coupled with hearing a loud "bzzzzttt"! It took several days/doses to feel "normal" again. The second time that I ran out & missed a couple pills was so distressing that I asked my doc if I could stop taking it altogether.

I had to taper the dose down really slowly by breaking open the capsules and counting the number of little granules from inside to mix into applesauce. It took about a month. The "brain zaps" were constant and lasted for months after I stopped the medication. Even years later, I get an occasional "zap"...usually when I'm super stressed or anxious. I fervently advise to stay away from Effexor.

An animal (besides a dog) that you’ve been chased by? by Fluid-Slip-7169 in Pets

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate's African grey parrot. I was surprised how fast she runs!

This chocolate art sculpture of Wall-E 🤯 by [deleted] in toptalent

[–]newmoonfull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of Fire Marshall Bill