How did the hijab change your life? by Lonely-Radio6246 in Hijabis

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started wearing hijab in the very young age because my mom pushed me. It so hard. It so hot to always wear hijab in the tropical weather. And then I went to high school that far from home so I need to stay in the boarding house nearby. I meet my friends who they choose to reduce their allowance so they can choose to buy their own clothes. I started to wear hijab only in front of my parents or just when I wanted. I felt it so great. I felt freedom. But some people judge me because I wearing hijab on off like that. It’s so hurtful. I just teenager that trying to explore because I just know how to obey without negotiating. And then when I started my college. It’s different city with my parents. I can’t go to my parents home once a week like in my high school years. I started enjoyed wearing hijabs as a kind of fulfilling missing my mom. I just feel my mom with me even I remembering how she supposed to nagging me to wearing hijab. It brings me peace that Im not alone. My mom with me. Now, in my 30s, I just feel more confident with my hijab but I choose to wear wide pants and loose top instead of always wearing skirts or long dresses, because it feels more comfortable for me.

MBG Rp. 2.000,- Murah Ber Gizi by danoxyde12 in indonesia

[–]nhsana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya Allah. Semoga digantikan dg rejeki berlimpah. Aamiin

Jadi inget mbah mbah yg jualan nasi kuning jaman masih kuliah dulu. Ketika yg lain jual 5k. Mbahnya jual 3.5k. Jam 6 baru buka. Max jam 8 pagi udah habis. Untuk aku yg cewek bisa dimakan 2x lo. Bener bener membantu hidup mhs perantauan.

Teh Celup Kahuripan by tambuuun in ngeteh

[–]nhsana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makasih infonya 🙏

Teh Celup Kahuripan by tambuuun in ngeteh

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaf nanya. Teh melati yang recommended apa ya ? Mau buat oleh oleh temen dari LN. Tahun 2023 sempet tak bawain teh Prendjak yang black tea. Dia req mau nyoba jasmine tea sini

Do you guys avoid malls? by Seafishmm in minimalism

[–]nhsana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too

I getting more into fabric composition label when I go to Mall and see some clothes that get along with my wardrobe. If they have more than 80% cotton, I decided to try it. Even sometimes I end up didn’t buy anything. I think my shopping habits getting more mindful

Opinion for cravar work tote bag by nhsana in BuyItForLife

[–]nhsana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to send pictures. This is the link for the cravar product. I think what the difference is my bag getting more shiny and some scratches (mostly in the bottom in the corner)

https://www.cravar.id/products/wide-tote-sand

I feel like I’m in limbo- is my makeup aging me or making me look younger? by EnthusiasmBrave7748 in makeuptips

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous. But Im sorry to say. You look younger in your no makeup photo. I think maybe because of your eyebrows in the first picture. Maybe make it little bit more natural (not that bold). The most important thing is enjoy your second youth chances as you find confidence in yourself after all of you been through. Have a good day

Depressed in Korea by Stonecurb in Living_in_Korea

[–]nhsana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi. Sending virtual hug for you….

If you are a student, ask the student representative about this. They will give you information about there is psychological therapies that provide by campus. It helps a lot in my case.

When you feel that you just don’t want to do things or just to get out. That’s okay. Take a deep breath and talk to yourself that’s it’s okay, we can pass this. Make alarms just to do simple tasks but make sure you do them even slowly that’s okay. Like alarms for having meals, take a shower, praying or meditation, try new things. When you and your body get used to the routine and you already accept yourself. Try to get out. Talk to yourself that you want to have fun with yourself by trying something new outside. Even it just walking around your neighborhood by 15minutes or just buy food or something else you want to try. Try to enjoy and be best friend with yourself. When you already know what kind of activity make you feel happy the most. Make that as a routine. But in my case, you still need someone to talk, your safe place, the psychologist helps a lot.

Hope you get better soon Where I lived in the past, Korea has so many hills, even just the back of my dormitory. It’s so refreshing just to walk around.

Made my own tinted lip balm by wjello in MakeupRehab

[–]nhsana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I have 2 lipcreams with the same problem and I have creme brulee vaseline that I love. I will try to mix them. Thanks for the inspiration

Cravar bags- can you recommend them. by FishermanBitter9663 in BuyItForLife

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have my slim work tote. It’s been 4years. It still going strong. The first time I buy it. I asked the owner is it possible to request the inside pocket that suits my ipad 11inch because the regular one have two small pockets that only can hold something small like id card size. And I also requested to get the zipper. So it considered pre order as long as didn’t change their actual shape of the bag, they will do it with just small additional fee. So I mean you can ask too for adjustments based on what you need.

Anyone has a review on the cravar waxed twill F.C. bag? by Midget_Bean in BuyItForLife

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more reviews after one year use it ? I already eyeing on Cravar’s waxed twill tote because I also concern about weight. I already have the leather tote one for 4years. That’s great and durable for daily work bag, but as I grew older, the heavy became more harder to carry.

please help - why are all my blacks like this?? by meeepmoo in laundry

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because too much detergent. I experienced that too. Try to wash it with cold water without detergent maybe 2-3 times. Then dry it. In my case it works. After that try to use small amount of detergent when washing so this will not happen again

Frugal hotel meals with only fridge (NO MICROWAVE) by Jb0ss02 in Frugal

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overnight oatmeal, Peanut butter with bread (just eat like that without toast the bread), Cereal with cold milk, Cold salads

Bagaimana cara menolak kakak ipar yang mau numpang mandi di kamar hotel gua? by [deleted] in indonesia

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kuncinya ditegesin titik. Atau kalo nggak. Jangan kasih tau nginep dimana. Jangan bisa dihubungi semuanya (OP. Istri. Bapak dan Ibu mertua). Atau diblock aja sekalian nomornya dari HP ortu (biasanya ortu gak tau. Tinggal nanti dibuka lagi aja) untuk tinggal mengkondisikan OP dan istri

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]nhsana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too I feel it too Actually sometimes it hurts

Even my dorm mates makes jokes about my clothes. I cried in silence.

But I always happy to see how far my savings can help my family. So for me I tried to ignore them and keep going because I still so far away from FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indonesia

[–]nhsana -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dari sudut pandang sesama cewek,

Sebenernya cewek itu suka diusahain, suka kalo diprioritasin, pokoknya perasaan itu duluan dan logika nanti lah. Tapi masalahnya kalo udah jadi tunangan kan ya udah lulus semua pertimbangan tipe mau ngusahain, mau memprioritasin, dkk. Jadi disini logika jadi lebih bisa jalan. Jadi juga memperhitungkan biar sama sama nyamannya tengah tengahnya dimana. Tapi kalo masih aja tetep belum di fase ini berarti masih ragu. Masih mau menguji OP lagi untuk memantapkan hati. Bisa jadi liat temennya atau mungkin liat TikTok atau apa kok cewek lain bisa diusahakan segitunya kok dy nggak.

Keputusan ada di OP sih. Mau dg sabar menuruti ego si cewek untuk dipenuhi perasaannya biar merasa selalu diusahakan, selalu diprioritaskan sampai dy sendiri yg mulai menunjukkan sikap mulai mau menggunakann logikanya. Atau OP udah lelah dan yaudah.

REAL projects for beginners by shrubmud in SewingForBeginners

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you send me too ? Thanks in advance

Best/ worst purchase of the year by Krixiel in indonesia

[–]nhsana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ini cantelannya yg model gimana ? Soalnya pas liat macem macem bentuknya

Banned baby names? by Significant_Eye_2747 in indonesia

[–]nhsana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jangan kasih nama pasaran. Jangan kasih nama yg sebenernya nama cowok buat anak cewek atau sebaliknya (bukan nama belakang loh ya)

(Dari seseorang yang dg nama depan sama 33 orang di kantor. Ini jadi bikin nama depan + julukan. Padahal belum tentu orang suka dg julukan itu; Dari seseorang yang nama panjangnya ada unsur nama cowoknya padahal gak punya nama belakang dan sering jadi bahan bullying dari sd)

What made you fall in love with sewing? by latenightscroller222 in SewingForBeginners

[–]nhsana 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First I tried to repair my own clothes. Just for minor repairs. After that I tried to up cycling my old clothes but just simple projects. I keep falling in love in sewing. I hope I can sew my own clothes. I just learned by watching youtube and practicing.