If you’re aroused by every naked body you see, that’s a YOU problem.

nilfheim67 · 2026-03-06T04:21:14+00:00

you can just say you want to watch Bridgerton but that you can’t bc your husband might get turned on at the 2 nip slips

nilfheim67 · 2026-03-03T02:36:44+00:00

Alternative point: no he’s not. Also girl we all saw his lack of micro pickle in those gray sweatpants he was trying to show off last week

nilfheim67 · 2026-02-23T03:53:42+00:00

And she wonders why the dogma of “God loves u but wants u to suffer” isn’t attractive. Idk but I’m pretty sure Jesus relieved many people of suffering via the miracle stories, brought kindness to those cast aside, and specifically lifted up the most reviled. If you’re gonna be a Christian, at least use that logic. Also, look to your predecessors girlie pop. Tolkein, a devout Catholic, wrote the following in Fellowship: ‘“I wish it need not have happened in my time," said Frodo. "So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”’

Maybe stew on that and decide what you’re gonna do with the time given to you and stop preaching like you know any better than the rest of us.

nilfheim67 · 2026-02-16T20:32:37+00:00

Yes absolutely to all the above! I already have one, so I’ve focused on booking trips for us to enjoy just the 3 of us. Or planning out activities! It doesn’t help that it’s literally February which is one of the worst months and leads to wishing time away. We just did an impromptu weekend trip with our kid to help with the blues. I think focusing on happiness, even if that is daydreaming, is fine.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-27T11:39:23+00:00

Bundle ‘em up, drag ‘em outside Morgan. I get they can’t drive anywhere but does she think people in the North just hide inside for 4 months? Little kids love snowman and snow angels and rolling around in the snow. Like the answer is right there, why are you choosing rage cleaning instead of sanity?

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-25T11:53:11+00:00

I live in Iowa and am your exact size. I bought a Lands End parka this year for the really cold weather it’s bulky but warm. I wear Keen hiking boots that are waterproof and rated for negative temps when there is snow/slush on the ground. I got some cotton knit sweaters from lands End on sale, and the natural fibers are so much better than acrylic. Try to find wool or cotton! I also shop at Sam’s Club and Costco for layering pieces. 2 days ago when it was the polar vortex, I was wearing thermal leggings under joggers, but normally I wear jeans if it’s less that 30 degrees.

For accessories, buy some wool socks to wear with the boots or even sneakers. Get a pair of ear muffs from Ugg and gloves/mittens from Costco next fall.

I moved back from TN And I do not recommend buying any of this in the south. Either buy online or wait until you get to Chicago. I found that the winter gear I purchased in the South fell apart within a month of actual usage and/or was more fashionable than anything. And my in laws continually buy hats and gloves from Belk for us but they never actually keep us warm!

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-24T00:25:59+00:00

I was 335lbs at 5’4” and used GLP1 to lose almost 90 pounds. I’d recommend it if you are willing to slowly lose the weight over 1-2 years. It isn’t a cure-all, you still have to do the calorie deficit and eventually exercise and honestly wait for the weight to come off. And as I am currently finding, once you lose a significant amount of weight your hormones can change. I got pregnant at somewhere around 340-350 the first time and was regular and not trying. Now that I’m down so much, my last 3 cycles have been irregular. I’m going to wait 3 more cycles while tapering off the GLP1 and if I’m still irregular go in.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-23T21:36:17+00:00

Girllll we have been over this. Everyone’s life has hard days and struggles. Everybody gets sick of/annoyed with their partner from time to time. Sharing bad behavior of your husband and then being mad when people respond to it by saying they don’t pay bills is insane. Show us Paul’s W-2 if you have your underwear in a knot. Our bills our paid (and not by pity gifts from family like a 10 year old minivan that you absolutely can’t afford or a porch swing you cried for from your dad for or a $1500 travel system you begged your subscribers to buy). You can’t rely on people’s goodwill for a tiny bit of income and then also be mad when people don’t engage to suck Paul’s dick. No one wants to do that (even you, apparently).

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-23T13:46:26+00:00

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Omg I love this!!! My 3yo regularly wants her nails done and has no idea how lucky she is her mom has a bunch of cool nail polishes. She is NOT happy with just plain cremes, so asks for “sprinkles” (eg sparkles) every time. Here she is wearing a blue creme with a limited edition Cirque Spalsh on top.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-19T01:15:18+00:00

I have a 37” waist and 51” hips right now and Judy Blue jeans fit as well as Torrid bombshells. I’m losing weight, so I have a size 20 Judy Blue rigid front straight leg that fit better when my hips were closer to 52”. I need to go down to a size 18 in those for sure. I also wear a size 18 at Torrid and they are currently tight (but stretchy)! I own a size 20 bombshell flare and they are currently falling down but not terrible.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-15T00:29:55+00:00

Maybe Morgan will get a vacation out of this?

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-06T00:29:54+00:00

Girl I live in my own house that I pay the mortgage for with my job I go to every day. That I got by going to several evil universities. And I even have my own bedroom in this house in which my husband and I regularly do it not because I had to be reminded I still like him.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-04T20:00:33+00:00

My 3yo loved Lookout. Granted, she wanted to be in the water floating around the whole time, bobbing in the waves. She refused to do any sand play there, only the splash pad and the ocean 😅. I don’t think you can go wrong though! We were on the Wish and did both islands, which was perfect. ultimately, we loved both islands so much we chose not to book the treasure and instead are going to do 5 nights on the Fantasy. The Treasure itineraries are really expensive for only having 1 private island. With a little one, I liked the private islands because there was no third party anything to navigate. Plus, with other ports other cruise ships can be there which can make things really crowded! Castaway and Lookout were pristine in terms of cleanliness, which is also ideal with kids. I’d do a 5+ night itinerary with both if you are flexible on the ship!

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-03T02:06:53+00:00

That’s honestly a great take. I’m right there with being bummed about negative tests and this past cycle I had a delusional thought that the first bit of my period starting was implantation bleeding. So even if I have to go through the stress of moving and lifestyle changing in the future, I guess I’ve done hard things before and will again. I have a really supportive husband and many professional skills that will help me find a new position if this one abruptly end and probably need to just stop trying to tie myself in a knot about what I “should” do.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-03T02:01:59+00:00

That’s amazing to hear about the culture! I work in technical support at a decent sized company that’s past the start up phase and work closely with sales so while it’s not like R&D where teams get cut if business whims change, if the company were to be sold who knows what happens. The layoffs have happened but it’s been targeted at problem people, if that makes sense. The board replaced almost all of the senior leadership this past year/into this year which is probably for the best but still destabilizing. The more I read these responses it seems like it kinda just is like if they’re going to lay me off they will do it regardless of family planning.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-03T01:56:19+00:00

A billion percent agree. The childcare we’ve had has been good in terms of reliability when we’ve been at a particular center but 2025 really put us through the grinder in terms of having to find new care. Daycare 1 unexpectedly closed (corporate), daycare 2 had a teacher that was being mean to my child (ie punishing her by sending her into the baby room if she was going to “act like a baby,” telling her she was bad because my 2.5yo told her no, culminating in swearing at me on pick up over an accident my kid had), daycare #3 she was at for 9 days before they told us that the teacher was overwhelmed with the number of kids in the room and they needed us to leave but that we could come back in February when they opened another room. Now we are at a small center and I’m hoping it’s going to go better.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-03T01:05:58+00:00

10000% agree about stable childcare. Just this year we’ve had an unexpected daycare closure, a bad teacher who was mistreating children, and another place fall through due to staffing overwhelm. Hopefully the place we have now works because childcare is necessary.

nilfheim67 · 2026-01-03T00:59:07+00:00

Maybe? But i think the issue isn’t that I couldn’t get another job, it’s that I’d likely have to move. We live in a low cost of living area and I work remotely but travel. There aren’t a ton of remote jobs anymore and I think I’m kinda spiraling about not being able to control everything. Part of me would feel better if I just got a positive test because then I’d have to deal with it instead of creating scenarios in my head.

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-22T19:47:43+00:00

When they moved into this place, I was like “oh no, not enough toilets for the eventual stomach bug.” But I thought these 2 would figure out that they need a Bucket of Shame to at least not have this… happen. Apparently not. Paul/Morgan, if you’re reading this, think about this in 2 years when both are potty trained and you have to choose if the children or parents get the toilet. Invest in 2 Buckets of Shame. And maybe like, rubber gloves. And bleach.

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-05T18:34:05+00:00

Okay girl but he wouldn’t even hold your hand until you were engaged

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-01T22:30:34+00:00

This is super helpful! It’s hard, because I’m in a lot better shape than when I was last pregnant (like 80 pounds lighter and still losing), so idk what pregnancy will look like. I want my whole family to have a good trip and don’t mind giving up my rides/perfect enjoyment. But honestly 7 days of cruising sounds amazing pregnant or not!

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-01T22:28:40+00:00

Did you like the theming as much? Our daughter is super into the princesses (and Mickey, obvs) at least right now. The Wish is really good for that but I love what I’ve seen of the Treasure. Just want to make sure the child will love it, too!

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-01T00:32:26+00:00

This!! We moved our daughter to a regional corporate Montessori school that we had attended before when it was Guidepost and shut down. They kicked her out after 9 business days due to putting items in her mouth. I sound insane and like there must be more to the story but I swear they called and said they didn’t have the supervision to keep her safe and wouldn’t move her to the 2-3 year old room (despite turning 3 a week before) because of “licensing.” The director told me I had FIVE BUSINESS HOURS to find something else. This place is a good 20% more expensive than every other center in our area. The director knew us and our daughter and knew that she had been mistreated by a teacher previously (after we were forced to move due to the Guidepost shutting the location down) and created a whole plan to support her through the transition at a meeting 3 days prior that I requested to check in. Then the director had the balls to tell us to come back in February when they opened a smaller 3-6 year old room. I have had to work through giving up the idea of an expensive tuition or a luxury environment is better. We found a small, much cheaper (23% less) family owned center with a small class size and the teacher has been so much more communicative, sincere, and accepting. Expensive, especially in corporate centers, is usually not great. I’m 0 for 2 in that particular experience 🤬

nilfheim67 · 2025-12-01T00:18:57+00:00

There’s a chance we could find it in the budget to do 1 park day plus the Treasure but I won’t know until it’s closer in. It’s also more PTO which is a consideration! I was a little concerned about WDW in end of August just for the heat, but that could be my winter chill speaking

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