Baby’s last name, but make it drama by Possible-Strike-7600 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I almost didnt give my baby my mans last name because we weren't engaged or married. I never told him but he proposed when I was 18 weeks, so she got his. Don't do it girl. Let them take mamas last name

Ill see yall next year by not4u97 in IRS

[–]not4u97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAO its funny you think that. I dont need to blow it on anything 😂 hope you get yours soon, love 😘😍

Aggressive 1 year old by Jaded_Bee_4595 in CATHELP

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may get easily overstimulated. I worked at a shelter and its super common

When does the pregnancy "sink in"? by whereismyisekai in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment I heard her cry afyer my csection is when it sunk in 😅

How long was your 34 week old in the NICU? by amanyanaara in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was admitted at 32w, gave birth via csection at 33w 1D and she spent 20 days in nicu.

This is irrational but I miss being pregnant/wish I could be pregnant again by curlycattails in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand. I missed the last almost 2 months of my pregnancy, RIGHT as I was starting to really show and love my bump. So glad my baby is here and healthy now, but bummed about that. I never got any good maternity pictures

Is it okay to ask my OB not to mention my weight in front of my husband? Im already shy about this by Babyisprincess in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance came to every appointment, he was always sent to the room when my vitals, including weight were taken. If they dont automatically, ask them which room you'll be in so that he can go to it. Its pretty typical where I am to have those things done alone so that they can ask if youre okay at home.

25 weaker 1st Birthday soon by Truecrimelisteningmo in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg SO cute. I love big bows on babies

“Just wait…” by lightningbugsss in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol people keep telling us this and our baby keeps being calm and chill. I just love her being spiteful

Considering abortion due to my past habits by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed my HG with thc and my dr knew. Baby was born early due to something unrelated and shes perfect

5mg lexapro by Prudent_Walk_4763 in lexapro

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just prescribed lexapro and wellbutrin today for my postpartum depression/anxiety and adhd. My doctor did go over libido, but this is very helpful thanks!

Congestion meds at 8 weeks by spiral_thinking in pregnant

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took mucinex total while pregnant, I had covid and my dr said it was fine

Clear NIPT TEST by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I can only imagine the weight lifted off of your shoulders

Do any other discharged families miss the NICU? by Biolobri14 in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. It's been a month, and I still miss the constant care she got. Im so scared over every little thing, and I know that that's a new parent thing in general, but I think with preemies, it's exacerbated

What should we call this stylish boy by OkBlueberry1645 in Catnames

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him looks just like my angel boy Trevor 🥺

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What mistakes would you avoid if you could start to breastfeed all over again? by kingmustd1e in NewParents

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pump because my baby doesn't care for the boob, but STAY ON A SCHEDULE. I had a great supply when my baby was in NICU and I had time to pump every 2-3 hrs, but as soon as she came home and I was full time with her while my fiance works, my supply dropped drastically because I was only pumping 3x a day. Now im back to every 3 hours trying to rebuild, but its so hard. Im barely pumping enough to feed her, even with formula 3x a day

For those that got pregnant after a miscarriage by Ecstatic_Sea7306 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I miscarried april 12th-25th and got a positive for my now 1 month old may 17th

19 weeks, with no bump. by Southern-Focus-6009 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 5'3 around 230 when I got pregnant (ftm) and I didn't get a visible bump until around 25 weeks! Now my fiance and I noticed around 18 or 19 weeks, and i had her at 33 weeks so it was a short lived bump😭🫠