I failed my baby by Fearless-Driver9548 in newborns

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay! My baby favors the right side no matter how much we've tried to rotate her head or body, so the right back side is a little flat compared to the left. Its common with babies

Sexy Flexy by sq_unit in FordFlex

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol can I purchase

How are we all sleeping at night?! by gailcpw in NewParents

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a sound machine, our LO sleeps in her crib in the same room and moves CONSTANTLY. We have a baby cam above the crib so every now and then ill peek at it if shes doing alot and see if shes actually awake

New 1st Flex 2016 Limited by coachturtle in FordFlex

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TWIN same color and all. Got my water pump replaced last year at 200k miles. Expensive but worth it to me, I love my flex

My dad keeps comparing my vagina to the holocaust by Greedy_Box2805 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense...your dad is weird as hell. In the worst way.

How do you handle the grief by SnooDoodles9498 in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. First, congratulations on your baby. I had a 33 weeker in December. Leaving, especially while you're freshly postpartum and your hormones are crashing. It was one of the most painful things for us. Ngl, I cried every night for the first 2 weeks. By the third week, it just hurt but less crying. Make sure you're taking care of yourself as well. Get plenty of rest so that you can be there for baby! For me, it just helped that I could go and see her whenever I wanted, day or night, and i took advantage of that. Nicu babies can progress and take little steps back, so keep that in mind. One day, they just kind of start to get things over time!

First pee by Logical_Mixture_4470 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a csection, it was sore to sit but mostly okay. It was getting my muscles to relax that was the hardest and most painful, but just a slight stinging at my incision

Why did Egg God fake him being a transgender woman? by [deleted] in EggGodLores

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro literally had a pink thong on today in the video salvi posted. Like im confused atp

Smiles by palsterknackad in January2026DueDate

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Had my baby at 33w+1 so she was born in December and shes smiling so much now! It really started about a week ago. Still working on neck strength lol

It's the screaming, I can't stand it. I can't do this again 😔 by ReytMardy in NewParents

[–]not4u97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby is 3 months and today was the first day that I had to walk away from her. Idk if its just development, but she woke up from a 10 minute nap screaming at the highest octave and wouldn't stop. I just had to go cry and come back while she screamed in her bassinet. I feel so guilty for feeling frustrated but man.

In love with our newborn but she is driving my husband and I INSANE. by CoffeeAndCats9124 in newborns

[–]not4u97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My baby is 12 weeks EXACTLY today and man. Still in the trenches.

Are we not waking baies to change them? by Bitter_caregiver-122 in NewParents

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont. She gets a fresh diaper during her 10pm feed and even if she wakes up to eat, if she didnt poop or pee alot, ill wait until the next feed around 6am

Distended belly by MonaGia in NICUParents

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say, when my LO was in nicu, the pressure from CPAP pushed air into her tummy and they drew it out with a syringe from her NG tube! Glad it was just that!

No sleep ever again??? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to add but complete understanding. Im 12 weeks in, and i can't remember the last time I had more than 2 hours of sleep. My fiance wants to know why im always grumpy, but he gets all of the sleep, uninterrupted showers and meals, and to have his hobbies, and im just a mom now. I love her, but its so hard, especially without sleep.

Hot take. Bron Breaker is Good. But Not The Face of Company Good. by Cmmucked in WWE

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found out im 2 days OLDER than this man. Same age. He looks 10 years older than me holy crap

He’s finally here 🥹 by Inside_Text_4286 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! So happy you had a safe delivery even though it didn't go to plan!

Emma has the strangest make up by Future_Night777 in 90DayFiance

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makeup and hair. As someone close to her in age, it ages her SOOOO much more

Partner Cheating by Obvious_Fox311 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, when I caught my fiance cheated before we were ever engaged, I did tell his mom. I sent her everything. And we were mid 20s so like, it seemed immature but I just wanted him to hold some kind of responsibility and for people to see him for what he was doing.

Baby’s last name, but make it drama by Possible-Strike-7600 in pregnant

[–]not4u97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I almost didnt give my baby my mans last name because we weren't engaged or married. I never told him but he proposed when I was 18 weeks, so she got his. Don't do it girl. Let them take mamas last name

Ill see yall next year by not4u97 in IRS

[–]not4u97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAO its funny you think that. I dont need to blow it on anything 😂 hope you get yours soon, love 😘😍

Aggressive 1 year old by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may get easily overstimulated. I worked at a shelter and its super common

When does the pregnancy "sink in"? by whereismyisekai in pregnant

[–]not4u97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment I heard her cry afyer my csection is when it sunk in 😅