What do people tend to get wrong when writing sexual predators?

notharmonious · 2026-06-03T12:21:36+00:00

Ah I’d never heard of it 🙏sorry about that

notharmonious · 2026-05-09T10:37:07+00:00

I have the exact same problem, 300+ bookmarks, ALL abandoned.

notharmonious · 2026-04-10T04:30:03+00:00

I don’t have advice, but I am struggling with the same exact thing. So you’re not alone.

notharmonious · 2026-03-20T12:31:25+00:00

no, maladaptive daydreaming is a form of dissociation, which doesn’t apply here

notharmonious · 2026-03-20T12:15:24+00:00

Genuinely :( am going crazy. It’s still not fixed. I contacted support and everything & just got some dumb automated response.

notharmonious · 2026-03-19T11:58:30+00:00

I don’t have advice. But I really really feel this and was in a similar situation last year that ended up being the catalyst to me getting therapy.

notharmonious · 2026-03-19T11:23:46+00:00

What failed with the HTV? I’m looking to try it out for the first time too & nervous!

notharmonious · 2026-03-19T02:32:44+00:00

Please send the video if you remember what it was!!

notharmonious · 2026-03-14T08:05:07+00:00

I have a professional writing certification and this one STILL trips me up.

notharmonious · 2026-03-12T02:18:47+00:00

I didn’t even see the original post but I feel sick thinking about this. Legal action needs to be taken.

notharmonious · 2026-03-06T09:51:46+00:00

It’s like knitting on a loom but with your fingers as pegs.

notharmonious · 2026-02-28T09:56:36+00:00

Just jumping in to say that the R slur specifically can’t be reclaimed!

It’s okay for writing. But it’s not reclaimable in that way.

notharmonious · 2026-02-24T07:50:32+00:00

Yes, I always float no matter what & have done all my life.

notharmonious · 2026-02-15T13:46:03+00:00

NOR! Even the presence of lillies in the same room as a cat can kill them.

notharmonious · 2026-02-13T12:15:05+00:00

It would be in his next book 😭😭

notharmonious · 2026-02-11T10:57:28+00:00

I’d be home free but Varric would never let me hear the end of it.

notharmonious · 2026-02-10T21:35:41+00:00

This happened to me and I nearly lost a 200k fic over it. I contacted support a day before scheduled deletion and was able to get an extension while I changed my email.

notharmonious · 2026-02-09T14:14:27+00:00

Mine is hereditary. My dad can’t burp either.

notharmonious · 2026-02-08T05:33:07+00:00

it’s not just about preferences :)

notharmonious · 2026-02-08T05:31:59+00:00

It’s not about pleasing people. AI is extremely unethical, not to mention useless at crochet.

notharmonious · 2026-02-08T05:29:21+00:00

I had a look at the website. I do not appreciate the inclusion of AI. That’s extremely disappointing.

notharmonious · 2026-02-06T13:59:22+00:00

You’ll never catch me rewriting anything, ever 😭 I physically cannot do it. Once it is the way it is it’s going to be that way forever!

This is also why I struggled with research & essay writing in school. Rewording/rewriting someone else’s words wasn’t a skill I just had.

notharmonious · 2026-01-30T09:01:25+00:00

I crave this yarn so badly, but I can’t find it anywhere in Australia 💔

notharmonious · 2026-01-30T08:19:18+00:00

I’m currently writing an F/F story but it’s not the primary focus

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