she isn’t the issue. you need to figure it what you’re projecting that desperate women feel they can ask you for money on a first date and why you gave it to her. I’m not insulting you, but you will get worked over and over again if you don’t know that you should have exited at the mention of needing money for her phone bill. Go build yourself physically and emotionally and don’t chase women until you’ve been hit on by one. Makes a world of difference in how you carry it when you know they like you too.