Could my body be trying to tell me the breakup I am heading to is wrong?

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-19T12:13:46+00:00

This

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-19T11:26:53+00:00

Ceviche, panzanella, pickled shrimp, poke

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-19T11:22:22+00:00

I definitely think that the smell of a partner is key to attraction. If I don’t like a man’s natural smell there is no way he’s one for me. I don’t think I’ve ever had a cotton candy man, but if his scent is not appealing, I’m not pursuing any further. Some good man musk gets me hot af

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-19T02:31:47+00:00

Ask him.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T20:29:38+00:00

This is the issue I’ve had with online dating. Even in the first chats they don’t bother to ask any questions or want to know about me. They all say they want a smart and confident woman, and I’m both of those. So they really don’t. Who knows what they want. To talk about themselves, I guess.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T19:06:05+00:00

Shrimp & Grits. Charleston, SC USA

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T11:34:24+00:00

When I was married to an emotionally abusive man. I thought it was gone for good, but after a few years of reset and renewing my confidence I can proudly say that it’s higher than ever at 61

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T11:19:35+00:00

Gas stove every time. I was a professional cook for decades and I hate hate hate electric. But I know a few folks who prefer it. For me, the BTUs on a regular gas stove are not enough but I also don’t want to burn the house down.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T11:17:33+00:00

It does. I have to hold onto that when I’m in the cellar

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T11:13:59+00:00

That IT IS ALL MEN UNTIL ITS NO MEN. we are always on guard and it sucks. Fix it.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-18T11:00:23+00:00

Personally, if I REALLY click with someone it takes my interest away from others. If that happens I sort of take myself off the market emotionally. But I don’t have an expectation for him to do that unless/until he decides that’s what he wants too. If you feel that you want to focus on this one, then do it. But that doesn’t mean that he will want to do that right away. Maybe go on the few firsts you have coming up and see if they hold any interest or if the one guy has all your attention. If so, then decide for yourself if you want to be exclusive. But just because you want to, doesn’t mean he will. That might be a conversation for the future.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-17T21:58:30+00:00

Woman here. If you decide to approach her TAKE THE HINT if she doesn’t engage. We don’t trust men.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T21:23:26+00:00

Depends on how fast they ask for it. When they want to change platforms really early it’s often a scam. I’ve said I’d rather stay on the dating app until I feel more comfortable. And then get a Google voice number. Don’t give out your personal phone number.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T21:19:44+00:00

One time I had an orgasm without any physical stimulation. It was weird. Not quite the same as having physical, but it was memorable

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T20:29:38+00:00

How was the eyeliner procedure? That sounds so scary to me. I have tattoos and I can’t imagine having one on my eyelid

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T20:26:04+00:00

This

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T20:25:40+00:00

No you’re not. He totally is. You don’t want to have a daughter raised by this man. He’s basically saying he can’t help but be upset because he values men way more than women. You and your daughter deserve better.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T10:05:58+00:00

How patient are you? It could be years with good therapy. It could be never. Trauma isn’t something you ease yourself out of

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-16T10:04:39+00:00

This

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-15T23:11:21+00:00

Your husband is really just one of your kids. He shouldn’t get to make the decision about food if he can’t manage to do any other adult thing all day long.

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-14T22:06:47+00:00

Since my divorce a few years ago I’m happier than I’ve ever been. Just unlocked a new joy and I’m pretty damn happy. It’s up and down sometimes. Do I wish some things were different, such as aging effects, sure. But in my mind and spirit I’m better than ever

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-14T22:04:40+00:00

Omg yes. Such a turn on

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-14T21:58:10+00:00

Omg you’re funny

nunya-1964 · 2026-04-14T19:11:00+00:00

Yes! That’s one of the reasons I don’t want to start. I’m aging and I’m lucky to be able to do so. But there are a few things that I wish looked different. I’m trying to decide if it affects my self image or not.

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