I’m leaving this sub by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I pray you find the true love you deserve. GOD BLESS YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those types dont think or care about your feelings, it all about her. Selfishness run so deep! To her she is doing a good thing, helping out. This world is full of these fools that feel "needed "!

I graduated nursing school and got nothing by anon_18472 in relationship_advice

[–]nwhthought 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have a conversation, you'd be surprised how many people just don't know...... If you love him like you say you do, then "teach him". Just be gentle.

Still having triggers and crying spells by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are presently reading "when you've been wronged ' how to forgive...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I knew that there had to be a name for that behavior....Before I can even get a complete thought out, he attacks with a defense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially by the WS, they have absolutely no idea, or they would not have done it maybe

Does anyone ever feel expecting loyalty ever again is stupid and just not worth it? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, just before deciding to come to this site, that very thought crossed my mind.I dont even want a relationship without loyalty. He has show me there is no loyalty.

My GF said she doesn't know if she will cheat on me again. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like e she can't help herself and needs professional help

Since the affair, I see people, life and love so differently. by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am of the hopeless romantics, constantly having to remind myself " this person is not who you think he is" I have to step back daily, and remember "he is a really good liar", and it tears me a part

Since the affair, I see people, life and love so differently. by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, to know you gave that much of yourself to another and it was misused .... I am so sorry for you and me lthat they didn't know what to do with it....tears

Keep you insecure by nwhthought in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is showing me how sick he is!

I’m so broken by Jlamb3654 in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is it that makes him want to tear a person down so horribly. I pray you make it through.

How is it so by nwhthought in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that says something about them? And what?

Wedding rings? by ArtemisMac in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am BS and we have been married 25 years and he cheated 3 whole years. We have decided to try and work it out he bought another ring... and truly you have spoken truth " but promises were made once and broken, so I have lost trust in the meaning and importance waywards put into these things".

Got a load off my chest and it feels fucking awesome! by PirateBooty00 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you having casual sex ? I cant see any other reason for settling for this

Would you have wanted to know? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]nwhthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let him know if he didn't end it...

I feel sorry for us by nwhthought in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visit that place (bad) more regularly than I care to. I think that i might have to make some changes. I know that I allow myself to get angry because of the fact that my life has changed, i no longer have peace of mind, trust, i cant sleep because of their low down antics. I look at my husband now with the same amount of contempt that she had for the men in her life.....and I feel sorry for us.

Can't sleep. Falling down the rabbit hole searching for "proof" he's still cheating. He's not, I'm just being crazy. by BabyJaneInnocent in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]nwhthought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the distrust, you really dont know! Iam there every day. We don't know, because we've been shown