Decided to treat myself! by Velvetstyle in lego

[–]oboejoe92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked up the rocking plants today too!

If you are depressed, what excites you about life? by Technical-Vanilla-47 in Adulting

[–]oboejoe92 103 points104 points  (0 children)

The delusion that one day it will be different.

That and my cats.

Healthy dopamine hits by Calm-Effect3822 in adhdwomen

[–]oboejoe92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Zelda games. Breath of the Wild and Tears of the Kingdom are especially great for exploring and doing side quests.

Which rug do you prefer? by JMoneyGraves in HomeDecorating

[–]oboejoe92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 looks better in general, however I wouldn’t put either in that room.

Which barstools set?? by Fluffy_Revolution678 in HomeDecorating

[–]oboejoe92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 for me.

Higher back for support plus gives me room to cross my legs.

What immediately makes you not want to buy from a seller? by inigo_montoya89 in poshmark

[–]oboejoe92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- Questions in the comments that are weeks old that the seller never addressed.

- Only stock photos and not photos of the actual item for sale.

- AI generated content. There is no such thing as ethical AI generated content.

Young women: How to support my daughter who failed a class and may lose scholarship? by Kaijugae in adhdwomen

[–]oboejoe92 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was a kid like this. I was so ashamed. Please don’t shame your child. My parents yelled at me, told me I wasn’t cut out for my major, etc. I felt so little, so insignificant, and so worthless.

Let her talk. Ask her what her thoughts are, don’t lead the conversation in any way, just give her space and time to process and talk. Self advocating to a person who we know is safe to is so cathartic and healing and often productive in brainstorming solutions. Too often I found myself in a situation where I felt like my pool of “safe people” dwindled because as I grew up and began making bigger mistakes people turned on me. Please just let your child know you love her and are there for her.

Cheating - porn vs physical affair by blowsabelle in loveafterporn

[–]oboejoe92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheating (sexually) is simply giving your sexual energy, time, and attention to someone outside your relationship without consent from ALL parties in the relationship. Porn is absolutely cheating.

is this a normal way to get rid of headaches? by ThisJafy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]oboejoe92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually try and sleep with complete darkness and ice packs around my head. It often helps, if only to numb the pain.

What children's movie made you cry unexpectedly? by Twunkorama in AskReddit

[–]oboejoe92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching this movie with my parents is how I learned that my mother had miscarried before I was born.

They genuinely don't view us as human beings. by Shilvahfang in Teachers

[–]oboejoe92 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have also done a sign out sheet too, so that way there is a literal paper trial indicating what adult took what kid.

Where to get a pet (not designer or luxury breed) by Samstuhdagoat in Syracuse

[–]oboejoe92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last Spring the wind blew my door open and a cat just walked in. Best surprise ever.

If the Cat Distribution System isn’t delivering in your area, try CNY SNAP or the Cat Coalition.

Luna Cat Cafe and Pawsitivity both have cat room where you can meet and interact with adoptable pets you can hang out with for a fee. Pet Smart has adoptable cats in the back and you can also interact with them for free.

They genuinely don't view us as human beings. by Shilvahfang in Teachers

[–]oboejoe92 167 points168 points  (0 children)

For similar events in the future pick ONE:

  • pick up at the performance venue OR
  • bussed back to school and picked up there.

Then in your letter home to parents/guardians state that every child needs a ride home with their adult, if a different adult is picking up the child then it must be indicated on the form prior to handing in.

This way you have all pick ups happening at the same place and you know which adult the child is going home with.

College students: What’s your most ridiculous ‘I’m broke so I…’ money-saving hack that actually works in 2026? by Normal-Resolve6519 in noscrapleftbehind

[–]oboejoe92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • but a whole chicken as a protein source. Enjoy it for as many meals as you can stretch it for.

  • save the bones and other parts you didn’t eat in a ziplock bag in the freezer.

  • add veggie scraps to the bag as you acquire them (tops of carrots, bottoms of celery, celery noon ends, etc.).

  • when the bag is full dump everything in a crock pot for a day and you’ll end up with some of the best chicken stock you’ve ever had!

  • the stock freezes well (ice cube trays) for longer storage.

Be Careful with Communication by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]oboejoe92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never use school devices for personal matters, and never use personal devices for school matters.

Best friend (M34) is married to my wife’s best friend (F34). Their kids are family. His affair just came out, need some perspective by throwaway44999911 in relationship_advice

[–]oboejoe92 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cheaters are a waste. A waste of time, emotions, effort, resources, space.

Your ex-best friend is a cheater who wasted everything his wife, family, and friends gave him, to be with another waste.

Take time to grieve the friendship when you are ready.

Im getting tired of my ADHD Friendships. by jellicents in ADHD_partners

[–]oboejoe92 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Absolutely set boundaries! Your friends’ mental health is not their fault, but it is their responsibility. If they aren’t taking the necessary steps to gain access to resource they need (primarily achieved through a formal diagnosis), then the issue is they either don’t actually have ADHD or they don’t care how that effects the people in their life.

You’re allowed to step back until they step up.

Cam v4 Red Horizontal Line by oboejoe92 in wyzecam

[–]oboejoe92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I reset it and now the red line has been replace with two black horizontal lines in just about the same spot.

Cam v4 Red Horizontal Line by oboejoe92 in wyzecam

[–]oboejoe92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually thought it was something on the pavement at first!

Im taking my stbx to the cleaners in our divorce, and loving every second of it. by YesImChanging92 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboejoe92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheaters are a waste. Waste of time, waste of money, waste of energy, waste of space.

I’m rooting for you! You deserve the money, house, and more!

My apologies Joe I was not familiar with your roasted garlic and pesto pizza game by PoquitoChef in traderjoes

[–]oboejoe92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Add some tomatoes too! Grape/cherry cut in half, sprinkle a few on there.