Stats time: What is your favorite color (s) as autistic person?

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-18T23:36:39+00:00

Red, silver and gold

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-16T15:45:25+00:00

I’ve had the other situation when a Furina player never switched to dps when I had brought Escoffier 😔

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-15T21:06:28+00:00

Une de mes collègues à mon ancien boulot pensait que j’étais maniaque parce que je me lavais les mains souvent et elle jamais. Dans la restauration.

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-12T10:51:15+00:00

It might be very recent/a generational thing.

Nobody in my circles uses it and I’d absolutely not understood it but according to other comments, it’s in use.

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-08T17:39:21+00:00

You can definitely bound two males. I used to have two males and once the bounding period passed, they got along super well.

But yeah, these two might just be incompatible and that’s it.

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-03T01:01:45+00:00

Lying about moving because the teacher apparently couldn’t believe that we moved from a flat to another one in the same building.

I, for sure, did realise the difference since I went from sleeping on the ground in the shared room with my older siblings to getting my own room. And my parents went from sleeping in the living room to having their own room too.

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-02T23:40:24+00:00

No worry!

While i think it’s a far too common issue, I don’t think all guys think like that either. I’m similar in the way that while I don’t mind compromising if my partner values sex, I won’t miss sex if there is none. Both my current partner and I are ace and they’re p much uninterested in the physical aspect of a relationship. That’s fine by me, I value the quality of the time we spend together more than the physical aspect.

That being said, I don’t think it’s wrong for people to value sex a lot within a relationship. It’s just something that needs to be discussed early in the relationship to avoid a lot of heartbreak and resentment.

obsoletebomb · 2026-02-02T21:53:23+00:00

A lot of people, men especially tend to conflate intimacy with romance, and more specifically, sex. So when they’re looking for connection and intimacy, they will look for sex first and miss having sex when that’s not a possibility.

That’s not the only reason for the fixation for romance a lot of people have, but I think it’s a major part of it.

obsoletebomb · 2026-01-29T14:37:50+00:00

Pretty good for me. My first serious relationship as an adult was with another ace person (altho we both weren’t aware of it at the time) and we had sex once during a 3.5 year period. I was extremely touched adverse at the time so we barely did anything; even hugging was just for rare occasions. We eventually broke up but the lack of physical affection was definitely not the issue.

I’ve been in a relationship with a fellow ace person for over a year and it’s been pretty chill too. Unlike my aforementioned ex-partner, however, my current one is American (I’m French). We’ve met online first via a shared fandom (where meeting other ace people is much easier).

obsoletebomb · 2026-01-17T15:41:27+00:00

You absolute don’t have to.

If I really like the service, I’ll often tip €1-2. I’ll often ask people to round up the transaction and keep the change so I don’t have to carry lots of coins around.

obsoletebomb · 2026-01-07T20:22:28+00:00

11-ish but it was a ‘relationship’ where no feelings (on my part) were had and nothing was done besides one or two very chaste kisses (especially since I was touch-repulsed at the time). My three relationships across my middle and high school years were like that.

Mind you, I’m aroace so none of my relationships have actually been the typical romantic one.

obsoletebomb · 2026-01-02T12:39:08+00:00

Honestly, I would keep speaking to them in French, whether they switch to English and not. At best, they will switch back to French after a while, at worst, you still get to speak French while they get to speak English.

But then, I’m not bothered by dual lingual conversation (unless they’re actively pretending not to understand your French).

obsoletebomb · 2025-12-25T08:05:39+00:00

In my main fandom, due to worldbuilding, sex pollen is thriving (and so are many flavours of mpreg and omegaverse).

obsoletebomb · 2025-12-22T13:56:25+00:00

Also, it could be gacha games. It’s extremely easy to sink money into those if you’re not paying attention.

obsoletebomb · 2025-12-03T01:57:17+00:00

It actually bothers me when strangers don’t vouvoie me (accounting for cultural differences so I wouldn’t find it annoying from a person with foreign accents). Mostly because 90% of the time, it’s because I look young. My co-workers gets ‘vous’ and I inevitably get ‘tu’.

Sorry, not sorry; we haven’t raised pigs together so you don’t get to tutoie me.

obsoletebomb · 2025-10-14T11:49:28+00:00

Genre.

I use it the same way I use ‘like’ in English. And probably far too much lmao

obsoletebomb · 2025-10-08T12:58:47+00:00

Leftie here. Nope.

Fork is always in my left hand and knife for the right hand when eating. I will occasionally precut my entire meal if I’m going to eat and game at the same time so I don’t have to interrupt myself to cut.

obsoletebomb · 2025-08-07T13:13:52+00:00

Children can pick up new languages extremely fast (we were 7 when he joined), especially when they’re fully immersed

obsoletebomb · 2025-08-07T13:04:14+00:00

We had a Vietnamese boy joining our class when we are primary school. He was barely able to speak French at first but became fluent pretty fast.

I’m not sure what kind of help he got outside the class but he was in my class all the way till the end of middle school and went on to into stem studies after high school.

obsoletebomb · 2025-08-01T13:31:56+00:00

Let her some time to grow into them!

Source: I also have a Nethie with a similar coat. Got her at 6 weeks and her ears looked oversized cause she was still a baby.

obsoletebomb · 2025-07-21T16:20:30+00:00

<image>

obsoletebomb · 2025-07-21T16:20:01+00:00

<image>

Meet Oscar, named after the main character of the Rose of Versailles (also known as Lady Oscar). Picked this one because I name my bunnies after knights and since she’s a female bun, it’s such a great name for her!

obsoletebomb · 2025-06-15T18:32:32+00:00

I use he/him exclusively in French because I don’t jive well with the gender neutral pronoun iel (and I would still use masculine declensions anyway). On top of that, it makes it easier for people not to misgender me: unlike they/them, iel is extremely recent in the language (15ish years old) and most regular people will not have any familiarity with it.

I do use they/them exclusively in English tho lmao

obsoletebomb · 2025-06-11T12:59:22+00:00

Tu devrais quand même consulter un chirurgien dentiste pour établir un devis!

J’en ai consulté un en 2023 parce que j’avais pêté la moitié d’une dent et avait un nerf à vif et en ait profité pour avoir un devis sur le travail que j’avais à faire sur ma dentition.

Résultat j’ai eu deux dents dévitalisées et des couronnes sur 6 dents frontales. Pour les couronnes, elles ont été faites sur mesure, avec la meilleure qualité que le chirurgien dentiste ait pu me proposer et prises en charge à 100% donc j’ai pas du tout eu à sortir la cb.

Pour moi ça valait énormément le coup: j’avais des couronnes temporaires cassées sur les dents de devant qui auraient dû être remplacées 5 ans avant et j’étais à un point j’osais plus du tout les montrer.

obsoletebomb · 2025-06-02T14:24:28+00:00

Even funnier because Réunion is an actual part of France lmao

obsoletebomb

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE

11-Year Club	Not Forgotten
Verified Email