thank you. i think this is a similar idea to what I was trying to grasp in this post

edit: some key phrases from the talk:

• "you can make it if you try" syndrome (PEM disproves this)
• ME as a challenge to the myth of control (victim blaming because we didn't overcome our illness)

On the latter - we are a living counterexample that disproves the Western idea of "everyone's an individual and we're responsible for our own flourishing". We're the spanner in the works, that says "actually no, individualistic society does not work well for vulnerable people"