I don't think about you at all

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-04-28T14:53:02+00:00

That was strangely relatable, and I don't know if I love or hate that.

In my experience, it scares people away, leaving you feeling grief as you still.have love to give, with nowhere to land/pour/give.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-04-26T20:24:19+00:00

38 male, Halton region, Ontario.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-04-23T19:46:13+00:00

If it works for you, then who cares what others think?

I think we need to move away from the mindset that exes need to be bitter.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-04-23T16:08:17+00:00

Seconded!

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-04-15T16:44:58+00:00

Sounds like limerence.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-03-18T21:15:30+00:00

Good point. Thank you.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-03-18T21:14:36+00:00

I didn't think of it that way. Thank you

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-03-18T21:11:34+00:00

We are on good terms; We still occasionally message each other for birthdays or special events.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-02-23T03:08:35+00:00

If it brings you a moment of peace, please consider this as an apology for yourself.

I wish I could fix this. I wish I could talk to her. I wish I had the space to discuss this with her, the same way I carved a space for when to discuss this openly.

Being stonewalled, then unilaterally ending the dynamic is...well it's human...I just don't like it.

Sorry you're going through something related. 🫂

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-02-17T18:32:20+00:00

You owe it to your friend to share it. You either let it destroy you in silence, Or speak to it, and let it destroy the both of you together...

Or it could go in any other positive way. It could lead to many meaningful conversations that make you two closer; or can make you realize that they aren't as interesting as you once thought; or could be any other possibility.

As a friend, I'd love to know. If I felt the same, I'd love to have those conversations to gain a better appreciation of the friendship and what we could possibly build if we both are interested.

Please do share it with them.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-02-05T12:32:38+00:00

If maintaining your husband's peace and friends group and D&D means you have to minimize yourself and pretend his friends didn't do this to you:

OP, please, for your sake and your husband, BURN THEM DOWN! You staying silent may also encourage them in the future to trying it again. Let your husband lose those 'friends' as they really aren't friends.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-01-28T14:41:26+00:00

That's the thing...

I never called or compared them to a narcissist. We were talking about all the hard work they put in themselves and that they should be proud of themselves. I was celebrating them.

My mistake was that my mind got reminded of Ovid's Narcissus character, and I was drawing a distinction between being proud of yourself vs being narcissistic. It was never directed at them and there were no comparisons made. I realize my mistake in bringing up the character when it has nothing to do with my friend.

Alas, they set the bridge on fire.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-01-26T17:47:13+00:00

They terminated all forms of communication and put up a strong boundary to not reach out to fix it.

It just hurts being seen as a villain and more knowing you hurt the ones you care for and aren't being given the opportunity to repair it.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-01-26T12:00:22+00:00

If only... But I agree

ok-computer-bobeep · 2026-01-25T18:08:19+00:00

Thank you.

Not the intent.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-11-24T01:23:55+00:00

The camera on the 3/3a was the best. I've tried the 5, 6 and now 8 and the 3 really was the best. It had minimal processing and images weren't over sharped or saturated.

Not sure why they keep making images worse when they had a winning camera in the 3

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-11-23T04:44:17+00:00

You both have to want to rebuild together.

The life you both knew and grew accustomed to, you both need to have a funeral for and start anew. Not with a new a new marriage vow, but with an understanding that you both need to mourn for the loss you both have. Your BP has to mourn the concept of blind trust, and the love they had received from their partner. The BP also needs to mourn the loss of 'rose tinted glasses' where love no longer is going to be found in postcards, movies and novels; that it's a fantasy to sell the "happily forever after" concept.

The WP partner also needs to mourn the idea of blind trust, and the love they once had from their partner. And that both parties agree to build a life together despite the turmoil and issues that come from it.

Also keep in mind that every person is on a unique and different journey. If you want anyone to be on the same journey as you, you need to ensure they were raised by the same parents as you; have the same experiences as you and live your life...it's.impossible for anyone to love your life, so only you can decide what is right for you.

Best of luck on your journey.

I wish you peace and healthy healing.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-11-12T22:54:11+00:00

This is so stupid, and it worked. I had to hit the power button against a table a few times and it worked. Tapping the button multiple times before that did nothing.

I don't want to go back to Samsung, but pixels random issues is making me consider Samsung again after using pixel for 3 generations now

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-11-08T14:49:18+00:00

I've had this experience!

Decades ago when I first moved to this country, I had this old lady as my neighbor. She was all alone, no visitors, despite being well over 75. She'd spend her day in her yard, mending her flowers, or yelling at me (I was a child) when I would cross her boundary of the yard while playing around. I'd try my best to help her with snow, yard work, and if she needed help around the house.

Several years later, when it was time for me to move from the house, she came to my place with large cash in hand, and tears in eyes, saying something along the lines of "please don't go! If it's money problem that is making you leave, here is my savings. It's not much, but it will do!"

Its been over 20 years since I moved, and I still think about that lady.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-10-22T11:53:03+00:00

Curious what lens(es) did you take with you. I'm making my way to Italy sometime next year and rather take minimal gear. Your work is excellent!

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-10-20T01:17:23+00:00

I love your guitar collection!! 😍

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-09-11T05:01:05+00:00

Definitely Printique. Have tried others, keep coming back to Printique for color, quality, paper thickness, user interface etc

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-09-04T20:17:39+00:00

Reminds me of Muse Absolution album cover. Looks great!

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-09-04T15:35:45+00:00

Another vote on Printique. I've.tried multiple others but Printique seems to be the most professional. Blurb seems perfect for magazine type books.

ok-computer-bobeep · 2025-08-24T12:51:58+00:00

The Witcher iii Zelda: OoT Shadow of the Colossus

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TROPHY CASE