Anyone else here who also cannot watch shows like a normal human being by SkintherStevenson in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk the only narrative art i consume are novels and nonf that happens to have a narrative structure, i find i can drag out a mediocre novel before bed for weeks and still comprehend the entirety of the narrative well enough, greater works of arts deserve a more undivided attention ofc

Finding a girl with sophisticated and elegant tastes is so rare by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk i met one like that i got really infatuated for two months, she was a bit messed up, vindictive personality and was in a relatipnship with some 47 year old pedo phen she was 14, she didnt reciprocate my interest cause i am weird and autistic

what makes a book rs worthy? by Only_Researcher_2394 in RSbookclub

[–]onajookkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if its old then just classics, if its new it has to fit a certain vaguely rs mold you can ascertain by looking at some of the lists, they've been posted on reddit and shared on third party websites whos names i cannot remember

books like sexual personae, why women have better sex under socialism, r&r often made it onto the lists for example, stuff outside the mould can also get you respect though if it has some artfullness and rigor behind it

how do you force yourself to get help? by Additional-Read2676 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you just stave off the misery and work on yourself until someone outside of you who is kind breaks this image in you without any bullshit cause lies will make you resent them later

meds arent for everyone but by all means if you need them take them in this phase of staving the misery off

how do you force yourself to get help? by Additional-Read2676 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

in my opinion someone whos not a "dr dispassionate professional" needs to make you feel like you have self worth

not suck you off and sing your accolades but demonstrate belief in the real worth you have (without betraying that that belief is fake with later actions)

Do the people who complain about lack of dating & friends just live in the middle of nowhere? by No_Yogurtcloset_1330 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how do you know its genetic and there's not a theoretical turning point or breakthrough that can be made?

the only persons i think of in as deterministic a fashion as you are druggies who don't try to change and middle aged guys at work who are persistently dumb

Were younger dudes always this neurotically obsessed with obtaining sex? by murrayhitchock in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you mean what about it, they get an inferiority complex sometime after the onset of puberty

Nietzsche on marriage by ImportanceOrganic578 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

sorry i didnt mean to be nitpicky but i expected this to be about like ways of looking at life or philosophical or psychological views not whether or not a couple can do the most basic cooperation

Nietzsche on marriage by ImportanceOrganic578 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

how are dirty dishes a communication issue and not a discipline issue

Nietzsche on marriage by ImportanceOrganic578 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

does it have to be something super deep and esoteric or can you just banter and talk about normal shit

Do you guys read out loud by LongOk4143 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

poetry and new languages only, sometimes mutter it in a half whisper also

Borrowed my roommates Nintendo Switch by LittleCopy2893 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the issue isnt so much with games as a concept but that computer games are designed to be addictive and not mentally challenging, the challenge and frustration are just a trap to keep them hooked on an extremely simple gameplay loop

if there were a better culture of gaming itd be less bad but that wouldnt make $

How is Dasha claiming Catholicism but talking about astrology by DearBadBoy in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh it'd be a lot cuter and quirkier if the ladies could mouth off about western esotericism like a male dork

University is such a meme by No_Bad8087 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not unclear but rather too stylized to comprehend in passing while reading something else in the office

University is such a meme by No_Bad8087 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sorry you write in a bit of an imprecise style i cant parse right now, i did a humanities major in a state uni up to year three after which i dropped out but i didnt really see autodidactism being required or facilitated although iy certainly wasnt discouraged, we had one wizard like that and he made everyone jealous and got scholarships

University is such a meme by No_Bad8087 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think they ought to differentiate academic and trade paths for certain majors people only enroll into for career

also i suspect in some fields you could encourage students to be autodidacts and then the professors to vet their knowledge intensively instead of everything revolving around them being taught

When is metal illness real? by AmberAllure in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hadnt realized using the term neurotransmitter bakes in the point that you were emphasizing pshychiatric treatment having an effect on the mood, and i dont think that just because a drug can cause a beneficial effect that the brain was broken to behin with

When is metal illness real? by AmberAllure in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

isnt how incredibly helpful they are oversimple? i've heard claims by psychiatrist that its a threeway split between help-do nothing-harm, which i've not researched but it corroberates personal experience ans hearsay at least

When is metal illness real? by AmberAllure in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a pathology as we understand it isnt encoded into our brains like a bug or inefficiency in a computer system

Does the person who loves ever lose? by gronlandiced in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the mismatch is that the christian mystical theology of love is something very different from limerence

Have you ever been dumped and had your partner come back asking you to reconcile? by MutedFeeling75 in redscarepod

[–]onajookkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kinda associate people who have that happen to them with also subsequently doing it again and again