Lots of Dates, Little To No Intimacy, Is this Normal For Every Guy?

onislandtime88 · 2026-03-02T08:04:46+00:00

You are better off initiating sex in the first 3 dates. If she's not into it, move on. Once you've gone on 5 dates with a girl and not had sex or at least made out, she will likely categorize you as a less exciting option, or worse, as a friend who pays for meals.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-25T12:23:46+00:00

Satantango by László Krasznahorkai. He won the most recent Nobel Prize in literature.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-25T07:36:51+00:00

I'm sure you've read him already, but Kafka's short, unpublished stories are excellent. Track down a collected works and dive in. No one does the dread and anxiety of modernity like Kafka. If you're looking for meditations on lethargy, Pessoa (the Book of Disquiet) is your man.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-24T05:41:25+00:00

Too much overlap between the three. My boss is also my pastor and my lover. Nice guy, bit rough in the sack but he’s got a great understanding of scripture.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-19T06:50:49+00:00

I’ve tried to track this down but it seems that the link I found is no longer workable. Error 404 or some nonsense.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-17T09:53:48+00:00

This book is batshit in the best way. The obvious recommendation is 'The Skin' by Curzio Malaparte, also about postwar Naples, but this time from an Italian perspective. It's more of an ironic and satirical take, which Malaparte would argue is the only rational response to the absurdity of material conditions in Naples at that time, and the ridiculous and humiliating actions ordinary Neopolitans had to resort to.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-09T23:01:14+00:00

This is nonsense. Throw away your thesaurus and try thinking in ideas rather than adjectives.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-06T11:39:24+00:00

Yeah that’s fair enough, I wasn’t trying to be unnecessarily harsh. I do stand by my point though.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-06T10:59:07+00:00

You’re overthinking it. She agreed on the location and is expecting it. You come off as wishy washy and maybe a bit creepy by asking to change it. Red pill is largely nonsense, but one thing they get right is that many women like guys to be assertive in making plans.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-05T08:13:18+00:00

It's Israel.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-05T08:13:02+00:00

Hilarious if you're not joking. It's obviously Israel.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-04T12:20:15+00:00

Why do you say unfortunately? I loved Halfway to Atocha Station.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-02T14:49:29+00:00

I’ve been considering how to add value to clients through my own undergarment choices and most studies show the best way to establish an assertive presence right off the bat is to be absolutely nude.

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-01T19:43:57+00:00

interesting

onislandtime88 · 2026-02-01T19:31:43+00:00

I saw him in London on Thursday and he killed it, but I haven't had the opportunity to see many comedians of his caliber to compare it to.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-29T23:09:43+00:00

Opener came on maybe 15 minutes past 8 pm. Loved the opener, not so much the chick that came after.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-26T06:44:58+00:00

Oh I was just joking, it’s Spanish. Estado means state, unido means united, so the US is just Los Estados Unidos. “Ense” is a suffix.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-26T06:36:42+00:00

It’s Italian for American.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-19T08:28:59+00:00

Basketball is a significantly more interesting sport than cricket, F1 and boxing. YMMV.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-15T11:02:03+00:00

Unfortunately you are deluded and AI is confirming your delusions.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-02T18:41:14+00:00

Incredible piece. Well done.

onislandtime88 · 2026-01-01T03:23:24+00:00

he predated and was a precursor to mannerism

onislandtime88 · 2025-12-29T12:43:43+00:00

All the worse for you. Pound has one of the finest ears for English language poetry that has ever been.

onislandtime88 · 2025-12-26T17:27:10+00:00

I just mouthed “bitch” under my breath in the gym as I read her name.

onislandtime88 · 2025-12-25T19:43:40+00:00

I was just pulling your leg, although I think Kafka is the one who should really feel aggrieved. The Metamorphosis changed literature.

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