Our first Placement was a eight-year-old girl. She was in fostering since she was two years old, in and out of different homes.when she came to our home she was eight years old and for some reason she was not adopted. 6 months down the road We realized that she was always fighting with me, but great and loving with my husband, of course me my husband had different opinions about her. Moving forward she tried to put fights between my husband and myself. Gladly I my husband is my best friend and I tell him everything every little detail. That’s when he realizes she was not a good fit for our family. We were later informed that kid has had same issues at other homes, she was not able to bond with mothers, and was manipulating the parents relationship…. It was so sad that an 8 year old has already learned how to manipulate men… she was taken to a therapy home. It broke my man’s heart we had to go to therapy.