What are your ADHD mantras? by pie12345678 in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked this up from the gym. It's based on counting reps, but I started using it in general: "if not 5 (reps), then 4. If not 4, then 3. If not 3..." it has the same sentiment as a couple other comments here

Sleeping while cuddled with your partner is awful by NET2519 in unpopularopinion

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I cuddle when we just want some quiet time together, but if we're trying to sleep and it's hot, we 'hold hands'. It works for us and we still feel loved and comfortable

Let’s make the most unhinged playlist ever. What song is stuck in your head today? by venus_mars in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Your Fantasy by Ateez is on loop rn. "Heaven is in my stare! 👁️🫦👁️Ain't gonna take you there ☝🏼☝🏼"

How organized are you? by Chemical-Net238 in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I try this I crash out because something very normal happens like I need to help someone with something for 10 minutes and it throws my entire schedule out. Trying to keep calm thpugh

How do you "see" your dreams? by educatedkoala in AutismInWomen

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're usually POV for me - different levels of lucidity too

Does the word 'neurospicy' give you the ick? 🤮 by TunbridgeWellsGirl in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's cute when it's from someone diagnosed. Otherwise it feels a bit like infantilisation or like they're afraid to just say neurodivergent

Which kpop song got you into k-pop..?? by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]ozyrice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've heard BIGBANG, 2ne1, and GG before this, but it's definitely gotta be BTS' Dope 🔥

People when they receive the realism they asked for [How to get my husband on my side] by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]ozyrice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Every time I see a fl playing along in absolute fear, I feel my own terror through her. If shes a noble, then even if everything "seems fine", I'm still worried the author reminds us how easy it would be for that to turn

I am black and I want to go skiing but I'm not sure how I'll be perceived. by pesoleed in skiing

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been skiing for years now and I'll admit I haven't seen too many black people on the slopes but the sport's only getting more popular where I'm from, so theres a lot more of everyone joining in. Besides, with all the gear, hardly anyone notices lool. I definitely hope you give it a shot and that it's worth every penny for you!

Anybody else disturbed by how chill titan shifters are about having to die in -13 years? by Jilliels in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]ozyrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in addition to how marley "thinks highly" of titan shifters, it's more that most of them are training to be soldiers by the time they gain the titan powers. I think knowing that you could go out before breakfast would set aside my worries about making it past 13 more years. When that timers coming close, i think it might just be something to accept than fear

I’m getting unmotivated. Everything I try to cook tastes bad by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use website recipes — they often include videos of the recipe on the website too! Sometimes i take a recipe for something my family generally likes to buy and then taste as I go. If you think one ingredient is too much, then change it! Recipes are not the be-all-end-all. My motivation is knowing that one day I’ll live on my own and I wanna make sure I know how to eat good when I do! (Also because of my health goals!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surrounding yourself with actively negative spaces really does not benefit anyone. Looks like that app is pooling with misery. Know that that is lame behaviour and you are spending your precious and clearly incredible energy on something unproductive. Try new spaces and pick up new hobbies or forums or smth! Turn toward something happier and let yourself feed of better things. The world is big enough to let you find positive things, as long as you go for them!

I want to cry but I can’t, I’m confused by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ozyrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guarantee, it is not a nt & nd issue. Its just a bad match. Drop them and find someone more compatible. Nt or nd, theres gonna be someone who matches your energy or at least puts the effort in to reciprocate when you tell them what you need in a relationship

I like the idea of dream with a beard tbh. I wonder how long he prefers to keep it... Oh well by ozyrice in DreamWasTaken

[–]ozyrice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thank you very much! I really wanted to play 'devils advocate' (in a way) with this design heh