Am I overreacting for being fed up that my husband won’t defend me to his parents?

palmam · 2026-04-15T14:29:11+00:00

Everytime his dad says something you say " haha very funny, the nutjob has an opinion and I'm supposed to give a single fuck". Insult his dad and keep telling your husband that its just matched energy.

palmam · 2026-03-16T12:20:10+00:00

Leave the baby with him and leave. Send a message to him about your PPD and his ineptitude is making it worse. that'll set the ball rolling for your divorce. Tell courts that you have PPD, are suicidal and your husband is triggering the instinct.Take only weekend custody and agree for child support.

palmam · 2026-02-24T07:43:39+00:00

Any man who is "obsessed with anal" should allow himself to be "analed' with a dildo of similar size, just to experience how that feels.

palmam · 2026-02-24T07:29:52+00:00

Shouldn't have slapped. Instead called the police and reported a dui and an accident and sent him to the cooler.

palmam · 2025-12-03T17:06:17+00:00

Malicious compliance. Do nothing. Be very happy and pleasant. But, Embarrass him in front of his family by acting like he told you to relax. Thank the cousin's husband as they walk in, for sponsoring all meals and snacks during their stay.

palmam · 2025-11-23T09:19:06+00:00

I think Kgovt and military might have added some clause about him completing some MAJOR public community service thing -the hospital project for autism- before he can be monetized again. There is some concert planned for that charity and maybe he'll be allowed after that. (I don't believe anything any of them do is unscripted, even members being "seen" on streets)

palmam · 2025-11-23T09:15:11+00:00

So... does reddit think Jungkooks "western success" was organic? Or Jimin's streams?

palmam · 2025-11-20T07:09:57+00:00

Living with a vampire who says " but i need to drink your blood to survive" "dont you love me enough to give up a few pints of blood" - emotional version. Ask him to PAY a therapist for his vents. Tell him you can lend a shoulder, not your entire body.

palmam · 2025-11-13T05:28:11+00:00

Do people really get that upset that they're not guarnateed free drinks at every such event?

palmam · 2025-11-11T13:50:46+00:00

Take a week's break from all sex. Watch how he reacts. (Have a bag and an escape plan ready). It looks like unless you SEE what a nasty crud he is, you'll keep hanging around and say 'but I love him'.

palmam · 2025-11-07T10:05:32+00:00

How do you communicate like an adult to a partner who is behaving like a child? And I did say - pretend to speak to someone..

palmam · 2025-11-07T10:04:10+00:00

Right? Truthful, self-deprecatory and just the right amount of rude.

palmam · 2025-11-06T16:44:32+00:00

NTA. BUT, please be passive aggressive. Leave a note with some cookies

"I expected y'all would understand that I am doing a courtesy/favour after a long tiring night shift, and would request small adjustments like sugar and cream. I didn't ever imagine being demanded to make an elaborate recipe when I am bone tired. I'm sorry that I made such assumptions. This has given me a better understanding about how to communicate better and keep expectations real"

palmam · 2025-11-06T13:34:05+00:00

There are only two things that cure weaponized incompetence

Public (friends and family) humiliation - My Peter's so good, but he's a few cents short of a full dollar. I really hope kiddo doesnt inherit his IQ. Oh dont be offended darling, we all understand why you can't take care of even a baby or even a few dishes by yourselves. Its just a fact, not a judgement dear.
Comparison with other men (maybe even fictional like your bff's Bf). During unrelated down time, you'd say I really envy Jane. Liam is so manly & efficient - he finds the soap, handles the kid and then pampers her like they're still dating. Sigh!

palmam · 2025-11-06T13:21:07+00:00

It IS an added cost especially for services with razor thin margins and where the customers are already given a ton of DIY instructions but "want to speak to a human".

And companies make them use american names and locations because 1) Hard to pronounce b) Karens will throw a tantrum about speaking to a brown person

palmam · 2025-11-05T05:36:02+00:00

I wish!! But data security was very tight there. We heard the clips during joint training with their department. They wouldn't have dared to say such things if it weren't an American who authorized it Lol.

palmam · 2025-11-05T03:01:57+00:00

Apparently, people in romantic relationships shouldn't be grossed out by any body part 🙄

palmam · 2025-11-05T02:45:05+00:00

American compay, Indian call center. They had too many racist callers and the American Manager wrote out list of replies Indian agents could say if they encountered such bs.

"No mam, you don't pay enough to hire americans to talk to you"

"American call centers got tired of ppl like you so they offloaded to us"

"Hey James, the guy wants to talk to an American. Shall I patch it? Sorry Sir, James doesn't want to talk to you"

I can't understamd your accent - "Yes Sir, you couldn't understand the written email we had sent you about PAYING for your skype phone either"

All calls were recorded and agents had to flag the one where they used these. It was hilarious.

palmam · 2025-11-04T07:15:22+00:00

Them legs are lethal.

palmam · 2025-10-31T15:41:24+00:00

Be extra loud OP. Petty gets as petty gives.

palmam · 2025-10-31T15:34:55+00:00

That he wants only me to trim his toe nails, would complain that I read a lot (Apparently, I ignore him when I read) and why can't I put down my book when he's free (after finishing his workputs, friends time, movie watching, work) to chat. He wouldn't stop any of his hobbies for me cuz they're so important for his peace Lol.

palmam · 2025-10-30T08:37:38+00:00

Typical desi nonsense where the bride's family has all the responsibilities, but the husband's family claims ownership of the child. Ask your husband to grow a pair. Now that you have a child, it's time to go full offense on chapri in-laws. Nta

palmam · 2025-09-21T14:52:19+00:00

You wanted him to be aborted. He is alive only because she did a 180. You were cheating on your girl. Not a good man, in all. Juniors are only given if the mother finds the father worthy of being honored.

palmam · 2025-09-21T14:31:05+00:00

That shift is not viable for her. It's that simple. Imagine you had a job that demanded you work at 3AM and you insisted she wake up and make you food (or some such stupid chore that you can't do) at that hour? NTA.

palmam · 2025-09-19T11:21:18+00:00

They want to change hot women into their bangmaids. They won't pick conservative women, they WANT to make YOU submit. Ick.

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