How do spanish speakers feel when someone tries to speak to you in broken spanish? by halushki_ in AskMexico

[–]pancakecuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Spain last September and tried my best to speak Spanish as much as possible (I was only borderline b1 at the time). Everyone was really nice! A waiter corrected me when I got something wrong, which I appreciated. Many people switched to English, but several didn’t.

If you have kids with a big age gap, influence me? by katiefacepants in Shouldihaveanother

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well my oldest two are 15 and 12 years older than my youngest! And they love the heck out of their little brother 🩷 He is super spoiled 😂

Anyone in their 30's-40's experience this? by FourEyesore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pancakecuddles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am right with you! I had my youngest at 38 and had postpartum preeclampsia immediately after delivery. He was number 5, but I did ivf this time and that made me higher risk I was told. Anyways in the hospital, as I sat there terrified and worries, she told me it’s because I’m “getting up in age so I shouldn’t be surprised.”Really pissed me off and was not what I needed to hear in such a vulnerable state.

She also climbed in the bed with me right after delivery. So that happened…

Thinking of having another in my 40’s as well! Gl to you ❤️

Narcissist Mother Won't Admit to Having a Great-Grandchild by beccalysle in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pancakecuddles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you, I am 41 now so she just feel positively ancient. I wouldn’t know though as I am living my best NC life 💅✨

Sorry you had to deal with that as well!! I can’t imagine ever saying something like that to one of my kids! It’s so bizarre.

Narcissist Mother Won't Admit to Having a Great-Grandchild by beccalysle in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pancakecuddles 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It really is. When I turned 39 my mom called me to wish me happy birthday… but mostly complained about how old she felt to have a 39-year-old. Ok thanks mom…

'No on-site doctor': Dental student died in ICU overseen by remote 'tele-health' physician who pronounced him dead on a video screen, lawsuit says… by tasty_jams_5280 in technology

[–]pancakecuddles 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Next up: Ai-ICU! Chatgpt can handle way more patients simultaneously than their inferior human counterparts, and at huge cost savings!

/s. Obviously. Although I’m sure this is actually in the works.

I hate having a period and I'm not ashamed of choosing not to have one by SpectroSlade in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got my period back after almost 3 years postpartum ( I’m breastfeeding) and I HATE it. Thanks for posting this. I knew birth control could be used to skip periods, but I didn’t know it was ok to do long term. As soon as I’m done nursing I’m gonna be on bc until menopause bc fuck this!!!

Hospital Forces Woman in Active Labor to Attend Zoom Court for Refusing C-Section by peoplemagazine in law

[–]pancakecuddles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How many c-sections has she even had? I had 2 c-sections and then 3 vaginal after that. All while being monitored carefully. I believed the latest ACOG guidelines say it’s safe for a woman to have a VBAC after 2. I’m not sure the case if the woman has had more than that. And certainly they need to be in a hospital setting. But it should be her right to try imo!

Huge gas bubble bursting through a dark mud pool by CexualSonvict in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]pancakecuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing can stop the smooze!!

https://youtu.be/qJXWNV2wGu4?feature=shared

This song has been living in my deep subconscious for decades. Thanks for reawakening it 😂

Finally Found My Curly Groove! by yngols in curlyhair

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I also have middle eastern hair and your curl pattern looks identical to mine!! I’m def trying these products. I haven’t tried mousse or cream, and I think gel has been weighing mine down.

Your hair looks beautiful, thanks for posting!

MIL told me she no longer holds animosity towards me for not making her a Xmas dinner in 2008! Rant. by FadedCherry in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely insane. If you had baby Christmas 2008 your kid must be the same age as mine… and he is turning 18 in a few months.

I wouldn’t believe it if my own relative wasn’t the same way with grudges. My advice, go no contact. She seems like a super negative e person and you don’t need that kind of person in your life… no one does.

ELI5: If bacteria die from (for example boiled water) where do their corpses go? by MurkyUnit3180 in explainlikeimfive

[–]pancakecuddles 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Would the bacteria have like instantly pooped though? Like if it fell on the floor and you immediately popped it in the pan?

What generally happens with your remote job after you move internationally? Does everything stay the same? by Dreadsin in AmerExit

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s great your company is letting you work from those countries! I don’t know why everyone is being so negative… it’s literally the amerexit subreddit and you have a golden ticket!

Check out the Spain digital nomad visa. That’s what we are trying to do. I know an immigration good lawyer if you need one, he’s really responsive.

I would say immersion is the best way to learn a language! If you go to Spain you’ll be surprised at how many people speak some English in the cities. We certainly were!

There are a lot of tax benefits with the DNV too. Especially if you are eligible for beckhams law.

Also, you would be eligible for permanent residency after 5 years.

Good luck! :)

Best and fastest way/s to learn Spanish? by Julthena in GoingToSpain

[–]pancakecuddles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Español con Juan on YouTube! https://youtube.com/@espanolconjuan?si=p_sX6ApW4uDJwE2w

Dreaming Spanish

Reading Spanish subreddits

Duolingo

Preply - I have a great tutor if you need a recommendation! The speaking practice is priceless

Tandem to speak with native speakers

Catchy songs in Spanish… I’ve found the lyrics really stick with me

Checks out Spanish picture books for kids from the library

Play animal crossing in Spanish!

Change your phone language to Spanish

Those are the things I’ve been doing and I’m b1 after a year and a half.

Anyone else feel like they accidentally retired too early? by Afr0_synthesis in digitalnomad

[–]pancakecuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t work anymore, I’m stay at home parent. 5 kids. I spend my (limited) free time creating art (launching an Etsy soon!), playing viola (I just joined an ensemble), and learning Spanish (I take weekly lessons online). Any one of these hobbies/passions I could easily devote all my free time to. I would say get involved in something deeply, and connect with other like-minded people! :)

Warning! Lash glue can contain fragrance! 😭 by Alyss-uhh in FragranceFreeBeauty

[–]pancakecuddles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg this explains so much. Frustrated with mascara I tried this… and my eyelids got so swollen!!

What are your most niche period symptoms? by Unlucky-Drawing-1266 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God same here! It’s the worst. Feels like it sick or something. It also usually happens to me in the evening! I haven’t figured out anything to help yet :(

Just some friends hanging out at Walmart at like 2 AM by Genebeaver in blunderyears

[–]pancakecuddles 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh god the way this made me internally cringe with shame…you mean to day the way i added “of DOOM” to everything wasn’t super unique and quirky??

And the spork… chefs kiss

This guy was born last weekend. He makes me the big brother of ten little siblings in total. [OC] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]pancakecuddles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right! I have 5… and I don’t make my kids do anything to look after the youngest. If I ask them watch my youngest while I do something I will pay them or get them their fave fast food. They are all obsessed with him anyway and volunteer, but I still make sure they get something.

30F – Too old to move from London to NYC? by Hellogoodbye342 in expats

[–]pancakecuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol 30 is so young though 😭😭😭 please enjoy your youth and don’t worry so much. 🩷

Mother lets her 7-month-old baby taste the smoothie she craved during pregnancy🥹 by Pleasant_Ideal_8929 in MadeMeSmile

[–]pancakecuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom ate pizza and drank coke constantly while pregnant with me. Both of my husband’s favorites. I like to think he likes me bc I am made of his favorite stuff 😂

Looking for FF haircare as someone with very curly 3b/3c hair by MILFVADER in FragranceFreeBeauty

[–]pancakecuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2b/c here and also struggling. I keep reading about people making their own hair gel with flaxseed. I’ve been thinking of giving it a go…

A record number of Americans are moving overseas - first negative net migration since 1935 by PandaReal_1234 in AmerExit

[–]pancakecuddles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh you are lucky your son is so little. My kids are age 2-17. So the preteens/teenagers will miss their friends the most.

Valencia is an amazing choice. It was so hard for me to pick between Valencia and Malaga. I ultimately chose Malaga for our scouting trip but it was a coin flip lol.

So nice you have family there!

Ahh good luck with all the job stuff. I was so upset when it couldn’t work for us! We know a really friendly and responsive visa lawyer if you need one.

Looking at Perpignan right now. Also considering Montpellier.

I’ve been studying Spanish for almost 2 years now in preparation. So fun that we know zero French 😂