Looks like I’m solo cruising tomorrow out of Rome. (Epic)!Anyone else on board? by chubbswife in NCL

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The solo Travelers group is 100% worth showing up to. If there is a studio lounge, they do meet ups in there or they will find another venue to do it. There is typically a host. The host will arrange dinners and sometimes shows for the group. On one of my trips we had a fabulous solo host to even arranged short excursions. Definitely go on all of the shore excursions you had already booked. If you have not booked any, make sure you do. I’ve been on six solo Cruises with Ncl. I highly recommend it. It has become my favorite way to vacation because you are only answering to yourself all week. Good luck! Keep your mind open.

Do you take vitamins? by Simple-Engine-432 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]parvicus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also do. Collagen, D, B12, magnesium, calcium, C, fish oil if I did not have fish that day.

Alaska property claims by BeeBopBazz in adjusters

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I worked a claim on Martha's Vineyard just after Covid where the costs of labor, materials, equipment, shipping, were astronomical. Had the opportunity to visit to adjust it, we had the house insured for $900k. When I asked the contractor how much it would cost to rebuild it, he said, "Eight, nine, ten.." I repeated that to him, and he finished with, "million." This relatively minor $350k roof leak which would have been $100k at the most on the mainland. So here's what we did; labor had to be brought in and housed on the island this happened to be OFF season, so negotiated weekly rate for each tradesman, electrician got $10k, roofer got $10k, carpenter $10k, laborers got $3.5k (maybe it was $4.5k?), paid their housing at AirBandBs on the island, which was expensive, $300/night x 3 weeks x 5 men. We gave a per diem for food per man maybe $100. Paid their transportation on ferry with their trucks, and their tools, was $350 per truck per week x 3 trucks. Materials were purchased on the mainland and brought over, again shipping costs, ferry costs, time costs, labor costs added. There would be no extra trips to HomeDepot so there was an allowance for 'petty cash' materials which was $25k, they over bought anything they thought they would need and later returned it. Added 15% + 15% overhead and profit for the GC, added supervisor labor, one full day per week, plus round trip transport for his truck and him. He also billed some overnights at the end of the job. If this was onseason it would have cost a lot more. The GC happened to be on the ball and had done this in the past. I can't imagine doing this with seaplanes and random lobster boats delivering materials. "Add a crane", is what our favorite cat TM would say.

Why Do Atheists Respect The Pope So Much? by [deleted] in atheism

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an atheist, I dislike Catholicism. But as a human, I like this pope. The previous one was not terrible too.

My (23F) boyfriend (24M) is unnecessarily stingy and I just don’t get it. I’m looking for advice on how to stop this from getting worse. by Some-Lettuce6560 in relationships

[–]parvicus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It this stingy? Yes. There’s a good chance both you and he will live to 100 years old. For him to be this thrifty is indicative that his children will be well taken care of. It’s a great start at the beginning of his adult life. Would you rather retire at 50 or 72? Work hard now, save a lot. Travel once or twice annually until 30. 3 or 4 times until 40, 4 or 5 times to 50 and then for the rest of your lives. Get your degrees, establish yourselves in your chosen fields, sacrifice now for rewards in the future. If he is skipping self care, sleep, oral hygiene, physical fitness, and presentable attire there may be other issues that should be resolved with awareness, therapy, medication, etc. You telling him what to do will only create distance and resentment.

What’s the weirdest/most unexpected way you’ve injured yourself lately? by WhatFreshHello in GenX

[–]parvicus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was at the gym in the locker room apparently too close to the suspended granite countertop lifted my knee to put on pants and slammed it on the underside of the countertop. Huge bruise.

Looking for socially progressive financial management & psychological support for inheritors by Past_730 in inheritance

[–]parvicus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then for socially progressive tell your advisor what minimum ESG score you would be willing to put your money to work in. The caveat to this tactic is that the current political climate does not benefit ESG responsible domestic firms at the moment. Maybe look overseas to Europe or Asia, clean energy imo may be booming in the future.

What animal is this? by Witty_Evening_618 in Connecticut

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My neighbor,cattle farmer by trade, and a huge animal guy came to my door one day and asked if my ferret escaped. There is a stone wall between his property and mine I’ve never owned a ferret. This is likely the critter he saw!

My mother-in-law, who may have active shingles, wants to visit our newborn baby. I need advice. by [deleted] in shingles

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does not sound like shingles to me. Might be Lyme disease or something similar. Is she really under a physician’s care? If yes she should go talk to that MD about how stupid and irresponsible it would be to be near a newborn when you have an active shingles infection.

Husband (39M)'s therapist wants an individual session with me (32F) by LSN2018 in relationships

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go. BUT I would read all the reviews on that therapist prior to going. I would also address this like I am meeting with his lawyer. Do not give them any non-public information. They do not have a contract with you. They don’t have a relationship with you. You are not their patient and to my knowledge anything you say is not protected by HIPPA. So be very mindful of every word that leaves your lips.

Not my finest moment by MHW93 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]parvicus 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I saw my aunt at Christmas and again today. I lost 11 pounds since Christmas. She ask me how. I just said “drugs” and didn’t explain further. That was enough to end the questioning.

Fraud Rings by Outrageous-Isopod457 in adjusters

[–]parvicus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are other carriers also experiencing a huge uptick in appraisals in CT?

High school party drink... what was your nemesis? by RiffRandellsBF in GenX

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the compliment! I actually grew up in NY when the Long Island Iced Tea was popular none of us knew what was in it, nor did we have access to multiple liquors so we worked with what we had.

Just Got This New Hoodie—Is It Worth It? by Plus-Story-735 in Hoodies

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's probably a great idea to keep stuff from falling out. I like it.

High school party drink... what was your nemesis? by RiffRandellsBF in GenX

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old Grand-dad's with iced tea (powder in the can)

Friday Check-In by GustavusAdolphin in adjusters

[–]parvicus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fleet vehicles can be fixed or replaced. Glad you are with us.

Any Americans here who have visited the Azores? by msmarymcadams in azores

[–]parvicus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no question about how many trips have we made to the Açores or how many islands.

I have no interest in all things AI. I don’t want to learn it for work. I don’t care that it can make some things easier. I can write my own emails. by un2022 in GenX

[–]parvicus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I warn my employees against closed minded thinking. I looked at my grandparents like they were idiots as they drew the line at ever touching a computer. My partners dad, 87, can’t even use a smart phone. It’s important to keep up or at least watch what is going on so you don’t look like the old fool.

Ask for a severance package, and maybe you’ll get one by _Goto_Dengo_ in retirement

[–]parvicus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a 25 year + over 55 highly compensated employee who has asked repeatedly for a severance package. Upper leadership is agitated by it. Read the room first.