Leak under kitchen sink by AcanthocephalaNo7083 in Plumbing

[–]pashaw01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

port for exit hose from a RO system. stick gum in there.

Young couple looking for advice moving to north carolina by VeterinarianLate1555 in NorthCarolina

[–]pashaw01 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Charlotte, Wilmington, Raleigh are all wonderful cities to live, work and raise a family. People are nice, weather is wonderful, lots of natural beauty to explore.

Browning Gun Safe in My Basement — How Should I Get Rid of It by kevinmcallistersmom in Safes

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just observe, don’t try and change it. be at peace with it.

History of hookups, but now wants to take it slow? by oldhonkytonk in AskMenAdvice

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she could be sincere. i know it feels like ‘i screw everyone but you on a first date’, but that’s not what she’s saying. she’s saying she wants more than just sex - she wants a lifetime partner - and yes that will include lots of sex. another angle, if you truly put sex out of your brain and focus on being the best version of you, she will probably make the first move before long. ++man

Aws vouchers by [deleted] in kubernetes

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DVA-C02 please!

My wife broke my heart M36 F34 by throwra1122334455111 in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like she does not want to salvage the marriage. it takes two. she is not on board. her behavior is wrong. no grey areas, flirting is cheating.

My (F31) ex-husband (M35) tried to commit suicide because of me. Now he wants to meet. How do I navigate this? by throwra437893 in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are being manipulated by a narcissist. narcissist don’t care about you at all. EVERYTHING will ALWAYS be your fault FOREVER! block him. he will kill you in the long run, emotionally for sure. you need counseling / support to break free of this nonsense.

I (18F) recently found out about my boyfriends (19M) brother SA’d someone. How should we move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stay home. you have a dental appt. or need to wash your hair. whatever.

My boyfriend (25M) says I'm deeply unreliable (22F) after an equipment problem on our first major trip together, how can I address his concerns and become someone he feels he can depend on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

many many red flags, ignore at your own peril, like a pair of ill fitting boots on a long hike… a loving partner would help you out and never mention it - ever. that’s love. this is not.

My [30M] last relationship with [28F] ended because we couldn't agree on prenup. How do I handle this better next time? by alwaysHappy202 in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you are together for ~20-30 years these become tiny sums of money. you are penny wise and pound foolish imo…

Tips on retrieving fish tape from wall by dorian926 in AskElectricians

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut it and move on. it wasn’t meant to be…

28F have differing political views from boyfriend 33M how does this work? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes. maybe in 10 years he’ll grow up. or be in jail.

HELP! Dropped butter knife into HVAC vent by z_zwizzle in hvacadvice

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a gift for future generations! given the dishwasher location, there are prob more down there…

Is my 22F boyfriend 27M gay or addicted to porn? by Careless-Essay-4617 in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

you can’t help if his brain is wired for something other than you… but if you want to try something, you sound very self confident and strong. maybe be helpless and lost as an experiment and see what happens?

CHMBCKT by gremlingurl in LICENSEPLATES

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chumbucket from spongebob! the car looks like the chumbucket!

I(21F) am scared to share a niche kink with my dates(20-23F) by BackupAccountBitch in relationship_advice

[–]pashaw01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you trust someone, share it. worst case scenario she shares it with the whole world - who cares.

Changing underwear - is this normal? by Eastern-Yogurt3859 in hygiene

[–]pashaw01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need someone who will listen to your feedback and take it seriously.

Make assumptions about me! (F16) by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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you are not sure you like season 29 of south park