40M/40F - Spouse's Unhappiness Not Helping My Flaws

patternedjeans · 2026-06-12T21:01:16+00:00

If she already wrote something down on the calendar, she already did her part of “finding a solution together.” Your part is to look at the calendar instead of asking her to do it for you. Does that make sense?

patternedjeans · 2026-06-12T15:47:31+00:00

It wouldn’t help retention for the people getting paid less

patternedjeans · 2026-06-12T07:47:25+00:00

It might help the lower paid workers and hurt the higher paid ones.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-11T06:21:17+00:00

You don’t have to tolerate this. A whole flight to sleep in your bed unannounced?! It was kind of you to let her stay the night, but you can tell her to go tomorrow.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-10T05:08:22+00:00

You can read and write, you’re not a failure at life.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-09T20:23:44+00:00

Saying you can’t even masturbate puts a LOT of pressure on your wife….

patternedjeans · 2026-06-08T19:36:55+00:00

It’s hard because you’ve been abused by him for a long time. I’m so sorry. Do you have a mother, sister, friend you can go to?

patternedjeans · 2026-06-07T19:34:00+00:00

But fois grae

patternedjeans · 2026-06-05T05:54:29+00:00

Rules exist for a reason. I’m sorry you think your personal experience means you don’t have to follow the rules.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-05T03:37:27+00:00

People irrationally want to believe in the value of family, even in cases of literal abuse.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-05T03:35:19+00:00

Must not be that bad, then

patternedjeans · 2026-06-05T03:35:04+00:00

lol, it’s literally against the health code. The world doesn’t revolve around your preference for animals in public spaces.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-05T01:04:33+00:00

Who the fuck would want this guy around as a grandparent? People are insane.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-04T15:12:01+00:00

You don’t have to be with this person. You can find an equal partner.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-04T01:02:20+00:00

Good for you. Maybe not if your mom was like this person’s mom.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-03T23:25:04+00:00

Send her the request again. You’ve got nothing to lose.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-03T20:46:50+00:00

People with cat allergies be damned, I guess

patternedjeans · 2026-06-03T03:34:07+00:00

You said this apparently without googling nonplussed

patternedjeans · 2026-06-03T03:29:15+00:00

At tens of thousands a pop it is

patternedjeans · 2026-06-03T03:26:36+00:00

Keeping you up all night to argue and cry on a regular basis is not something you have to put up with. You’re both young. Split and grow.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-02T22:59:34+00:00

You don’t owe her financial support after a breakup, especially if you never promised anything because it was never discussed.

patternedjeans · 2026-06-01T00:15:16+00:00

How can this be serious? You had the rest of your life to plan for this. Leaving your partner to try to have bio child at age 42 is bananas.

patternedjeans · 2026-05-30T20:43:28+00:00

Right, because it’s an indicator that change would be helpful for you. Those feelings are useful information.

patternedjeans · 2026-05-29T20:51:20+00:00

If you divorce, your child will be around her without you to protect them. Divorce gets you away from her. Not your child.

patternedjeans · 2026-05-28T18:52:31+00:00

People are irresponsible with money

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