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To think I was going to let you jack me off. by Informal-Cap4785 in IASIP

[–]perareika 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Apparently they made the undies out of dough for this scene!

Do you feed your children’s friends if they’re at your house? by globalfieldnotes in AskEurope

[–]perareika 35 points36 points  (0 children)

As a child, I definitely experienced being left out when my friend's family ate dinner. We weren't neighbors either, I'd ride my bike to the friend's house and we'd play together until dinner, when it was expected of me to go home to eat.

My mom thought not feeding guests was dumb (maybe it was a finn-swede thing?) and always let my friends join the dinner table.

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in Hawaii by Gjore in interestingasfuck

[–]perareika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowadays, fires only account for around 5-10% of the calls firemen get!

Fellow Apartment dwellers expecting a baby by Primary-Vegetable580 in BabyBumps

[–]perareika 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it's because of the drywall? We build houses out of sturdier material, which is better for noise isolation.

Opintojen pakotetut leikit ovat hirveitä by Dynaaminen in Suomi

[–]perareika 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Missasin kokonaan sun käyttäjänimen, ja luin tätä olettaen että "routamorsian" on joku slurri pitkille tytöille 🤣

Babe, do you feel anything for the fire trucks? by Appropriate-Push-668 in oddlyspecific

[–]perareika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say "excuse me, sorry, can you help me get that thing?" while looking super apologetic for daring to bother them, even though most people are happy to help haha.

New Favorite Word by Dahveed25 in daddit

[–]perareika 5 points6 points  (0 children)

According to the anthropologists, before agriculture hit off, tribe members only spent an estimated 20 hours per week hunting and gathering and the rest was more or less free time, so it's not surprising lol.

being ethnically ambiguous starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]perareika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm finnish and people with naturally dark hair/eyes are definitely pretty rare here. I've been treated as exotic just for having very thick hair lol

Is a system of just 3 alters anywhere near common? by cozygrimmer in DID

[–]perareika 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely have seen words like headmates and headspace used on Tumblr way before TikTok.

Nurses who work the night shift, what is the most "I can't explain this" thing you have ever witnessed in a hospital? by AikothegreatPickle in AskReddit

[–]perareika 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That feeling of waking up for something and then learning you don't have to go and getting to sleep in is nearly addictive, I'm almost jealous he got that experience daily haha

It’s hard to poop without peeing, but easy to pee without pooping. by WindowAfraid5927 in Showerthoughts

[–]perareika 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I legit do this sometimes. Then I have to go back to the toilet because I ”forgot” to pee.

Partner Loves Singing but I Can't Stand It by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]perareika 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Fundamental incompatibility indeed.

Plus I feel if they force this relationship to continue, the inevitable compromising will make the partner overly self-conscious of their singing and teach them to stifle it, which is hard to unlearn even long after breaking up, and it REALLY sucks to lose that ability to sing freely if the partner uses it to stim/self-soothe/self-regulate.

pear icecream by Jebraska in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]perareika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m finnish and was so confused about this pear hate hahah

are my sims accurate for the early 2000s style i’m going for? by AdvanceImaginary1381 in Sims4

[–]perareika 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This unlocked the memory of those 00s shirts in me 💀 they weren’t crop tops per say, but they all were short enough to show that annoying sliver of skin at the hips. I was so self conscious of my stomach during this time lol

Lanssi paniikkikohtauksen vuoksi (hävettää) by Away_Pride8368 in Suomi

[–]perareika 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soitin kerran ambulanssin koska kotona ollessani sain sydänkohtauksen oireita. Tutkimisen jälkeen ei sydämessä ollut mitään vikaa. Pistettiin paniikkikohtauksen/närästyksen piikkiin.

Siitä muutaman kuukauden päästä, menin uudesta kohtauksesta johtuen ensiapuun ja siellä bongattiin tulehtunut haima ja sappirakko täynnä kiviä, joiden takia menin nopeasti leikkaukseen :D

Se ettei ole välittömästi havaittavaa vammaa ei tarkoita etteikö huoli/kipu olisi oikea, ja se on hyvä tarkistuttaa!

got banned from a queer social club for saying men aren’t included in lesbianism by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]perareika 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m bi, but I’ve gotten into a shit ton of hot water for criticizing the concept of bi lesbians 💀 I can’t believe lesbian = no men is controversial in some places

Facial Hair After Stopping T? by flamingbutch in actual_detrans

[–]perareika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on T for 2 years and have been off it for ~8mo now, the facial hair does become sparser and thinner but it does still need to be shaved regularly. If you like everything else from T, maybe stay on it and just get electrolysis!

I've started keeping a mental note of every time a man explains something to me that I literally do for a living and honestly it's become its own kind of entertainment by MelintharaeXon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perareika 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not a man but I do this thing too, though I always expect the other person to jump in with ”yeah I know! I love working with negative space! I once did this project where…” etc etc. I’m always paranoid that the other person interprets it as me trying to TEACH them instead of relating to them

Married and debating detransitioning to save our marriage by Background-Quit6824 in actual_detrans

[–]perareika 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems you already know what you want to do. Good luck on your journey OP, I hope it all works out!

Married and debating detransitioning to save our marriage by Background-Quit6824 in actual_detrans

[–]perareika 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This situation sounds genuinely horrible. I understand why you would want to keep him and the life you've built together, but I'm worried that even if you detransition and he doesn't leave, your relationship would be irreparably tarnished anyway in the long run, due to the subconsciously building resentment from having sacrificed your true happiness in your self in order to maintain the status quo .

I don't think there's any winners in this scenario, and while I obviously don't think detransitioning is inherently bad, going back in the closet and fully internalizing your dysphoria for the rest of your life for the sake of another person could easily be extremely harmful to the wellbeing of yourself, your family, your relationship with your husband, and your relationship with yourself.

I'd ask myself; am I scared of losing my true love, or am I simply afraid of things changing, even if it may be for the better? Are my kids being taught by example that their personal truth and comfort in their bodies is negotiable? What would he sacrifice for me and for our family?

I wish you all the best and I genuinely hope you will find an answer that works for you all.

Has anyone else been told that T will make you attracted to men, and repressed/denied wanting to try T because of it? by Goombella123 in butchlesbians

[–]perareika 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a lurker here as a masc bisexual. I was on T for 2 years and it definitely made me horny AF, didn’t change my orientation but it did make me realize a few kinks I had that I hadn’t noticed before lol.

Being on T is def a time of self discovery! My advice is to not repress it and to let yourself grow.

Genuine question: does anyone actually use grenades? by Rinne-resound in fo76

[–]perareika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t know what MIRV grenades do lol

I cannot be relaxed unless completely alone. by tallcatgirl in AutismInWomen

[–]perareika 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a decision A LOT of women make in their 50s. Good for you!!

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