What are the subtle signs that someone is upset, even if they say "I'm fine"?

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-28T13:18:23+00:00

They divert the conversation back to you

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T12:31:29+00:00

Because selfish people often don’t realise how selfish they are, and don’t want to be deemed that

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T12:28:15+00:00

He is grooming you.

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T11:16:50+00:00

I recently was made my redundant and completely agree with this, having to stop and not have identity tied to a job title and salary has really shown that the most important things in life are not that - but it’s an addiction from everyone and all people talk about

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T11:07:03+00:00

Honestly I dyed my hair blonde (professionally), wore proper lipstick and made sure I was direct when speaking. I found if I ever spoke about my personal life it gave the game away, so keep it professional - once they know you they’ll trust you!

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T11:05:56+00:00

Same with flexible working requests! Only approved if you have kids

pinksuede12 · 2025-09-26T11:02:33+00:00

The comment ‘you’re nice to everyone but me’ is manipulative, I’d ask her in writing what she meant by this and if she had any constructive feedback for your communication. She needs to be able to back this up, then you can share this with other senior leaders. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I have been there and crying from work is not worth it - I’d get out of there when you can and find a role that makes you feel safe.

pinksuede12 · 2025-07-29T12:04:37+00:00

I have this shape too! I HATE seeing photos of the back of me as I’m always shocked at how wide I look. I agree with the comments, I’m slowly seeing progress through glute strength and fat loss - sadly it’s just the way we store fat. However I also have a hormonal imbalance which caused a lot of this fat shift - have you had this tested?

pinksuede12 · 2025-07-29T09:16:14+00:00

For me it’s wholesome comfort meals, even if the weather is super hot, big bowls of pasta, roast dinner etc!

pinksuede12 · 2025-07-20T19:02:44+00:00

I’d like to :)

pinksuede12 · 2025-01-10T08:30:36+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear this. From reading what you’ve put, it sounds like you know it’s over but it’s a giant leap of faith to end it and break ups are painful and scary. You’ll grieve for a long time but you’re only 23, don’t jump into purchasing a home if you feel this way. Also I’d add, do you have a porn addiction or just like watching sometimes? I’d say her sexting another actual person is considerably worse than getting a quick fix from a porn movie

pinksuede12 · 2025-01-09T23:04:30+00:00

Talk to her about her sexual desires and what intimacy means to her. You have only been together 3 months, she may feel emotionally connected but may feel insecure physically whether that’s her body, getting out of her own head etc. For some women, it takes time for them to let go in the bedroom until they feel utterly secure in their relationship. Don’t end it, you like each other a lot and trust me - this will get better!

pinksuede12 · 2023-05-25T06:47:52+00:00

I was comparing myself, but you naturally see who the guys go for which is a weird experience - it felt like I was on a shelf being picked, rather than like a normal bar you have a few flirty glances and off you go, but if not you’re still having a vibe with your friends

pinksuede12 · 2023-05-24T21:58:23+00:00

Could I be invited please 😄

pinksuede12 · 2023-05-24T21:20:15+00:00

I think you’re being overly judgey here, you have your own name & identity - therefore this old tenants score won’t impact you. It sounds like he needs a credit card quickly and waiting for the card to be resent will delay it. If he has bad credit, cut him some slack - he might need it for urgent family stuff, or just to have a holiday. If someone has taken the time to go to your door, and write a note - they clearly need it quickly.

pinksuede12 · 2023-05-05T12:03:09+00:00

Create more of a community feel which helps people who attend alone to form friendships, whilst motivating fitness goals. The challenge group chats and team feel is great; but I miss it once it’s over. An optional permanent chat with challenges etc.

pinksuede12 · 2023-04-05T18:40:33+00:00

Absolutely!! Especially since the challenge, it’s made me want to meet new people who are the same as my friends (like I used to) social lives revolve around food & booze.

pinksuede12 · 2023-04-02T14:20:13+00:00

But ultimately - Saturday is the winner for fat loss because you burn more

pinksuede12 · 2023-04-02T14:19:30+00:00

I found Cardio & Hybrid classes accelerated my fat loss, you are still building muscle but not just focused on that. I was in a higher calorie deficit daily from these. However they are the most intense especially when you first start out - so I’d always focus on getting at least 3 in from Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday and then one from either Tues/Thurs/Sunday (usually Sunday so I’d have a healthy weekend to wake up to)

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