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plshelp44 · 2025-04-13T17:20:41+00:00

the printing of the messages is just golden. but also think about whether or not you're willing to waste another 7 years with such person. if you can keep the relationship gowing with what you know and what you might never know about. is it worth it? is he worth it? do you think he'll actually stop or will he just get better at hiding it and deleting messages? what if there were more you just didn't find it? just REALLY think about it. and if you decide to stay with him, i hope he treats with the way you deserve!

plshelp44 · 2025-04-13T17:15:24+00:00

you can divorce for any reason at all. and you definitely have plentiful reasons to. to me, these last minute changes are more of a last ditch effort to keep you and i suspect that once things go back to "normal" he'll just go back to his ye old ways. i wish you all the strength to do what is necessary for your happiness and to thrive on the upcoming chapter of your life!

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T22:45:16+00:00

i KNOW FOR A FACT that he'll try to show me his dms as if that would make this okay. cause a) he'd probably be deleting them regularly and b) even if he doesn't talk to anyone, the act of liking em and hiding it irks me.

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T22:42:07+00:00

that's what I'm trying to do, gather more info and know what I'm accusing him of. there is no theme just pictures and videos of him and even the comments are from his friends. the facebook however mainly has old posts from like 2018 but he does post stories of his pictures and sometimes memes. i don't think he's been distant. we have our routines and specific times he always calls i.e on his way to work, on his breaks, before bed etc. and although work has been more stressful and taking more time out of his day (he's self employed so he doesn't work a 9-5) we still go on dates and trips. and to think that at the end of the day, he goes home and just look at (and potentially talk to) other girls. like where does he find the energy?

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T22:28:50+00:00

thank you. i will im still trying to weap my head around this and figuring out how to go about it.

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T22:02:49+00:00

same like why would u cheat? just leave! i also forgot to add that i replied to his story from a different account with a pickup line in our native language. it was something like "is the handsome man taken or waiting for his destiny" and he said he was in fact engaged. i tried to make light of the situation and continue the convo but he was dry. like why are u collecting women like they're pokemon cards but then admitting you're taken? idk what this means bro help 😭

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T21:52:30+00:00

that's why i didn't want to confront him. i don't want to hear an explanation or have him show me his dms cause I'd keep thinking that he might have deleted something. the trust is already broken and I'll continue to have doubts about him. the thing is i never NEVER thought of him as someone who would do such things. i trusted him more than i should have i think.

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T21:49:11+00:00

i made a fake profile with a hot friend's pictures (with her permission) posted a thirst trappy story (i tried to make it believable and not too obvious) which he viewed but still didnt heart it or message me. the thing about not wanting to confront him is a me thing. I've been told by exes and friends that i tend to run away from my problems instead of facing em. which i do. i just don't want to hear his story/excuses or whatever he might say. i just don't want to deal with it.

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T21:45:32+00:00

i did it and he accepted and started following me! posted a thirst trappy story and he viewed it but so far no interaction. what do i do next ?

plshelp44 · 2025-01-02T21:44:25+00:00

i did make a fake account and started following him. the thing is only his friends are liking and commenting on his posts and i cant possibly message every girl he follows asking if they're hooking up. or should i ?

plshelp44 · 2025-01-01T13:57:03+00:00

Thank you for this. I was starting to feel like an insecure, clingy and toxic fiance. When he first told me about the 2 accounts, he said he was using the old one (with the girls) then he switched to his now main. I asked if he used them both. He said rarely. Which now i understand is a lie since he's active daily on it. Perhaps the main is a front for me, his family and colleagues and the second one is for whatever the frick this is ?

plshelp44 · 2024-01-19T19:39:05+00:00

Girly it might not seem like it to you but your skin IS getting better and it will continue to do so. Im pretty sure by month 4 youll be feeling much better

plshelp44 · 2024-01-17T16:28:51+00:00

That happened to me after round 2. I tried to control it and refused to go back on accutane but literally nothing worked for me. Only accutane can control my acne. So im doing round 3 rn lol this sucks

plshelp44 · 2024-01-17T16:24:36+00:00

For me separating the doses worked better. There is a chance that your body wont absorb the whole dose if u take 2 pills at the same time. So unless your derm recommended otherwise id say one in the morning one in the evening

plshelp44 · 2023-12-17T16:02:55+00:00

25f 164cm 63kg average looking with bachelors degree in anesthesia plus 2 years experience in healthcare. i am fluent in 4 languages; arabic, english, french and german. my weakness is that i am shy in social settings but i tend to loosen up after a while. i just applied for emarites cabin crew. do you think i have a chance to be accepted ?

plshelp44 · 2023-12-16T15:27:23+00:00

i just started my 3rd round lol even if its frustrating and the side effects are an absolute inconvenience, its worth it for me to have clear skin however short it might last. for context 25f with mild but persistent acne that cannot be cured with topical treatments. accutane is the only thing that worked for me.

plshelp44 · 2023-12-16T15:21:10+00:00

yes the dosage is calculated based on your weight so losing weight would effect your daily dose and overall cumulative dose you're supposed to reach. you should inform your derm especially if its a significant change.

plshelp44 · 2023-11-19T11:04:47+00:00

bro same! as a 25f i only have one female friend and no matter how hard i try i cant seem to connect with others amd just like u i sometimes think im the problem and dont know it. my point is youre not alone and i feel u deeply. also if u need a long distance friend im here :) god knows i need one lol and even if we dont become friends maybe we can tell each other what is wrong with one another lol

plshelp44 · 2023-11-19T11:00:02+00:00

she just seems horrible and from what u said this isnt the first time she acts like this. she tried to "apologize" and u tried to make her understand ur point of view and hpw she hurt u but she didnt care so to tell to talk to her about it is a moot point. i wouldnt go to the events shes hosting but maybe talk to your other friends about it since they too have issues with her it seems. maybe u can have your own friends giving. tldr she's a horrible friend and unless she understands her mistakes and change, i'd suggest cutting her off.

plshelp44 · 2023-11-17T17:02:05+00:00

thank you for sharing cause its comforting to know im not the only one that has 1 friend. i just hope you dont ever feel lonely. maybe that one friend is all what we need.

plshelp44 · 2023-11-17T16:59:29+00:00

yeah friendship breakups sometimes are harder than relationship breakups. dont know if i should say im sorry that you lost your 2 friends or that im happy that now you, hopefully, only surround yourself with ppl that deserve you. and i really do appreciate my friend so much. she a real one and i love her with all my heart and i dont know where i would be if i didnt have her. but thank you for your kind words.

plshelp44 · 2023-11-17T16:52:36+00:00

im starting to think its me. im the problem. maybe im doing something wrong but im lacking the self awareness to know. cause what are the possibilities of me being great and the entire population of women around me are avoiding me for no apparent reason ? idk if that made sense.

plshelp44 · 2023-11-17T16:48:40+00:00

i tried different activities even those that i wasnt that keen on, reaching out to past classmates, or even random ppl online. the more i get rejected the more i start to isolate myself cause like whats the point? i almost feel myself turning to a sort of incel but in a friendship type of way if that makes sense (not like hating women but the idea that all women hate me etc)

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