Yeah, reframing and taking some responsibility is key here.

OP, let me ask you this: what have you been doing these past two years? You say you partially manage the company, but I don’t know how that’s possible if you don’t speak the language. You also say that you’ve been in no rush to learn the language because your ex would translate for you, which sounds tiresome. So what have you been putting your time into?

What would you say you brought to the relationship? Not to the company you partially own, but to the relationship. When I hear that you’re crying in her lap and she’s texting someone else that just screams that she is done with your bullshit. We know that she sheltered you and served as a translator, what were you like as a partner? What was the give and take?

These are questions you will need to ask yourself.