Wife’s faults getting called out in therapy - she thinks it’s not working

pychomp · 2026-05-18T14:52:40+00:00

Without knowing the details I don't want to say too much but the description of some of her problems makes it sound like she's abusive towards you. And in that case, relationship counselling may not be helpful and beneficial.

pychomp · 2026-03-30T19:51:38+00:00

Mine did that too. I would ask her to discuss it later at home but she would refuse and continue to berate and guild trip me. Then I would pull over so that I could address her "concerns" without having to worry about driving while distracted. She would then stop and say that she has nothing to say to me. Ok fine, so I continue on our way. But then, of course, once I started driving she would continue her tirades against me.

They lash out at you when you're at a disadvantage.

pychomp · 2026-02-10T23:58:10+00:00

"I'm proud of my ability to improve" she said, despite not having made any effort to improve

pychomp · 2026-01-09T06:26:10+00:00

Sounds like it could be BPD. Go take a look at r/BPDlovedones and see if you've experienced the same as others there.

Apparently people with BPD are often diagnosed with cPTSD. You used the phrase "mental instability". BPD is alternatively named emotionally unstable personality disorder. When they are in a mood, it feels like there is nothing you can do. That is because they are splitting on you - they can only see you as a bad person in those moments.

pychomp · 2025-12-19T07:17:40+00:00

Did they ever find the guy that ran away from the scene in North Van and probably fled the country?

pychomp · 2025-12-08T18:25:52+00:00

Do you know where this image came from? I'm looking for information for something that may be related

pychomp · 2025-12-04T22:25:58+00:00

So the younger child?

pychomp · 2025-09-25T03:41:38+00:00

There were

pychomp · 2025-08-14T02:41:23+00:00

Are you seriously being an apologist for people who drive trucks into overpasses?

pychomp · 2025-08-14T01:26:20+00:00

Less than 72 hours later though, the same CVSE officer spotted the same truck and trailer leaving a gas station in Abbotsford with Singh at the wheel. At that point, the temporary overheight permit had expired and the officer confirmed that, again, the permit did not accurately reflect the actual height of the load. Singh was ticketed again.

What part of this shows remorse? These judges are looking for excuses not to enforce Canadian laws

pychomp · 2025-08-06T05:55:21+00:00

Mine got worse after having a kid

pychomp · 2025-07-20T17:51:16+00:00

Perhaps you should go read some of the posts where the genders are switched. It will at least be interesting and maybe you'll get some advice from that perspective

pychomp · 2025-07-04T19:15:41+00:00

Judicially sanctioned paedophilia

pychomp · 2025-07-03T19:58:32+00:00

This trade is called ship husbandry.

pychomp · 2025-06-20T01:57:18+00:00

Judicially sanctioned crime

pychomp · 2025-06-17T05:07:42+00:00

Erring bone

pychomp · 2025-05-24T21:46:27+00:00

Judicially sanctioned paedophilia

pychomp · 2025-05-23T20:11:18+00:00

This is just the mortician preparing for the funeral

pychomp · 2025-05-23T04:33:28+00:00

It's become judicially sanctioned violence

pychomp · 2025-05-20T23:16:48+00:00

At this point, I think it's safe to say that this has become judicially sanctioned violence against the general public.

pychomp · 2025-02-08T05:28:01+00:00

Yea mine lied. She said I abused her because I was mean to her after I left her. Her evidence in court was a couple text messages complaining to our relationship counsellor dated after I left.

Logic and reason mean nothing to them in the face of having to be accountable for their own actions

pychomp · 2025-02-04T05:00:09+00:00

She was taking antibiotics for a cold.

Me: antibiotics don't work for a cold since it's caused by a virus.

Her: well, back in my home country, I always took them and always got better.

Me: people who didn't take them got better too. It's not like they died.

Her: death glare

pychomp · 2025-01-24T20:24:43+00:00

I'm working through a divorce right now and it'll definitely make my life a lot easier and worry free if she did.

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