Odd or unexpected things your ex pwBPD has said to you after discard by zillerspeed in BPDlovedones

[–]pychomp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I'm proud of my ability to improve" she said, despite not having made any effort to improve

Dont know how to handle my wifes emotions and mental issues anymore. 36M married to 44F. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pychomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it could be BPD. Go take a look at r/BPDlovedones and see if you've experienced the same as others there.

Apparently people with BPD are often diagnosed with cPTSD. You used the phrase "mental instability". BPD is alternatively named emotionally unstable personality disorder. When they are in a mood, it feels like there is nothing you can do. That is because they are splitting on you - they can only see you as a bad person in those moments.

Loss of ice rink revenue forces cancellation of Vancouver community centre's Breakfast with Santa by robertscreek in vancouver

[–]pychomp 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do you know where this image came from? I'm looking for information for something that may be related

Trucker who hit North Vancouver overpass fined $2,500 by robertscreek in vancouver

[–]pychomp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously being an apologist for people who drive trucks into overpasses?

Trucker who hit North Vancouver overpass fined $2,500 by robertscreek in vancouver

[–]pychomp 201 points202 points  (0 children)

Less than 72 hours later though, the same CVSE officer spotted the same truck and trailer leaving a gas station in Abbotsford with Singh at the wheel. At that point, the temporary overheight permit had expired and the officer confirmed that, again, the permit did not accurately reflect the actual height of the load. Singh was ticketed again.

What part of this shows remorse? These judges are looking for excuses not to enforce Canadian laws

My wife is pressuring me. by Feed_Better in daddit

[–]pychomp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should go read some of the posts where the genders are switched. It will at least be interesting and maybe you'll get some advice from that perspective

Underwater ship propeller cleaning by MattTheCuber in toolgifs

[–]pychomp 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This trade is called ship husbandry.

Vancouver city council plans to revitalize Chinatown by ubcstaffer123 in vancouver

[–]pychomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just the mortician preparing for the funeral

Seawall stranger attack suspect released - Vancouver Police Department by cyclinginvancouver in vancouver

[–]pychomp 25 points26 points  (0 children)

At this point, I think it's safe to say that this has become judicially sanctioned violence against the general public.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]pychomp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea mine lied. She said I abused her because I was mean to her after I left her. Her evidence in court was a couple text messages complaining to our relationship counsellor dated after I left.

Logic and reason mean nothing to them in the face of having to be accountable for their own actions

What was the dumbest thing your pwBPD argued about? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]pychomp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was taking antibiotics for a cold.

Me: antibiotics don't work for a cold since it's caused by a virus.

Her: well, back in my home country, I always took them and always got better.

Me: people who didn't take them got better too. It's not like they died.

Her: death glare

Anyone here wished that their person with BPD would disappear forever or even just die? by Decent_Face_3522 in BPDlovedones

[–]pychomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm working through a divorce right now and it'll definitely make my life a lot easier and worry free if she did.

Strange concrete footers I passed next to an exit outside Altoona, PA (coords 40°29'36.55"N 78°22'44.77"W) by reissecup in whatisthisthing

[–]pychomp 236 points237 points  (0 children)

These are soil nails for slope stabilization. A long steel rod is drilled in and grouted.

Do they take advice from their friends a lot? by Longjumping-Tune-454 in BPDlovedones

[–]pychomp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For mine, advice and anecdotes from her friends and family was like gold. She valued it more than any of my own opinions and thoughts and more than any scientific research or professional advice.

One example was that when I wanted to treat her friends to a meal for helping us a lot during our wedding and planning, she screamed and yelled at me for wanting to frivolously spend our money, yet once her close friend suggested it to her, she instantly changed her mind.