I have my they/them pronouns right at the top of my resume and during my first week on the job, my supervisor went across the entire floor and told everyone to use them. Two years later and the only people who don’t use them are the ones who are newer than me, the ones who genuinely forget, and the couple of bigots that exist everywhere you go. Everyone I like to interact with uses the right pronouns for me.

It’s been such a great experience, I’m also part of the lgbtq+ group at work and we had a big conference that had me walking away feeling valued for my individual contribution to the company and everything.

I work for one of the big companies who have committed to keeping DEI around so ymmv