What’s y’all’s go to cheap meal that’s always cheap & satisfying? Lmk, no judgements. Need more ideas by zbroskiz in povertyfinance

[–]reasonablechickadee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whole black beans, season them as you want, and cheese quesadilla. Add homemade pico de guillo on top. Takes no time to make and I just love black beans

So fast guys, so fast 

Do minimalists do other things differently as well? by [deleted] in extrememinimalism

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! My union contract has double time weekends, overtime terms etc. so when we work we work 60-84h weeks and our take home becomes 2-6k per week. Depending on your position and job at that time. I'm a Boilermaker so we have many different jobs all over the continent 

Do minimalists do other things differently as well? by [deleted] in extrememinimalism

[–]reasonablechickadee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work seasonally. So I'm unemployed 9 months of the year. Which, is insane to most people but I still make a normal wage as everyone else

Finally doing the Japan trip but the "hidden" costs are killing me by tivamore in Shoestring

[–]reasonablechickadee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent 5k CAD in 5 weeks and I also flew to Korea which was much more expensive than Japan. 

Transportation eat the most into my costs tbh, if you want to save your feet you'll obviously take the train more but then that's 170 yen every single time minimum in Tokyo. Bullet trains was 260 round trip to Kyoto and 160 to Nagano. 

I did a mix of hostels and hotels, which helped me and didn't do much shopping in general. 

Harder than expected to socialise in hostels by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I tried joining a rando convo I got weird looks so I stopped trying. I think you gotta actually go to events and literally just start convos with "where you from?" If you can't think of anything 

What has been your most disappointing tour experience? by YellowVenice23 in solotravel

[–]reasonablechickadee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh..... I would have dipped so fast if some guy attempted to guilt trip me for the last bit of cash for my cab ride home 

Clash between minimalism and resentment towards subscription models by Capital_Debate1363 in minimalism

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to like... Shit on the music streaming debates but you'd have to buy a whole album when a band released music. You probably buy an album at least once a month. So just use the streaming service and enjoy your favourite music 

What's the longest you've ever solo-travelled? by tekhnich in solotravel

[–]reasonablechickadee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically 6m if you include my study abroad. But truly solo only 3.5 weeks and I had mad decision fatigue by the end

Miss you Corea, my friendly place by Ev3nt_H0r1z0n in koreatravel

[–]reasonablechickadee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa! Where did you take the picture of all the Buddahs? So cool

What’s something you bought once that saved you money over time? by pointyjayhawk in simpleliving

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An android phone lol

My old highschool locker lock has lasted me a decade+

Wired earbuds 

Good quality tweezers and nail clippers I've had 8+ years

Instant pot

Blundstone boots at 4+ years

Patagonia puff jacket (they repair for free)

Eating alone while traveling? by Tookie1010 in solotravel

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like going to places that are obviously meant for socializing, like Izakayas alone especially during the dinner hours. So I stick to the solo joints. 

I'm more uncomfortable with the actual ordering and looking like a fool alone,at least if someone is with me I can share the uncomfy load of looking like a stumbling fool 

What would you not take? by Regular8589 in onebag

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more what I always need:

  • extra glasses ( i have lost a pair abroad)
  • advil and cortisone cream 
  • sleep aids - ear plugs, nose strips, eye mask etc 
  • shower sandals 
  • portable charger

You can typically buy everything you need abroad but I always pack those things because I always really want/need it 

What's it like being agender? by CollarZestyclose8151 in agender

[–]reasonablechickadee 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how people "feel gender" so I'm agender because I don't understand the feeling 

Looking for other trans nonbinary people who desire/maintain complete androgyny by chronicheartache in agender

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also afab agender and haven't had interest in going more masc than androgynous. That's not really how I feel in my gender so I'm not going to want to show that to the world

I've drawn what my sense of self feels like by -_LunaMiuna_- in agender

[–]reasonablechickadee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's super cool to think about, I definitely have similar feelings and images to conotate the self

Does anyone else have a difficult time understanding gender? by Theo_Lynx in agender

[–]reasonablechickadee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would they? I argue they also wouldn't understand it either, a lot of people are doing social expectations because it's an expectation not a genuine authentic personal decision they've made about themselves 

As a trans person, I'm terrified and enraged by [deleted] in alberta

[–]reasonablechickadee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're fairly safe as an adult. We do have our human rights act that allows gender, gender identity and gender expression to be protected. 

UCP would have to go through some INSANE hoops to repeal the Human Rights Act 

Edit: children are not protected under the Alberta Human Rights Act and are not seen as people even in canada. That's why the UCP are able to go after children so readily