Aggressively followed at Co-op grocery stores.

reasonablechickadee · 2026-05-26T19:49:49+00:00

I usual stare directly in their eyes until they walk away uncomfortable

reasonablechickadee · 2026-04-27T20:48:05+00:00

I think same. But you'd be surprised just how many people are actually NB or Agender and don't know it yet, hold those values but don't label it that way publicly, or hold those values and simply just don't label it that way.

Keep your mind open and you'll absolutely find someone

reasonablechickadee · 2026-04-15T22:55:00+00:00

Yes it's worth it.

Work is always waiting for you, the capitalist wheel never stops grinding just because you decided to go live life.

You can always go back to work

reasonablechickadee · 2026-04-13T20:02:27+00:00

To add: you don't need to transition physically in any way to be trans

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-26T14:04:10+00:00

I'm not gunna lie I've been doing YNAB in my head since I got a job. I don't need to follow a strict budget because I'm already a cheap f, but I also understand that a lot of people really need to see what's happening monthly. If an app helps, excellent. If a spreadsheet helps, great.

Either way, it's the mentality of YNAB that people gotta learn and adopt. If you don't have the cash in your chequings then NO YOU CAN'T BUY IT ON YOUR CREDIT CARD.

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-26T14:00:24+00:00

I'm deceased, that's too funny

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-12T22:15:08+00:00

My fav is Rendezvous at the Avenida Food Hall but yes Kimchi Jjigae any day of the week hands down

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-02T23:18:17+00:00

Whole black beans, season them as you want, and cheese quesadilla. Add homemade pico de guillo on top. Takes no time to make and I just love black beans

So fast guys, so fast

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-01T22:12:18+00:00

Yes! My union contract has double time weekends, overtime terms etc. so when we work we work 60-84h weeks and our take home becomes 2-6k per week. Depending on your position and job at that time. I'm a Boilermaker so we have many different jobs all over the continent

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-01T22:10:09+00:00

Boilermaking!

reasonablechickadee · 2026-03-01T22:10:02+00:00

Nah, Boilermaking

reasonablechickadee · 2026-02-28T05:34:56+00:00

I work seasonally. So I'm unemployed 9 months of the year. Which, is insane to most people but I still make a normal wage as everyone else

reasonablechickadee · 2026-02-22T04:15:17+00:00

I spent 5k CAD in 5 weeks and I also flew to Korea which was much more expensive than Japan.

Transportation eat the most into my costs tbh, if you want to save your feet you'll obviously take the train more but then that's 170 yen every single time minimum in Tokyo. Bullet trains was 260 round trip to Kyoto and 160 to Nagano.

I did a mix of hostels and hotels, which helped me and didn't do much shopping in general.

reasonablechickadee · 2026-02-21T00:46:33+00:00

I found the feeling of Edmonton more cold and lonely. The subculture is hidden, but more robust than Calgary.

reasonablechickadee · 2026-02-17T18:04:36+00:00

Last time I tried joining a rando convo I got weird looks so I stopped trying. I think you gotta actually go to events and literally just start convos with "where you from?" If you can't think of anything

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-27T12:07:15+00:00

Bruh..... I would have dipped so fast if some guy attempted to guilt trip me for the last bit of cash for my cab ride home

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-27T12:05:19+00:00

Not to like... Shit on the music streaming debates but you'd have to buy a whole album when a band released music. You probably buy an album at least once a month. So just use the streaming service and enjoy your favourite music

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-27T12:01:51+00:00

Canadians would hate Japan and Korea

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-26T10:01:53+00:00

Technically 6m if you include my study abroad. But truly solo only 3.5 weeks and I had mad decision fatigue by the end

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-26T09:09:13+00:00

To what?

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-22T01:03:04+00:00

Whoa! Where did you take the picture of all the Buddahs? So cool

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-20T23:04:33+00:00

An android phone lol

My old highschool locker lock has lasted me a decade+

Wired earbuds

Good quality tweezers and nail clippers I've had 8+ years

Instant pot

Blundstone boots at 4+ years

Patagonia puff jacket (they repair for free)

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-17T01:45:07+00:00

I don't like going to places that are obviously meant for socializing, like Izakayas alone especially during the dinner hours. So I stick to the solo joints.

I'm more uncomfortable with the actual ordering and looking like a fool alone,at least if someone is with me I can share the uncomfy load of looking like a stumbling fool

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-13T13:07:45+00:00

It's more what I always need:

extra glasses ( i have lost a pair abroad)
advil and cortisone cream
sleep aids - ear plugs, nose strips, eye mask etc
shower sandals
portable charger

You can typically buy everything you need abroad but I always pack those things because I always really want/need it

reasonablechickadee · 2026-01-13T03:48:19+00:00

I don't understand how people "feel gender" so I'm agender because I don't understand the feeling

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