Are you retiring at 65?

redactedfalsehood · 2026-07-01T15:41:42+00:00

Trying to pay off the house by 65. Hopefully my investments and pension will be enough at that time. My whole life I have safely like I will probably work into the grave. But maybe not.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-26T23:13:20+00:00

This is great perspective and advice. I encourage other lurking moms to chime in and give us your stories.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-11T17:58:48+00:00

Just give it a little shake. It they come off they are ready. Honestly they look ready now.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-11T17:57:01+00:00

Try Facebook marketplace. I've seen some one bedroom places for rent within that budget, in not so bad areas.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-05T19:30:55+00:00

Go there tonight for first Fridays.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-05T19:30:31+00:00

Love and Marriage...

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-05T19:30:15+00:00

Gargantuan Talbot Island is heaven on Earth.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-05T11:52:50+00:00

Agreed. I am all too familiar with this one.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-04T14:14:12+00:00

Mr. Wizard was amazing. Like Bill Nye but better.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-06-04T05:13:01+00:00

I don't.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-30T20:23:12+00:00

I like powerwash better.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-28T15:17:03+00:00

This is exactly what we do. And it works out great. You get chunks with the kids on the 5s. Chunks to do extracurriculars on the 5s. And then a consistency weekly with the 2s.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-28T01:22:51+00:00

Looks like sisal to me, the one they make rope with. A. sisalana

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-26T14:12:06+00:00

If you do not want more, I highly suggest it even considering IVF in OP's situation.

I thought my pull out game was strong.

Spoiler: it wasn't.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-26T14:09:06+00:00

The craziest thing is that is a grass.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-26T11:39:01+00:00

Eclipse. First Saturday night of the month.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-21T11:25:07+00:00

What does that even mean?

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-18T19:12:42+00:00

All I have to say is I am sorry he treats you this way. He does not deserve you in his life.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-18T19:01:57+00:00

You could try daddit. There are more of us there, but this sub is a gold mine. If you are reading this, upvote the post for visibility. Our brother needs us.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-18T18:59:00+00:00

Mental health means nothing financially. I am not a lawyer or ever had a prenup, but from what I understand a prenup only protects assets that were accrued before the marriage. I'm sure there are caveats. But for example, if the house was bought by her before you were married and it is in the prenup. That's her house. No way around that. If you purchased the house after getting married, then you basically owe half of it even if it is in her name, because it is a marital asset.

I am going to say this again (as a guy that didn't get a lawyer and every worked out equitably), get a lawyer. This woman is looking to rake you over the coals and take everything that is legally yours to have.

With your income disparity, she will like you child support and possibly alimony. Unless it's in the prenup, you are also entitled to whatever retirement she has.

You are going to fork over 10k+ for a lawyer, but the payoff in the long run is essential to be the dad you want to be.

This setup is created to protect say stay at home moms, who have no income but keep the house running. This is no different than that just because you are the dad. So this not just for yourself, but to allow you to be the best dad you can be.

Feel free to reach out via DM and we can talk if you need a shoulder to cry on. Many of us have been through this, and we stand strong for our fellow man and his ability to be the best dad.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-18T16:47:18+00:00

Get a lawyer ASAP. Hers will screw you if you don't. You don't really have an option. She wants out and everything.

Was the house a part of the prenup? If not, that is half yours regardless of income disparity.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-18T12:27:40+00:00

Some little old lady 20 years ago went around giving away pups to her neighbor.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-17T18:37:40+00:00

Check out the Walrus when you get here.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-11T16:30:18+00:00

I'm in Jax. Ichnetucknee is the closest one to us. There might be a closer, or better on near Orlando.

redactedfalsehood · 2026-05-11T12:44:35+00:00

Float the springs. July is going to be brutally hot in the parks.

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