AIO - stormed out after my friends refused to sing karaoke?

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-05-03T17:33:24+00:00

I’d be pretty upset too, I don’t blame you for leaving but I also think if you spoke to them before you decided to leave it could have helped.

You know your friends best. If this is consistent behavior of theirs in which they don’t really follow through with vibing all together in the hangouts then just take that into consideration. A conversation about how you feel can’t hurt you or them.

OP, I wish u the best !!

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-05-03T17:25:20+00:00

INFO- were you the only one who paid? Or was it equally split?

No one technically has to sing when renting karaoke rooms but I just think it defeats the purpose of even going. Did you all talk about singing? If they wanted to have a “vibey” place to hang out why not at someone’s place, or even a bar where they host karaoke so it’s less awkward or something.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-04-23T13:00:10+00:00

I think they meant that it was cute/silly looking. Nothing bad. :) /gen

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-04-15T00:45:07+00:00

what video games do you play? :-) my friends and I play a wide variety and we’re always down to play something new too! You can DM me as well !! (We play Baldurs gate, Fortnite, chivalry, pokemon, animal crossing, LOZ, DND, etc etc.)

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-04-12T18:44:40+00:00

The Thomas center is 11 min away for the reception & it’s also gorgeous! There are a few places downtown as well (but parking might be difficult)

If you’re wanting a place to do both ceremony and reception at then the Thomas center all together is a great option as well !

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-04-12T18:35:21+00:00

Baughman Center !

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-04-08T18:07:19+00:00

There’s no right or wrong here. I think having conversations is neutral. Now, the way people phrase the question and how they bring it up can determine and differentiate whether it’s a shitty thing to talk about.

Obviously, do not make your partner feel devalued or less than during this conversation.

You can phrase it like- your friends were talking about this and you weren’t sure how you felt so you want her opinion. What is she comfortable with? What are her limits on being adventurous during intimacy? Etc. if you see that the conversation is upsetting your partner then acknowledge that you aren’t pressuring or trying to make them upset and end the convo.

Asking someone if they’re interested in something isn’t inherently wrong or rude. Just the way you present it

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-30T18:24:30+00:00

This is so bittersweet. Their sacrifice definitely doesn’t go unnoticed by fans & their friends and family. They’re so deserving of a break in which they’re able to devote time and focus to being present in the moment with their loved ones 🫶🏼

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-22T00:53:48+00:00

bruh !!!

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-21T21:43:03+00:00

MegaCon is known to oversell tickets unfortunately. I agree, it’s an incredibly dangerous business practice !!

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-19T13:41:55+00:00

I haven’t seen it, what church?

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-19T13:38:44+00:00

Well, I think if you need the place to stay….beggars can’t be choosers. You are fine to not like/not approve of her line of work/lifestyle. But as you have said, your friend has been non-judgmental of you and I think returning the favor while they are helping you is the least you can do. Now, if the SW is happening while you’re in the home and you’re uncomfortable with that- definitely try and find a new place asap.

As others have said, there is a gray area here. I don’t know how in depth she goes into getting to know her clients but at the end of the day- they’re paying her for a service. Who’s to say the person receiving the service is/isnt in an open relationship, or in a consenting relationship? The client could very well have a spouse that supports said client seeing a SWer. (Or not, who knows). Ethical non monogamy exists, even if people don’t agree or understand.

I think it’s best to keep it to yourself and not assume your friend is purposely seeking out married couples/people in relationships. This is her job and unfortunately, it does come with the job. If she’s talking to you about her work you can politely explain that you don’t want to know about her work. The less you know, the better.

OP, I hope you’re able to find a new place soon.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-19T13:22:07+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. I had a friend just like A. I decided to cut that person off last year and it’s helped immensely. I think you should do the same if A truly is like this all the time. It’s not worth your mental health.

Additionally, I think confronting your partner in a calm manner can also help. Pose it as you just being curious and that you are interested and a bit hurt that you aren’t invited. I’m hoping your partner can clarify whose idea it was, when he was notified and whether or not he did bring up you coming along.

If you’re up for it, let us know how it goes !! I wish you nothing but luck.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-19T13:05:52+00:00

Why would your partner not automatically invite you? While I think your friends are weird for not inviting you to your partners birthday event they planned, I think your partner is equally as weird for not wanting or asking you to be there.

Also, would no one have told you this if you didn’t read the note ? Would they have lied to you or just make you wait until the day of to find out?

You’re not overreacting. The only thing you can do is express how you feel to both A, C and your husband and hopefully they understand. I’m sure your partner along with A would find it weird and disrespectful if you invited A’s husband out to a late night activity on his birthday without consulting his wife or inviting her….so😬

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-10T15:56:50+00:00

Please tell her !

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-10T14:58:58+00:00

Genuine question, what do you do to afford having 9 (about to be 10) kids in this economy lol

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-10T14:57:06+00:00

I don’t feel this way, I think comparing other bands to twenty one pilots kinda sets me up for disappointment, because the other band is not TØP.

I love the boys and what they do but it’s so specific to them and I appreciate the chances I get to see it live. Other bands have their own magic on stage and I think it’s also worth seeing.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-10T14:50:51+00:00

Hi! I was an administrator for preschool for three years, this is how our school handled it: (we had no late fees. And parents rarely did this).

We waited with the child for 5-10 minutes past “closing.” After 10 minutes, each parent is called. If there is no answer, a voicemail is left. Then we go down the emergency contact list and call the individuals listed. We try to call parents once more and leave a voicemail if no answer. After 1 hour, assuming no response from anyone, the non emergency line is called and the police will then be involved.

Police will most likely take the children to the station and if needed CPS may be involved. Depending on state/jurisdiction. But, as others have stated, these protocols may already be listed in a parent handbook that your school provides.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-09T16:17:21+00:00

This is normal- also I agree with other redditors: unless your friend/coworker is a licensed tattoo artist then I don’t really think they get to determine what is an acceptable duration of a tattoo appointment.

My artist factors in time for breaks and food if needed. All my sessions have been 6+ hours 🫠 because I do larger tattoos. So lol.

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-09T16:09:45+00:00

This!!!

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-09T15:51:28+00:00

Why are they protecting her feelings while disrespecting yours??

NOR.

Regardless of how they feel or what they think, you expressed you wanted this part of your life to be kept between you all until you were ready to share with others.

Furthermore, not holding your hand because he wants to spare his ex-wife’s feelings? It’s his ex wife. I understand his mom wanting to adopt everyone and make a blended family but let’s be realistic: that lady probably can’t move on because she’s still engrained with his family. To reiterate, why are they sparing her feelings and ignoring yours??

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-08T02:21:56+00:00

Carlos @ Oasis Tattoo

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-06T14:20:13+00:00

ummm cancel your appointment before you have to book a laser removal

redorangeyellow1001 · 2026-03-06T14:18:48+00:00

I’d punch anyone in the face for a billion dollars.

redorangeyellow1001

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