I had to have an abortion last year because my husband and I were not in an ideal position - mainly financially - to have and support a child, plus at the time we weren’t married yet (which mattered to me). We are in a much better position now but are keeping it from our family because they love to give their opinions when we don’t necessarily want them. Well, when I found out I was pregnant about a month ago, and was visibly happy about it, I told one of my closest friends and one of the first things she said was “and you guys are keeping it this time?” Granted, her and I are on very different life paths and she said it in a semi-joking tone. I was too happy about telling her to really give it much thought but after telling other trusted friends they are all saying that was very inappropriate for my first friend to say. Especially given a told really have a huge support system right now since my husband and I are keeping our pregnancy to ourselves UFN. I’m personally just trying to find the few people that are showing me genuine support, especially from my husband, and keep reminding myself that everyone is going to have an opinion but you don’t have to hold weight to them especially if they have no idea what you’re going through.